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Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 11:57 am
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Originally Posted by Elvira
PS: what would you be doing for insurance if you were to move to the US?

US childbirth is expensive!

Mothers get much more support in the UK.
If the wife is an RN, she will probably have excellent insurance here.
 
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Originally Posted by Tracym
If the wife is an RN, she will probably have excellent insurance here.
But right now she is in the UK. Who will employ her in the US if she is 6 months pregnant?
 
Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:13 pm
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Hi "Mr." I agree it could be something with the resume that leads to you not getting interviews. Just for the record, I used to work in the IT field, though not for some years.

I think it might be difficult to be hired as some sort of manager, off the bat. People here will wonder if you do things the same way 'over there' and if you know how US businesses operate. In truth, I have no clue if they are similar or not.

Are you just sending in your resume to companies you'd like to work for? Or applying for specific positions? Perhaps you might get some success applying for something that you are qualitifed for, that is not management to start with.

I haven't looked at resumes in a while, but I would suggest possibly talking to a professional resume writer, there are such things. Or at least searching for some examples on the net. If a resume looks wierd (to US managers) it'll immediately hit the trash.

From what I remember, a career goal statement in the beginning often gets attention. In your case, maybe something saying you want a career growth position position where you can be of benefit to the company, while acclimating yourself to the US corporate environment might be good. I don't know for sure, I'd get some other opinions. But being from another country, emphasizing your desire to do it "their way" might be helpful. Something about being excited to build your career in your new country and looking forward to opportunities. Feel free to cross all your fingers and clench your teeth while writing this.

It will be much easier to get a position while living here. Most companies will not even bother interviewing you if you are not here already, unless you have some specialized skill that they really want.

If you get turned down, you might want to be forward and ask why. It can't really hurt, you already don't have the job, and if someone will honestly tell you perhaps it will help you for future prospects.

Good luck to you both.
 
Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:13 pm
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Originally Posted by Elvira
But right now she is in the UK. Who will employ her in the US if she is 6 months pregnant?
They are desperate for nurses in Florida. And wherever she worked before might very well take her back.
 
Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:16 pm
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Originally Posted by Srna
Ok...It is going to be very difficult to shorten this whole story into the least amount of sentences that will hopefully result in eventually good advice, but I'll try...
Anyway...I am a US citizen. Two years ago, I married my husband who is a British citizen (lived and worked in London). After we were married, obviously he was granted the famous GC and very soon we will need to apply for the removal of the conditions on that initial conditional GC.
In the meantime, my husband was desperately trying to find a job in U.S. - to be precise - in Florida (of all places ) which is where we lived (Saint Petersburg/Tampa area). Mind you, he was looking for a job anywhere in the States for that matter, but no luck for about one year since he got a work permit that enables him to work in the States. I will also point out that he is an IT consultant/project manager/business analyst type of combo ...
So... we decided to move to the U.K. (London)...I won't bother you with all the conversations btw us regarding the final decision to move, my husband's disgust with the US, his disappointment etc...but will say that I am pregnant (six months) and very depressed here in London...So, I am doing everything I can (and at this time it is not very much) so that as soon as the baby's born we go back to the States...My husband has agreed that he will be looking for a job in the States so hopefully he would have a job before we go back, but he is very very demoralized that he will ever succeed in it, thinking "if I have not found one while I was present in the States for a year, how will I find one now when I am not in the States"...
I try to give him my humble advice such as that on the applications he puts down that he already has those valuable papers such as GC and working permit, but he does not belive that it will ever work out...
So, my plea here is to ask any one of you to try to give us some pointers as far as what to do! How my husband will go about looking for a job in the States (anywhere) possibly where there is best demand and best chance of getting his type of job...
We are even doing the US taxes, meaning that my husband has to pay US taxes (where he could not find a job! ) while he is currently working in London as an IT consultant.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
To be honest, you have to look at the situation from a practical perspective. Even if you weren't pregnant, the one who has the greater earning power would determine where you live. This appears to be your husband and he has a job now and that's in the UK.

You say you're depressed in London. You're unhappy but is it because you're away from family in the US or have you disliked living in London (this is not the same as disliking living in the UK BTW)?

It's not clear how long you have lived in London but it's less than two years. That's not a long time. To be honest, not long enough to say you can't live in London because you dislike it so much. It took me 18 months to get accustomed to living in Durham and that's nowhere as exciting as London (my former hometown I hasten to add).

Also, to return to practicalities, if the two of you return to the States and your husband has not found a job prior to moving there (I'd be most surprised if he manages to find a job before setting foot in the US), what are you going to live on until he finds a job?


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Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:20 pm
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Originally Posted by Bob
could well be your resume, ditch any references to being johnny foreigner as much as possible, don't provide references without requests etc.
Even if he doesn't provide references, he'll have to list his work experience, which will all be over there.

When we were hiring, we never bothered to call references. All any reference will tell you is something good - they can get sued for saying anything bad. So there's really no point to it.

In a resume, I always wrote "Excellent references availble upon request".

Just noticed - he's currently working as a consultant. I would contact some consulting firms also - they might take him on as a sub-contractor, and give him a "in".
 
Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:27 pm
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Originally Posted by JULIEROSE
Hi try Northern Va around Herndon and Dulles areas there are many IT jobs here it is one of the most affluent areas in the States.
Are you serious? Those very areas may have jobs but the cost of living is incredibly expensive and as for the traffic...

Also, many IT jobs may be working for or contracting for the US government and Mr. Srna may be ineligible to apply for such jobs because he is not yet a US citizen.


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Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:28 pm
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Originally Posted by Tracym
Even if he doesn't provide references, he'll have to list his work experience, which will all be over there.

When we were hiring, we never bothered to call references. All any reference will tell you is something good - they can get sued for saying anything bad. So there's really no point to it.

In a resume, I always wrote "Excellent references availble upon request".

Just noticed - he's currently working as a consultant. I would contact some consulting firms also - they might take him on as a sub-contractor, and give him a "in".
Um. Your employer doesn't check references? Oh boy. You don't even know if applicants are telling porkies about where they worked. Tsk...


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Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:32 pm
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Originally Posted by NC Penguin
Um. Your employer doesn't check references? Oh boy. You don't even know if applicants are telling porkies about where they worked. Tsk...


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They may have verified employment. By the way, not my current employer, it was some years ago (didn't want to misrepresent myself).

Generally, if anything, employment would be verified, and they would simply say if the person had worked there or not. There wasn't any point to references, since everyone would put down someone who liked them, and as I mentioned, the legal problem if you said anything negative.

Generally, employment is at will, so if someone lied and couldn't do the job they'd simply be out of there. We were hiring consultants, so that applied even more so.

But we relied much more on the impression we got of the person, and if they could answer the questions they asked, and how the presented themself than trying to verify details of employment.

In 20+ years of IT employment, I have never once had anyone call a reference before hiring me. And I worked all over the place, generally was a consultant so didn't stay in any one place long.
 
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Originally Posted by NC Penguin
Um. Your employer doesn't check references? Oh boy. You don't even know if applicants are telling porkies about where they worked. Tsk...


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My thoughts exactly. As someone who has called phone references, I can tell you that sure, they might only say good stuff. But it's how they say it that counts. You first determine with a few simple questions if they are a credible reference, and then you listen for the way they answer the important ones.

And I stand by including references from the get-go. If they employer has to call for them, you're wasting his time, and he's unlikely to make the effort.
 
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My thoughts exactly. As someone who has called phone references, I can tell you that sure, they might only say good stuff. But it's how they say it that counts. You first determine with a few simple questions if they are a credible reference, and then you listen for the way they answer the important ones.

And I stand by including references from the get-go. If they employer has to call for them, you're wasting his time, and he's unlikely to make the effort.
Also what they DON't say...
 
Old Mar 23rd 2007 | 12:37 pm
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Originally Posted by NC Penguin
Are you serious? Those very areas may have jobs but the cost of living is incredibly expensive and as for the traffic...

Also, many IT jobs may be working for or contracting for the US government and Mr. Srna may be ineligible to apply for such jobs because he is not yet a US citizen.


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Actually I have to agree with this post. My husband is in the military has a top secret clearance and they walk into many IT jobs after they retire over six figures due to their experience and clearance. You do have to be a citizen to get many of these jobs but not all of them. I live in NVA and it is expensive but you can live outside the city as we do cheaper than London subs. I live in Warrenton VA about 25 miles south of Dulles where most of the jobs are. My house is about 550-600k USD you can get a really nice townhouse further in with 2 car garage, over 3 thouand sq feet between 400-500k. The prices have come down a lot this year. Bearing in mind most of the jobs pay between 90-150k it's not that bad. The area is gorgeous with the blue ridge moutains and DC close by.
 
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Originally Posted by Tracym
They may have verified employment. By the way, not my current employer, it was some years ago (didn't want to misrepresent myself).

Generally, if anything, employment would be verified, and they would simply say if the person had worked there or not. There wasn't any point to references, since everyone would put down someone who liked them, and as I mentioned, the legal problem if you said anything negative.

Generally, employment is at will, so if someone lied and couldn't do the job they'd simply be out of there. We were hiring consultants, so that applied even more so.

But we relied much more on the impression we got of the person, and if they could answer the questions they asked, and how the presented themself than trying to verify details of employment.

In 20+ years of IT employment, I have never once had anyone call a reference before hiring me. And I worked all over the place, generally was a consultant so didn't stay in any one place long.
How would you know? They would have your previous employer's details...all they have to do is make a call or send an email.
 
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Originally Posted by AdobePinon
My thoughts exactly. As someone who has called phone references, I can tell you that sure, they might only say good stuff. But it's how they say it that counts. You first determine with a few simple questions if they are a credible reference, and then you listen for the way they answer the important ones.

And I stand by including references from the get-go. If they employer has to call for them, you're wasting his time, and he's unlikely to make the effort.
They wouldn't have to call for references. You'd offer them at your interview.

Perhaps things have changed, and references are called more often. It also might depend upon what field you are in.

For IT, at that time, we were more interested how the person could answer our questions than by what someone else would say about them. Because you'd naturally list references who agreed to be a reference, and would say nothing but good.
 
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
How would you know? They would have your previous employer's details...all they have to do is make a call or send an email.
Previous employers and references are not the same thing.

Previous employers are just that, the name of the company you worked for. Generally, individuals names are not listed.

References are specific persons who you are giving them permission to contact, and discuss you with.

I think there is even some law (at least there was) regarding what a previous employer could say - I'll go look for it.
 


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