Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Oct 18th 2004, 2:15 am
#8041
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
Yep. On the Monday I was whinging on here about a broken washing machine. On the Wednesday I pranged my car and got mild concussion and mild hypothermia after spending nearly 6 hours sitting in it awaiting the RAC. On the Thursday I found out my mum had breast cancer, on the Friday the RAC lost my broken car and on the Saturday the plane taking me to Jersey to be with my mum was bucketed about by a very violent storm. I spent most of the next 5 months in Jersey, got hell at work because of it and now Mr B and I are looking at life in the UK rather than Oz having been just two weeks away from me lodging my spouse visa. And I've no idea what will happen next, but given the rest of this year, I'm not expecting anything good. And yes, friends have done their best, but I am slightly inclined to see someone more professional due to the dramatic number of *life changes* taking place at the moment..... 
Ah well. Whinge over.
Ah well. Whinge over.
And it all seems like yesterday, but it was ages ago.
Geez, yeah, I wouldn't of suggested it, but now you say, maybe it is a good idea to see a professional!
You'll end up like your dad maybe otherwise
Oct 18th 2004, 2:16 am
#8042
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
Yep. On the Monday I was whinging on here about a broken washing machine. On the Wednesday I pranged my car and got mild concussion and mild hypothermia after spending nearly 6 hours sitting in it awaiting the RAC. On the Thursday I found out my mum had breast cancer, on the Friday the RAC lost my broken car and on the Saturday the plane taking me to Jersey to be with my mum was bucketed about by a very violent storm. I spent most of the next 5 months in Jersey, got hell at work because of it and now Mr B and I are looking at life in the UK rather than Oz having been just two weeks away from me lodging my spouse visa. And I've no idea what will happen next, but given the rest of this year, I'm not expecting anything good. And yes, friends have done their best, but I am slightly inclined to see someone more professional due to the dramatic number of *life changes* taking place at the moment.....
Ah well. Whinge over.
Ah well. Whinge over.
Don't be shy of seeing someone "impartial" and not emotional involved, it can work wonders ... for some people anyway.
You have an advantage, you're female, blokes would rather admit to being impotent then seek help ... well, the ones I know anyway ...
Oct 18th 2004, 2:18 am
#8043
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by Simone
bummer.
Bunyips are scary though!
I swear there was one living across the road from where I grew up!
I was scared at night, it made wierd noises!
Bunyips are scary though!
I swear there was one living across the road from where I grew up!
I was scared at night, it made wierd noises!
Oct 18th 2004, 2:20 am
#8044
She's a bird, you know
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by Deadmeat
Doesn't sound like whinging to me, sounds like a whole heap of trouble that would knock most people right out.
Don't be shy of seeing someone "impartial" and not emotional involved, it can work wonders ... for some people anyway.
You have an advantage, you're female, blokes would rather admit to being impotent then seek help ... well, the ones I know anyway ...
Don't be shy of seeing someone "impartial" and not emotional involved, it can work wonders ... for some people anyway.
You have an advantage, you're female, blokes would rather admit to being impotent then seek help ... well, the ones I know anyway ...
LOL! Very true! It's taken my dad 57 years to sort himself out (he had a nervous breakdown when my mum was diagnosed - forgot that in the above list). He has obsessive compulsive disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety and depressive tendencies so it's a wonder I am even remotely normal (thanks mum). He's been having cognitive therapy though and it has worked wonders, so I can see the positive side. Not sure I really want to get into the whole counselling lark but can see that it might be a good idea in the long run if I'm not to go totally nuts.....
Oct 18th 2004, 2:22 am
#8045
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by Deadmeat
I'll ask the doctor for an extra jab before I go
...might want to get one for the Kangawalladingafox too.
Oct 18th 2004, 2:27 am
#8046
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
:-D :-D :-D
I'll ask the doctor for an extra jab before I go
Yeah, I forgot to say: no, that's not whinging!!! I'm there's one nonwhinger it'd be you
Oct 18th 2004, 6:16 pm
#8047
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Morning. Are Tuesdays any better than Mondays? And can anyone remember when Grayling gets back?
Oct 18th 2004, 6:54 pm
#8048
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
Morning. Are Tuesdays any better than Mondays? And can anyone remember when Grayling gets back?
bad memory, can't remember about Grayling....
Oct 18th 2004, 7:04 pm
#8049
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by Simone
tuesday is one day closer to weekend
bad memory, can't remember about Grayling....
bad memory, can't remember about Grayling....
Oct 18th 2004, 7:27 pm
#8050
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
Grayling's on his hols......I think he said two weeks, so he should be back tomorrow or thereabouts.
Wow, so it's nearly been 2 weeks already???!!!
Oct 18th 2004, 7:34 pm
#8051
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by Simone
I remembered about holiday, I'm not that bad
Wow, so it's nearly been 2 weeks already???!!!
Wow, so it's nearly been 2 weeks already???!!!
Well, I think it has. I'm sure he went away the Wednesday before I went to Jersey, then I had another Wednesday in Jersey and now it's nearly Wednesday again. That said, time is well and truly warped for me at the moment, so I could be completely wrong
Oct 18th 2004, 7:48 pm
#8052
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
.... if I'm not to go totally nuts.....
Oct 18th 2004, 7:53 pm
#8053
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by joseph.creative
Bundy... ur as normal as me so do not worry!!!
Put me into therapy now!
Oct 18th 2004, 7:56 pm
#8054
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by bundy
Put me into therapy now!
Oct 18th 2004, 8:09 pm
#8055
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Re: Let's just cut the crap and have a good row
Originally Posted by joseph.creative
recommend the priory in Putney.... lol
Thus spake the voice of experience, eh Joe
