want2bthere

you're kidding oh BTW evening all, been shopping all day needed a break from all the stress and kids at at their nannys all weekend so i can get lots sorted but soooooooooooooooo quiet

Tiggs+Graz

which one?
she has had at least 4 in the last hour!

Fly Away

I know it's funny isn't it??

Glad that you've had a stress (ish) free day. I bet you're working hard though.

How's it going??

Fly Away

PMSL - I think it's just luck of the draw what comes up on Google - probably will be different tomorrow. Could be much worse...........

want2bthere

ok today, just come to a halt until we hear some more news so if all else fails just SHOP, best i get a few more suit cases soon
anyway got to get up early in morning to car boot and anything thats left is going straight to the tip.

Fly Away

Good luck with the car boot tomorrow. I've boxed up some stuff up to car boot, but may just send it to Oxfam as I'm too lazy to get up at 5am!

Hope you get some news on Monday!!

BTW, why were you BUYING things?? What were you buying - not a dyson? LOL. Knowing you, clothes???

somme

OK babygranson was not at all well and afer being sick all over the place got him of to sleep and all had a long sleep, up at 7.30 am Baby goes home, eldergrandson arrive 2.00 pm I take hime to firework display, while there he hugged me tightly and said " please don't go Nanna" I now want to call everything off, I never thought it would be sooooooooo hard

Please help, I know Dave would be gutted but I don't think I can do this

Reedy

(())It must be so hard for you!!! I am sure that you and Dave will sit down and talk it through and come to the right decision for the both of you.

Good luck honey,

Lau x

Gonnago

OMG Somme ((hugs)) what a really difficult position for you to be in. Cant give any advise as unfortunately we dont have that family support. ;-( Just make sure you do what is right for YOU!!

((hugs))

daunted

somme hugs to you! i have just spent a wonderful evening at the firework display in town. it is always a grand event - music to the fireworks etc but this year music was typical Last night at the proms - was in tears at the end. i have grown very close to someone over last 4 months who if i had met 12 months ago i wouldnt be leaving I guess this is the part when we all start questioning our actions

Fly Away

Oh God. What a horrible choice. As the other have said, you must sit down and talk it through with Dave. You must decide what is best together and only you can know what this is. What ever you decide, your family loves you.

Sending you lots of (((((hugs))))) and positive vibes.

somme

Thanks guys, but I can't talk to Dave he knows what is happening but is DESPERATE to leave and have an adventure (mid life crisis) torn between my man and my offsprings and grand children, dog and home. Oh sh*it, and what this is what I don't know ?

Fly Away

OK. Bottom line, if you're not sure about going, tell him.

Perhaps you could call off the house sale and rent the house out? Tell Dave you will try Australia for a year. After that time, you will have another think. You have lost nothing and can come home to your house.

In your heart of hearts you know what you want to do, you just have to work out what that is.

More (((((hugs)))))

daunted

when do you fly somme? how much time so you have agree with everyone else you really need to talk to Dave abotu it xx

somme

Have I lost my way, why would I have done all this and NOW get cold feet

Thanks I will try tomorrow