Marriage - is there any point?
#80
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In the UK the average length of marriage for divorces granted in 2003 was 11.3 years, Not sure about the time to actual seperartion date as quoted for Australia though , but I expect it to be similar.
Whilst the average length of a live-in relationship is just two years.
#83
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They should put marriage on a 5 year contract. if it expires you re-new it. if you're not interested then you don't...
Too easy?
I dont think I'll get married. Judging by my family's history of divorces it isnt a very clever thing to do. Think divorce could run in the family?
Too easy?
I dont think I'll get married. Judging by my family's history of divorces it isnt a very clever thing to do. Think divorce could run in the family?
#85
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And when you've got the house, the kids and the dog and then the divorce papers... Watch it all come tumbling down.
#88
For legal reason much safer to be married. I cannot understand that if you want to live with a person why you could not be bothered to make the time to commit to one another be it in the registry office or a church.
Its like saying this will do for now and then I can leave later.
Working in legal I can tell you its not as easy as you think and the property settlements are different.
People who have been married and then enter into defacto relationships often have a nasty shock if one of them dies, the children and the former wife often inherit as the spouse has forgotten to tell superannuation etc. Superannuation trustee has the right to decide who should have the money.
Often things end up in a mess in court and if only people took half an hour out of their lives to make it more concrete and simple.
Its like saying this will do for now and then I can leave later.
Working in legal I can tell you its not as easy as you think and the property settlements are different.
People who have been married and then enter into defacto relationships often have a nasty shock if one of them dies, the children and the former wife often inherit as the spouse has forgotten to tell superannuation etc. Superannuation trustee has the right to decide who should have the money.
Often things end up in a mess in court and if only people took half an hour out of their lives to make it more concrete and simple.
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They should put marriage on a 5 year contract. if it expires you re-new it. if you're not interested then you don't...
Too easy?
I dont think I'll get married. Judging by my family's history of divorces it isnt a very clever thing to do. Think divorce could run in the family?
Too easy?
I dont think I'll get married. Judging by my family's history of divorces it isnt a very clever thing to do. Think divorce could run in the family?

Mx
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