Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Dec 4th 2007 | 7:09 am
#76
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
thanks for the support my friends
I know that this time next year we will be happily settled in Oz and this will be a distant memory.
Good luck to all
Sarah
I know that this time next year we will be happily settled in Oz and this will be a distant memory.
Good luck to all
Sarah
Dec 4th 2007 | 7:15 am
#77
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Hi everyone,
Thought I would release my frustrations by giving an update on our trials and tribulations in relation to getting permission from my ex for our daughter age 10 years to emigrate.
Back in Feb we went on holiday to Oz, OH has family there, fell in love with the lifestyle etc and on return applied for a job (nurse) got job offer in 3 weeks, got state registration in 2 weeks all good so far. Had solicitor appointment in early March thanks to forum to go through preliminaries to get permission from ex who has not had contact for 5 years. Letters sent, no reply, stat dec sent, no reply, court application made simultaneously with 457 app as all was looking good that he had disappeared. Then on court day last Monday 13th he APPEARS and guess what he does cross application to get residency after all this time. Our meds had been in LCU since early July and the backlogs gave us a good excuse for being slow proceeding with job offer/start date. However today Meds all finalized and solicitor says next court appearance will be 5th Nov after final CAFCASS report and final hearing will probably be early in New Year. Have been quoted £4000 Plus..
Well what now...do you think a job offer will be kept open that long? Has anyone been left in this position?
I know so many people are having similar issues on BE but even so you still feel alone and frustrated and angry and AGHHHHH...
Sarah
Thought I would release my frustrations by giving an update on our trials and tribulations in relation to getting permission from my ex for our daughter age 10 years to emigrate.
Back in Feb we went on holiday to Oz, OH has family there, fell in love with the lifestyle etc and on return applied for a job (nurse) got job offer in 3 weeks, got state registration in 2 weeks all good so far. Had solicitor appointment in early March thanks to forum to go through preliminaries to get permission from ex who has not had contact for 5 years. Letters sent, no reply, stat dec sent, no reply, court application made simultaneously with 457 app as all was looking good that he had disappeared. Then on court day last Monday 13th he APPEARS and guess what he does cross application to get residency after all this time. Our meds had been in LCU since early July and the backlogs gave us a good excuse for being slow proceeding with job offer/start date. However today Meds all finalized and solicitor says next court appearance will be 5th Nov after final CAFCASS report and final hearing will probably be early in New Year. Have been quoted £4000 Plus..
Well what now...do you think a job offer will be kept open that long? Has anyone been left in this position?
I know so many people are having similar issues on BE but even so you still feel alone and frustrated and angry and AGHHHHH...
Sarah
This must be a awful for you, I know it was our worst nightmare.
Antonia.
Dec 4th 2007 | 7:19 am
#78
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Yes unfortunately we were married so no shortcuts
If only......
If only......
Dec 19th 2007 | 10:55 pm
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Sarah, just wishing you all luck for tomorrow. Hope it goes well & look forward to hearing some good news from you!
Dec 19th 2007 | 11:04 pm
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Good Luck - will be thinking of you...
An update from me - Went to London on Monday - passports issued no questions just filled in the passport forms, B8(i think), took stat decs with me just in case... but in the end he just ticked everything took copies of BC's and citizenship certs and was easy peasy - so all my worrying for nothing. Not even any probs with photos LOL
An update from me - Went to London on Monday - passports issued no questions just filled in the passport forms, B8(i think), took stat decs with me just in case... but in the end he just ticked everything took copies of BC's and citizenship certs and was easy peasy - so all my worrying for nothing. Not even any probs with photos LOL
Dec 19th 2007 | 11:16 pm
#82
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
wishing you all the best for tomorrow
Dec 19th 2007 | 11:16 pm
#83
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From: Little Mountain, Sunshine Coast, Queensland
Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Hi Sarah.......have been thinking about you this week babe 
I'm sure everyone who has read this thread is 100% behind you tomorrow........really hope that the case is settled once and for all and you get the court order granted.....then you can have a fab Christmas
Let us know how you get on please........totally understand how you're feeling right now too.
Sending you some karma to keep you strong,
Beth x x
I'm sure everyone who has read this thread is 100% behind you tomorrow........really hope that the case is settled once and for all and you get the court order granted.....then you can have a fab Christmas
Let us know how you get on please........totally understand how you're feeling right now too.
Sending you some karma to keep you strong,
Beth x x
Dec 19th 2007 | 11:28 pm
#84
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Have been following your thread. Best of luck for tomorrow.
Mary
Mary
Dec 20th 2007 | 12:10 am
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
yeh same here good luck our thought are with you
Dec 20th 2007 | 12:50 am
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Best of luck for tomorrow. Keep us posted
Joex
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Dec 20th 2007 | 3:35 am
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Good luck 4 2moro
Suexx
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Dec 20th 2007 | 3:49 am
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Good luck, be thinking of you.
Dec 20th 2007 | 4:21 am
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Praying you stay strong & sending you loads of positive wishes 
Dec 20th 2007 | 9:48 am
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Re: Update on ex's permission - NOT!!
Hi
I have just sat here and read all of the posts on this! Hope u get the outcome that u want and deserve!
GOOD LUCK for tomorrow
I have just sat here and read all of the posts on this! Hope u get the outcome that u want and deserve!
GOOD LUCK for tomorrow
