Help I hate it here!!!
#121
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thanks helcat12 you summed it up really. All that matters is my own happiness. Therefore today I have booked flights to go back on Monday, put in an offer on a house in the UK, my husband has accepted his old job back and life should soon be back to what we know of happiness! Everyone has their own oppinions and it hasnt been easy for us over the last 12 months. I will just be glad when its all over!
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I am speaking from my experience thus far - in 4 different schools in Ontario - and yes, as I stated it was my personal opinion/experience. I'm sure your stats will be welcomed by some.
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thanks helcat12 you summed it up really. All that matters is my own happiness. Therefore today I have booked flights to go back on Monday, put in an offer on a house in the UK, my husband has accepted his old job back and life should soon be back to what we know of happiness! Everyone has their own oppinions and it hasnt been easy for us over the last 12 months. I will just be glad when its all over!
#124
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i'd move to Gatineau and take all that free Quebec charity and commute over the river each day... but that's me
#125
My opinion is a valid one seeing as im back here and have been looking for work for the last 6 weeks and shocked at how wages have gone back 15 years in mine, my wife's, and even the lesser type jobs. I obviously didnt mean that every single job has had its wages cut.

Good luck though Rhodes what ever you decide mate.
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Funny, I thought the same.
My opinion is a valid one seeing as im back here and have been looking for work for the last 6 weeks and shocked at how wages have gone back 15 years in mine, my wife's, and even the lesser type jobs. I obviously didnt mean that every single job has had its wages cut.
Good luck though Rhodes what ever you decide mate.
My opinion is a valid one seeing as im back here and have been looking for work for the last 6 weeks and shocked at how wages have gone back 15 years in mine, my wife's, and even the lesser type jobs. I obviously didnt mean that every single job has had its wages cut.

Good luck though Rhodes what ever you decide mate.
#127
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I call bs on the whole "you should have researched more" thing. Researching is NOT the same as living somewhere, sorry.
RRhodes, all the best. Canada isn't all that, as you've discovered, no shame in calling it early and going home.
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I agree. It's very patronizing to say things like that.
#131
I don't know about that. For Federal, you may be correct, but I don't believe such a skill is a requirement to work for Provincial or Municipal Government. If my dealings with them are anything to go by is a not a requirement to be able to speak English, let alone French
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Teaching, policing, health care, anything with a union etc. For normal people they are the places to be if you want a decent wage and good pension provisions without financial risk. No need for french in those - well at least in BC.
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A few weeks is nowhere near enough time to decide if you like something or not, culture shock is still the dominant influence and a yearning for what's familiar. I recall several occasions in the service I would gladly packed up and gone home, there was just not much choice however. HM had just spent a fortune on my training and did not want me to leave, not for free anyway. After a while (few years) it became the norm and funnily enough, took a long time to get used to being out when I left and would have happily gone back in. My two cents worth, once you have made a decision, stick with it for a reasonable amount of time to be sure before changing your mind and flip flopping. You may only get one chance at immigrating to Canada, Britain will always be an option.
#134
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lol my friends live in the Glebe without AC but plenty of fans and really suffered this summer, especially the kids. I love my AC and wouldn't want to live without if I didn't have to.
And to be honest if I wanted to spend $600 000+ on a house I'd rather buy in Rockcliff.
And to be honest if I wanted to spend $600 000+ on a house I'd rather buy in Rockcliff.
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Its a pity the OP never answered the job questions. Their plight could well be a warning to others that choosing a place based on relatives/friends is no good unless there are job prospects there.
I'm not sure what world they live in though if they expected some sort of job offer in 8 days, be lucky to get a response it that time I would say.
I bought a box of cereal for $9 yesterday, it was though a jumbo size and a slightly more expensive type than the bog standards which cost about $7 for the jumbo's.
We're just in the process of moving into our first purchased house after being here 4 1/2 years, brand new, over 1900 sq ft, for mid $400K's.
Ottawa sounds an expensive place tbh, can't find anything for 600K?? we'd love to be able to afford 600K.
I'm not sure what world they live in though if they expected some sort of job offer in 8 days, be lucky to get a response it that time I would say.
I bought a box of cereal for $9 yesterday, it was though a jumbo size and a slightly more expensive type than the bog standards which cost about $7 for the jumbo's.
We're just in the process of moving into our first purchased house after being here 4 1/2 years, brand new, over 1900 sq ft, for mid $400K's.
Ottawa sounds an expensive place tbh, can't find anything for 600K?? we'd love to be able to afford 600K.




