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iPom Nov 30th 2006 7:10 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede
True, fair point. I'm a UK citizen (and have been since May this year) but I was eligible to vote before that time.

Yup, my hub voted in all elections in the 15 years he was in the UK.


Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede
It seems even more bizarre when we consider that voting is compulsory Down Under. :confused:

My point exactly.

LouiseD Nov 30th 2006 7:14 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede

This is an unfair comparison. "Pom" has never possessed the connotations of "Paki". Nor has it been overwhelmingly rejected by the vast majority of the people to whom it has been applied.

I view "Pom" on the same level as "Skippy". I don't consider either of them offensive.

Indeed. And why complain about a friendly slang term in the first place? It simply doesn't make sense. :confused:

difference between our use of "Pom" and the use of words like "dago", etc. is that "Pom" is not intended as an insult (except by a tiny minority of idiots; and what country doesn't have those?)

The history of the word "Pom" proves that it was originally coined as a good-natured slang term. Nearly 100 years on, it is still used in the same way.

So why make a fuss about it?

Thats in your view - you are not on the receiving end. As I've said before it doesn't bother me at all if the term is used in a good natured way. But this instance was clearly designed to take the piss out of the brits hence the fuss.

The word Paki also was used in a good natured way years ago - until people started using it in a derogatory way and the vast majority to whom it applied took offence - I've checked this with people of a certain age before writing this so yes I do think that I can compare the two words.

Many names start of being good natured nicknames but then, as in this advert they are used to poke fun at a certain race - then people become offended, then others start to use it to wind that race up, then it becomes a racial term. Unfortunately thats the way of the world now.

As to your name calling of people who feel that Australia is 20 years behind - I can't understand what you are making a fuss about either - they are probably saying that in good natured way too. ;)

232Bar Nov 30th 2006 7:29 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by Fenton Beasley
:D I thought that too! Why is the beer over here so sh*te? Aussie beer is gnat's p*ss. You're alright if you like lager. And have you tasted the Guiness over here? It's like they've made it with ditch-water. Thank the baby Jesus for International Beer shop. And thank all the angels that it's down the road in West Leederville!

Hate to disappoint you but see the comment about Guiness being better in Ireland..
http://www.guinness.com/row_en/Botto...eftNav/faqs#q7

God I must be bored. Mick O'malleys in Brisneyland keeps a nice pint of it too.

232Bar Nov 30th 2006 7:35 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by LouiseD
But this instance was clearly designed to take the piss out of the brits hence the fuss.

And of course we English have never taken the Piss out of anyone.. ;) I find the term 'Brit' more offensive than 'Pom' - I am English and have no wish at all to be lumped in with those other 'countries' which make up Britain

iamthecreaturefromuranus Nov 30th 2006 7:42 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede
I agree that they went over the top with the fat geezer. That was unnecessary, childish, and calculated to provoke.



This is an unfair comparison. "Pom" has never possessed the connotations of "Paki". Nor has it been overwhelmingly rejected by the vast majority of the people to whom it has been applied.

I view "Pom" on the same level as "Skippy". I don't consider either of them offensive.

Since coming to the UK, I have also been called "Dingo". That's a new one in my experience, but it didn't worry me at all; I found it quite amusing. :D



Well, there's no accounting for the opinions of arrogant, xenophobic cretins. But don't forget that there will be some people who come to the UK and consider it "20 years behind" their own country.



Indeed. And why complain about a friendly slang term in the first place? It simply doesn't make sense. :confused:



Well, that's another story entirely. You're looking specifically for a negative name for Aussies. That's in no way comparable to our use of the word "Pom". So your suggestion doesn't fit the argument.

In any case, people already use plenty of anti-Australian insults; there are many names used for Aussies which are intended to cause offence. If you want some choice examples, ask the Barmy Army - or some of the Lebanese gangs in NSW.

The difference between our use of "Pom" and the use of words like "dago", etc. is that "Pom" is not intended as an insult (except by a tiny minority of idiots; and what country doesn't have those?)

The history of the word "Pom" proves that it was originally coined as a good-natured slang term. Nearly 100 years on, it is still used in the same way.

So why make a fuss about it?

Paddy is a good natured slang term... Get yourself from Walsall to Waterford and try it out in the pubs.. see if its still seen that way.

OzTennis Nov 30th 2006 9:17 pm

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OK so let's just turn this around and put the shoe on the other foot.

Think of ads for Foster's and XXXX in the UK. The product is made by a British owned company (under licence from CUB or Castlemaine Perkins) and the advertisements are made by British advertising agencies for British consumers. The ads basically portray Australians as:

Men who care more about their beer than their woman(en) - the ads aren't directed at women in the UK. eg the guy who would have an affair with his best mate's wife but wouldn't dream of taking his beer; the dimwit who uses the gorgeous woman to shade his cold beer from the sun rather than .....

Oh and everyone in Australia seems to live in the outback or on the beach and wears shorts, T-shirt etc.

Need I go on - do I find this stereotypical portrayal of Australians as racist and deeply offensive? No! I find it amusing in the sense that it is in the same category as 'all Frenchmen ride a bicycle with garlic around their neck, a beret and a striped shirt'.

Do I report this to the policeman who posted earlier - because I could construe this as racist? Do I seek to have the ads removed from British screens? I think you know the answer to this and how I would be perceived if I did (Vash's term) :D

OzTennis :)


Originally Posted by LouiseD
Whilst I don't personally find the word POM an insult, it does depend of the context in which it is being used. My colleagues at work call me a POM and I take it in the spirit which it's given.

In this instance, the picture of the fat git looking ridiculous which accompanies the word is clearly aimed at protraying the British as being idiots. You simply can't take it any other way. Now whether you laugh at this or take offence is a matter for the individual.

Adverts will often be controversial because the makers want to get the product talked about, but should this be at the cost of ridiculing a nation which has strong ties with the country?

I think that because we are British and because we are so aware of offending other nations in the UK, some are probably more outraged than they would have been say 10 years ago. If you took the same advert and put it on British TV but replaced the POM for a P*KI there would be uproar. But the UK isn't Australia.

As a lot of people say, Australia is 20 years behind in many things. Maybe in 20 years the word will be banned, but as IPOM said, we know the way things are here so why should we come into the country and try to change things? Don't we all complain when it's being done in the UK by other races?

As Australians like to term other nations with names, I think that the answer might be for everyone to start using a different name for Aussies - it sounds far too nice. Then we'd see how their sense of humour is.


iamthecreaturefromuranus Nov 30th 2006 9:23 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by OzTennis
OK so let's just turn this around and put the shoe on the other foot.

Think of ads for Foster's and XXXX in the UK. The product is made by a British owned company (under licence from CUB or Castlemaine Perkins) and the advertisements are made by British advertising agencies for British consumers. The ads basically portray Australians as:

Men who care more about their beer than their woman(en) - the ads aren't directed at women in the UK. eg the guy who would have an affair with his best mate's wife but wouldn't dream of taking his beer; the dimwit who uses the gorgeous woman to shade his cold beer from the sun rather than .....

Oh and everyone in Australia seems to live in the outback or on the beach and wears shorts, T-shirt etc.

Need I go on - do I find this stereotypical portrayal of Australians as racist and deeply offensive? No! I find it amusing in the sense that it is in the same category as 'all Frenchmen ride a bicycle with garlic around their neck, a beret and a striped shirt'.

Do I report this to the policeman who posted earlier - because I could construe this as racist? Do I seek to have the ads removed from British screens? I think you know the answer to this and how I would be perceived if I did (Vash's term) :D

OzTennis :)

How about if everywhere you went you were called a 'Con'.. everytime your country was mention on the TV it was in the terms of lets stick one to the 'Cons' . How about if the UK was obsessed with getting one over the 'Cons' as Oz seems to be with getting the better of the Poms?

OzTennis Nov 30th 2006 9:41 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
How about if everywhere you went you were called a 'Con'.. everytime your country was mention on the TV it was in the terms of lets stick one to the 'Cons' . How about if the UK was obsessed with getting one over the 'Cons' as Oz seems to be with getting the better of the Poms?

You didn't make any comment on the portrayal of Australians in the British ads I noticed - you just seem to like to comment on the portrayal of Poms in Australian ads.

Does the expression 'the empire strikes back' mean anything? This is one reason why we like to put one over the 'old enemy' - it comes originally from the many former Brits who were transported for life and it is the inmates hitting back at the jailer, it's ingrained in the psyche from 1788.

When I was watching the cricket today I saw the Barmy Army had inflatable kangaroos with Union Jack T-shirts over them (good humoured re-colonisation?)

I would probably object to being called a Con because I've done my genealogy and know I am descended from free settlers. :D

OzTennis :)

iamthecreaturefromuranus Nov 30th 2006 9:47 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by OzTennis
You didn't make any comment on the portrayal of Australians in the British ads I noticed - you just seem to like to comment on the portrayal of Poms in Australian ads.

Does the expression 'the empire strikes back' mean anything? This is one reason why we like to put one over the 'old enemy' - it comes originally from the many former Brits who were transported for life and it is the inmates hitting back at the jailer, it's ingrained in the psyche from 1788.

When I was watching the cricket today I saw the Barmy Army had inflatable kangaroos with Union Jack T-shirts over them (good humoured re-colonisation?)

I would probably object to being called a Con because I've done my genealogy and know I am descended from free settlers. :D

OzTennis :)

I can't comment on the UK ads anymore 'cos I don't see them... but believe me, the Oz end of this had gone nuts 'cos of the Ashes. To be honest I don't know why I am dragging this out... I have never had an issue with being called a Pom and I have never had anybody have a go at me about being English... just thought it was an interesting arguement to keep going.

OzTennis Nov 30th 2006 9:47 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
How about if everywhere you went you were called a 'Con'.. everytime your country was mention on the TV it was in the terms of lets stick one to the 'Cons' . How about if the UK was obsessed with getting one over the 'Cons' as Oz seems to be with getting the better of the Poms?

And England IS obsessed with putting one over us - has there been such hysteria as when the Ashes were won last year for the 8th or 9th time of asking. Team invited to No.10, honours from the Queen, Team of the Year, my paper last week had a free DVD of how the Ashes were won etc, etc.

OzTennis :)

iamthecreaturefromuranus Nov 30th 2006 10:05 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by OzTennis
And England IS obsessed with putting one over us - has there been such hysteria as when the Ashes were won last year for the 8th or 9th time of asking. Team invited to No.10, honours from the Queen, Team of the Year, my paper last week had a free DVD of how the Ashes were won etc, etc.

OzTennis :)

Now that I can comment on 'cos I was still in England.. I think that was down to the nature of the series itself as much as putting one over the Aussies... I'm a football fan, like most of England, and cricket would normally barely rate a mention.. but that series just grabbed the nation. It was sport at its very best... and did we want to put one over the Aussies... you're damn right we did. :D

iPom Nov 30th 2006 10:10 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by OzTennis
And England IS obsessed with putting one over us - has there been such hysteria as when the Ashes were won last year for the 8th or 9th time of asking. Team invited to No.10, honours from the Queen, Team of the Year, my paper last week had a free DVD of how the Ashes were won etc, etc.

OzTennis :)


It's cos we know we'll never win them ever again, so we have to big it up a bit. ;)

iamthecreaturefromuranus Nov 30th 2006 10:21 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by iPom
It's cos we know we'll never win them ever again, so we have to big it up a bit. ;)

I have faith... we will retain the Ashes.. I have seen the vision. Its two tests each.. the final test, the last day and England are 49-9 as the day begins.. and the drought breaks and it rains all day and the little urn goes home. :D

OzTennis Nov 30th 2006 10:27 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
Now that I can comment on 'cos I was still in England.. I think that was down to the nature of the series itself as much as putting one over the Aussies... I'm a football fan, like most of England, and cricket would normally barely rate a mention.. but that series just grabbed the nation. It was sport at its very best... and did we want to put one over the Aussies... you're damn right we did. :D

Right, so we are agreed on:

1 Both countries are fanatical about putting one over each other because of our shared history (I live in Scotland and believe me if you think we are keen on beating England you should see most Scots). In Australia's case it is hitting back at the jailer, coloniser, imperial power, the traditional sporting enemy, whatever you will; in England's case it is (probably, I'd have to guess) rule Britannia, Britannia rules the waves and all that, or a reaction to the passion of the Aussies.

2 The beer ads in both countries present a false, stereotypical view of the other nation's inhabitants. (If you were in the UK recently you must have seen the Foster's and XXXX ads, they've been running for yonks. eg one of the oldest ones - 2 men in a ute with wife in back sitting on cases of XXXX, come to a rickety bridge, in the dusty outback of course; something's got to give; drive on, 2 men in front, beer still in back, wife gone, 'she's a good sport that wife of yours'?)

3 The term Pom is not intended and should not be taken as an insult.

4 You are right, it is an interesting question and goes to the core of a lot of things.

Just on another one - can it not be seen that an Englishman calling an Irishman 'Paddy' can be seen as offensive but if for example I was to say 'how's it going Paddy' that it will be taken differently? I once made that mistake with a work colleague who replied in his best Ian Paisley 'there will be NO surrender' type voice, I'm an Ulsterman and don't you forget it, right. :D

OzTennis :)

OzTennis Nov 30th 2006 10:34 pm

Re: POM, an insult??!!
 

Originally Posted by iPom
It's cos we know we'll never win them ever again, so we have to big it up a bit. ;)

:D And the 6 nations, and a Wimbledon Men's singles, and the World Cup (soccer, union, league, tiddlywinks etc). :D

I wonder if the 'Poms' in Australia realise that the top nominations for the BBC Sports Personality of the year in 2006 are:

Darren Clarke (who should win it for the Ryder Cup victory and for being such a fabulous and inspiring person in the face of his wife's death).
Andy Murray
Beth Tweddle (a gymnast apparently)
Monty Panessar

That I think sums up what a barren year it has been sports wise, without pointing out that a Scot, Irishman (Ulsterman?) and a Sikh top the list.

OzTennis :)


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