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Old Jul 2nd 2009 | 7:30 pm
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Old Jul 2nd 2009 | 7:32 pm
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Originally Posted by scottishcelts
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Aye. Am developing a pair o boobies wi aw they chips am eating.
 
Old Jul 2nd 2009 | 7:33 pm
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Originally Posted by framac67
Aye. Am developing a pair o boobies wi aw they chips am eating.


They're called moobs Fran

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Old Jul 2nd 2009 | 7:34 pm
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Originally Posted by jimbo_d
One thing i've noticed in Oz is how many people get married and stay married compared to the UK. Out of all my friends here most people's parents are still together, whereas in the UK with a greater circle of friends I could count the number on one hand.
It isn't as large a difference as some may think:
Divorces in 2007
UK 2,368 divorces per 1,000,000 population
Aus 2,284 divorces per 1,000,000 population
In 2007, Australia the median length of marriage to time of separation was 8.9 years.

In the UK the average length of marriage for divorces granted in 2003 was 11.3 years, Not sure about the time to actual seperartion date as quoted for Australia though , but I expect it to be similar.
Whilst the average length of a live-in relationship is just two years.
 
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Originally Posted by scottishcelts


They're called moobs Fran

(man boobs)
Only joking honey. Its a six pack down ma neck of the woods.
 
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They should put marriage on a 5 year contract. if it expires you re-new it. if you're not interested then you don't...
Too easy?

I dont think I'll get married. Judging by my family's history of divorces it isnt a very clever thing to do. Think divorce could run in the family?
 
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Originally Posted by scottishcelts
I've been here before with you D, have i not?
Yes, one of the topics I like debating the most.
 
Old Jul 2nd 2009 | 8:09 pm
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Originally Posted by Simo429
surely once you have bought the house, got the kids and the dog you've made a bigger commitment than any bit of paper will ever mean so all the people saying its just gambling on your future, id rather gamble on my future than my childrens
And when you've got the house, the kids and the dog and then the divorce papers... Watch it all come tumbling down.
 
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Originally Posted by Deancm
Actually children don't have to be involved. If the wife is a stay at home wife with no kids the guy will still get shafted.

My male friends that are divorced aren't millionaires but the do quite well for themselves. The got raped when they got divorced, lost everything.
Then they had pretty poor lawyers.
 
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Originally Posted by framac67
Only joking honey. Its a six pack down ma neck of the woods.
Take the cans out. They'll be getting warm.
 
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For legal reason much safer to be married. I cannot understand that if you want to live with a person why you could not be bothered to make the time to commit to one another be it in the registry office or a church.

Its like saying this will do for now and then I can leave later.

Working in legal I can tell you its not as easy as you think and the property settlements are different.

People who have been married and then enter into defacto relationships often have a nasty shock if one of them dies, the children and the former wife often inherit as the spouse has forgotten to tell superannuation etc. Superannuation trustee has the right to decide who should have the money.

Often things end up in a mess in court and if only people took half an hour out of their lives to make it more concrete and simple.
 
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Originally Posted by Hebe
Then they had pretty poor lawyers.
It's the magistrate that makes the decision according to the law. The lawyers are just spokes people that try to negotiate a fair settlement under the divorce rules.
 
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Originally Posted by deedee_b
They should put marriage on a 5 year contract. if it expires you re-new it. if you're not interested then you don't...
Too easy?

I dont think I'll get married. Judging by my family's history of divorces it isnt a very clever thing to do. Think divorce could run in the family?
No divorce happens. I didn't know any one in my family who was divorced when I was growing up - yet all my brother and sisters were divorced or separated before I got married- didn't put me off but it did show me marriage is not a bed of roses.

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