Why the difference...
#151
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Re: Why the difference...
Strictly speaking that question has absolutely bugger all to do with philosophy. It's more a test of semantics and grammar and (possibly) lateral thinking - but philosophy ... ermm, no.
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Re: Why the difference...
If you want to say Australia is perfect, this is not the thead for you. Nor to tell me your negative views. This is not a me vs us debate.
What I would like to know is, *why* it is you are living in that so called ''parallel'' world and enjoying it when others are in dispair (or the other way around). Is there any decision or circumstance that makes your lot infinitely preferable? This does not mean you don't see any negative at all. (I would temper my positive experiences with negative ones - only I expect to experience negative ones and see them as inevitable, and often explainable).
Can anyone account for such a polarisation of views? I find it incredible at times especially when routine events reinforce the positive when others are still very much reporting the opposite - time and time again.
B
What I would like to know is, *why* it is you are living in that so called ''parallel'' world and enjoying it when others are in dispair (or the other way around). Is there any decision or circumstance that makes your lot infinitely preferable? This does not mean you don't see any negative at all. (I would temper my positive experiences with negative ones - only I expect to experience negative ones and see them as inevitable, and often explainable).
Can anyone account for such a polarisation of views? I find it incredible at times especially when routine events reinforce the positive when others are still very much reporting the opposite - time and time again.
B
I live in Sydney and have travelled extensively. the other day i was at a party and some people I know were bagging the suburb of Mosman profusely, now to me Mosman might qualify as the worlds most perfect suburb, but they were Aussies who have never travelled and fail to see just how good they have it-its the same with Brits.
Its not 'horses for courses' Australia logically is a fantasitc place-yet logic doesnt matter for some.
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Re: Why the difference...
I've just seen on another forum that the extreme weather warning was issued for last night's force 10 gale because the trees are not seasoned (like the UK ones) to cope with high winds.
Of course, in the UK, we don't issue weather warnings, we laugh in the face of force 10
Of course, in the UK, we don't issue weather warnings, we laugh in the face of force 10
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Re: Why the difference...
everyone sees things differently.
The main difference for me between the UK and Australia is one I have trouble even expressing and have had to think about how to put into words that is: I find Australia allows you to 'take control of your life' more-and to me that is EVERYTHING.
Does anyone relate to this, i would be curious as this never gets mentioned here.
What I mean is that Australians are often percieved (here) as unwelcoming and aloof to strangers-yet this is a slight misconception-Australian's leave people alone to live their lives and expect the same from others.
In the UK, I found, you can do everything right, but there is this x-factor, more bitter, jealous people that complicate things for you-and place you in situaltions that you sometimes can't control.
More people willing to make your life-their business.
Any thoughts. is this my imagination?
The main difference for me between the UK and Australia is one I have trouble even expressing and have had to think about how to put into words that is: I find Australia allows you to 'take control of your life' more-and to me that is EVERYTHING.
Does anyone relate to this, i would be curious as this never gets mentioned here.
What I mean is that Australians are often percieved (here) as unwelcoming and aloof to strangers-yet this is a slight misconception-Australian's leave people alone to live their lives and expect the same from others.
In the UK, I found, you can do everything right, but there is this x-factor, more bitter, jealous people that complicate things for you-and place you in situaltions that you sometimes can't control.
More people willing to make your life-their business.
Any thoughts. is this my imagination?
#156
Re: Why the difference...
Strictly speaking no, it's not a philosophical question, but it bears thinking about, in as much as deciding/choosing means nothing without action... That was the point being made to me.
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Re: Why the difference...
I've just seen on another forum that the extreme weather warning was issued for last night's force 10 gale because the trees are not seasoned (like the UK ones) to cope with high winds.
Of course, in the UK, we don't issue weather warnings, we laugh in the face of force 10
Of course, in the UK, we don't issue weather warnings, we laugh in the face of force 10
I saw that and peed myself, loved the bit about "it's only 60mph and we get that all the time in the UK"
I was on Mornington Esplanade at 10.00pm last night trying to stop a garage roof from blowing off and it wasn't that funny to me
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Re: Why the difference...
On nights like last night I'm always glad the SES is there just so us CFA peeps can stay warm and snug (assuming no one starts a fire).
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Re: Why the difference...
[QUOTE=MartinLuther;6504837]Good onya John.
On nights like last night I'm always glad the SES is there just so us CFA peeps can stay warm and snug (assuming no one starts a fire).
Pretty quiet last night and today to be honest. Only about 10 callouts in total.
Not like that last big one, 200 plus in 4 days
On nights like last night I'm always glad the SES is there just so us CFA peeps can stay warm and snug (assuming no one starts a fire).
Pretty quiet last night and today to be honest. Only about 10 callouts in total.
Not like that last big one, 200 plus in 4 days
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Re: Why the difference...
everyone sees things differently.
The main difference for me between the UK and Australia is one I have trouble even expressing and have had to think about how to put into words that is: I find Australia allows you to 'take control of your life' more-and to me that is EVERYTHING.
Does anyone relate to this, i would be curious as this never gets mentioned here.
What I mean is that Australians are often percieved (here) as unwelcoming and aloof to strangers-yet this is a slight misconception-Australian's leave people alone to live their lives and expect the same from others.
In the UK, I found, you can do everything right, but there is this x-factor, more bitter, jealous people that complicate things for you-and place you in situaltions that you sometimes can't control.
More people willing to make your life-their business.
Any thoughts. is this my imagination?
The main difference for me between the UK and Australia is one I have trouble even expressing and have had to think about how to put into words that is: I find Australia allows you to 'take control of your life' more-and to me that is EVERYTHING.
Does anyone relate to this, i would be curious as this never gets mentioned here.
What I mean is that Australians are often percieved (here) as unwelcoming and aloof to strangers-yet this is a slight misconception-Australian's leave people alone to live their lives and expect the same from others.
In the UK, I found, you can do everything right, but there is this x-factor, more bitter, jealous people that complicate things for you-and place you in situaltions that you sometimes can't control.
More people willing to make your life-their business.
Any thoughts. is this my imagination?
I also have a theory that you therefore can't have it both ways. eg. Some people report that Australians are quite reserved and quiet (I would also say this about some) but that also stops them from being ''bitter or jealous'' or trouble. People claim to miss UK humour (I think Australia takes the best bits and the two are not completely divorced) but they also seem to miss scarcastic or quite cruel versions of it. (which I think Australians leave out - other than banter).
I said the other day that not all Australians are Steve Irwins. It's not true that all Australians are forthright and infact I would say no more than Brits. Some people really have a grudge against Australians, generalisation - I think they are a lot more astute than these people give them credit for and also accounts for their world reputation. As a nation, I find they are like ducks - calm and laid back on the surface which you see but peddling like mad underneath - and that is not a comment on work hours(!)
Strangely enough, another expat in Central Europe had that comment on the UK. In his case I suspect it is more of having mild contempt for another life which a new one helps put in perspective.
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Re: Why the difference...
We (CFA) had none - normally we'd get a couple. The press reported issues in Emerald and Pakenham not so far away - these areas always seem to cop it and are reported as trouble spots. We are close but seem to be spared some of it.
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For those people who are ''too scared to post'' I don't have an issue with genuine cases, in general of people unhappy for whatever reason. I personally just don't have time for some people (a minority)to wade in criticising when they fail to apply the old grey matter and blame everything else all the time, especially when it is proven that this is not the norm, nor the norm for all in Australia. As I've said, I think alot of the controversy is subtle and some of the old complaints I think get a tad tired. If I am miffed with something I think about why or how something is an issue rather than the emotion and often the reason and then the solution is clearer. My wife has taken to doing this too and she's amazed at how happier she is now or at least day to day baggage is put in perspective.
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Re: Why the difference...
I'd have a thermos flask on call just for those long nights.
It's quite strange that on the really windy nights we don't get called out too much, then on other nights the pager doesn't stop. It is still enough to ruin a good nights sleep though as you tend to have an ear out for the pager.
Don't bother with the thermos, with big generators on board a fresh cuppa is always available
By the way what do you think of the new joint HQ at Pakenham, looks quite flash to me.
John
It's quite strange that on the really windy nights we don't get called out too much, then on other nights the pager doesn't stop. It is still enough to ruin a good nights sleep though as you tend to have an ear out for the pager.
Don't bother with the thermos, with big generators on board a fresh cuppa is always available
By the way what do you think of the new joint HQ at Pakenham, looks quite flash to me.
John
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Re: Why the difference...
I'd have a thermos flask on call just for those long nights.
It's quite strange that on the really windy nights we don't get called out too much, then on other nights the pager doesn't stop. It is still enough to ruin a good nights sleep though as you tend to have an ear out for the pager.
Don't bother with the thermos, with big generators on board a fresh cuppa is always available
By the way what do you think of the new joint HQ at Pakenham, looks quite flash to me.
John
It's quite strange that on the really windy nights we don't get called out too much, then on other nights the pager doesn't stop. It is still enough to ruin a good nights sleep though as you tend to have an ear out for the pager.
Don't bother with the thermos, with big generators on board a fresh cuppa is always available
By the way what do you think of the new joint HQ at Pakenham, looks quite flash to me.
John
I had the impression that no CFA mob was in it but that conversation is already a year old. That Pakenham (town) resent it. That there is a rivalry between current Pakenham station and an older one as it is.
Someone said Toomuc Valley should move in!
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Re: Why the difference...
Is it just my addled brain or is there some SERIOUS wank being posted on this thread.
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