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Old Apr 17th 2010 | 5:39 am
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Originally Posted by Weebie
One more thing which I think some people will agree on.

In the mid eighties when South Africans moved to Perth they made very good decisions. The rand was strong and property and housing affordable was cheap. Many UK and Kiwi migrants who came here in the early 2000s have done exactly the same when you look back on it. Made a good decision to migrate here and it's payed dividends for them.

For new migrants you won't have this luxury and many underestimate how hard things will be for them and in many cases life will be better off back home for them. But you don't know if you don't try and no one wants to have regrets in there life so go for it!!! Just be prepared that it's not the same as it was 5-10 years ago.
Thanks for that - very interesting posts!
 
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Originally Posted by Weebie
The real problem with UK migrants is where they're moving. They are so into having a big house they forget about location. In Perth for instance it's secret harbour, Mindarie, Joondalup, Ellenbrook etc. There are all areas that most middleclass Perthites for instance would regard as lower class shitholes. Move in a better area but less room like a townhouse and I think you would enjoy Perth more. Same applys for all Australian cities. Basically Australian property developers are scamming people into awful dangerous suburbs with the lure of a pretty new house. Frankston in Melbourne is another area in which I am absolutely confused why someone would want to go there. If you meet any Sydneysider the first thing they'll ask you is "where do you live?" location is important here and people will judge you on that.

Another factor in Australia that people fail to realize is that job classifications are a lot more snobbish here. (Not pointing out anything in particular) but in the UK being a Bricklayer or a Hairdresser etc is a respectable trade where as here it's not. Notice how Australians don't have funny titles for there Jobs?? Australians won't do many of these jobs (Police is a good example) and that is why there is a demand for migrants from the UK to settle here whilst compared to other countries such as America or even the UK a lot of the migrants coming here would have no chance of qualifying for a visa.

Many Irish backpackers here in Perth always complain how they can never get attractive girls in Australia because as soon as they find out there job profession during conversation the girl simply is not interested.

As a previous poster indicated a lot of them are just bogans with a funny accents.

Sorry if this offends anyone but as a Perthite who has spent considerable time in the UK what I've said is very accurate.

Australia has some great things and some bad things (same as the UK) My advice is when migrating to Australia treat it as a new adventure and not some escape from the UK becouse life looks so dandy on neighbours.

A funny reason why some people migrate to the UK is that they're sick of immigrants yet Australia is one of the most diverse countries in the world. makes no sense?
Hang on a sec its always mentioned on here that there is no 'class system' or people dont care where you live,what car you drive,what profession you're in.
Another Aussie myth i've found out
Some of the 'real' locals are the biggest snobs i've ever spoken too.
 
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Originally Posted by stuckinblighty
Some of the 'real' locals are the biggest snobs i've ever spoken too.
Hi - what do you mean by a snob? I live in Melbourne and I've met a lot of mums from my child's class. Have found them to be friendly and not standoffish or may be it's just that I've missed the snobbish nuances?(a bit unlikely though as I'm not very thick skinned)

PS: okay, think the answer could be it's not a private school so guess why no hoity toity peeps here...

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I'm in the trees and positively loving it. Never been an estate person prefer a bit space around me.

Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack
Some people would be negative for those reasons people give. A minority probably. Not all. Other people just don't recognise the points because their lives are different.

Positive opinions generally don't need to be explained - to be honest. It's a sad day for our advanced society when people start talking about validating their positive posts. I mean - I had a great dinner with friends last night - do I need to prove it? Do I need a certificate? Perhaps every time I enjoy myself I am not after all. Maybe it's all a lie...(!)

It's sad when every post made is debated and assessed on whether it is valid, or what it says about the state of the poster's mind. IMHO.
It seems to be an affliction of the people who are unhappy.
 
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Originally Posted by Weebie
The real problem with UK migrants is where they're moving. They are so into having a big house they forget about location. In Perth for instance it's secret harbour, Mindarie, Joondalup, Ellenbrook etc. There are all areas that most middleclass Perthites for instance would regard as lower class shitholes. Move in a better area but less room like a townhouse and I think you would enjoy Perth more. Same applys for all Australian cities. Basically Australian property developers are scamming people into awful dangerous suburbs with the lure of a pretty new house. Frankston in Melbourne is another area in which I am absolutely confused why someone would want to go there. If you meet any Sydneysider the first thing they'll ask you is "where do you live?" location is important here and people will judge you on that.

Another factor in Australia that people fail to realize is that job classifications are a lot more snobbish here. (Not pointing out anything in particular) but in the UK being a Bricklayer or a Hairdresser etc is a respectable trade where as here it's not. Notice how Australians don't have funny titles for there Jobs?? Australians won't do many of these jobs (Police is a good example) and that is why there is a demand for migrants from the UK to settle here whilst compared to other countries such as America or even the UK a lot of the migrants coming here would have no chance of qualifying for a visa.

Many Irish backpackers here in Perth always complain how they can never get attractive girls in Australia because as soon as they find out there job profession during conversation the girl simply is not interested.

As a previous poster indicated a lot of them are just bogans with a funny accents.

Sorry if this offends anyone but as a Perthite who has spent considerable time in the UK what I've said is very accurate.

Australia has some great things and some bad things (same as the UK) My advice is when migrating to Australia treat it as a new adventure and not some escape from the UK becouse life looks so dandy on neighbours.

A funny reason why some people migrate to the UK is that they're sick of immigrants yet Australia is one of the most diverse countries in the world. makes no sense?
A good summary of Perth Weebie.

I agree that the property developers try to sell a dream to the niave Brits. My favorite was that Somerly (Clarkson) was going to be the new 'Subiaco'. That was funny and yet people fall for this rubbish and sales speil.

Plenty of legoland estates, with no character or trees, a couple of souless shopping centers, jammed packed schools and not much else to do in the area. I could suffer this aspect but not when you are paying good money for it, as in 7 x the average wage, it's not worth it and the sooner people realise they are getting taken for a ride, the better.
 
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Originally Posted by stuckinblighty
Hang on a sec its always mentioned on here that there is no 'class system' or people dont care where you live,what car you drive,what profession you're in.
Another Aussie myth i've found out
Some of the 'real' locals are the biggest snobs i've ever spoken too.
I think a class system is more than just simple snobbery. Snobbery is human nature and is everywhere. We definitely have rampant snobbery like everywhere else but I don't think we have a proper "class system".
 
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I think a class system is more than just simple snobbery. Snobbery is human nature and is everywhere. We definitely have rampant snobbery like everywhere else but I don't think we have a proper "class system".
So what is a class system if it's not snobbery mate - aren't they the same thing?
 
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Originally Posted by stuckinblighty
Hang on a sec its always mentioned on here that there is no 'class system' or people dont care where you live,what car you drive,what profession you're in.
Another Aussie myth i've found out
Some of the 'real' locals are the biggest snobs i've ever spoken too.
Atm we live in a studio unit attached to someone else's house and we drive a 1984 Holden Jackaroo that is more rust than metal. My husband is a cabinetmaker by profession and we are both currently unemployed. Nobody we have met here has judged us on any of those things, and most of our mates live in lovely big houses with swimming pools. If anyone does judge us on our financial status (and doubtless somewhere along the line someone will), then they are not the kind of person I want to hang out with anyway. There are snobs and materialists in every country, why should anyone imagine that Australia be any different?
 
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Originally Posted by PamE
Atm we live in a studio unit attached to someone else's house and we drive a 1984 Holden Jackaroo that is more rust than metal. My husband is a cabinetmaker by profession and we are both currently unemployed. Nobody we have met here has judged us on any of those things, and most of our mates live in lovely big houses with swimming pools. If anyone does judge us on our financial status (and doubtless somewhere along the line someone will), then they are not the kind of person I want to hang out with anyway. There are snobs and materialists in every country, why should anyone imagine that Australia be any different?
Don't worry by the look of your visa you're already part of the 'subclass'.
 
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Originally Posted by sonlymewalter
So what is a class system if it's not snobbery mate - aren't they the same thing?
I guess they come from similar human traits. I think snobbery is one output of a class system but it contains other elements.

I think a class system defines people into social stratas a lot stronger than whether you have money or other points of snobbery. Obviously it's based on your lineage not just your money and includes things like:

- accent
- pastimes
- schools
- area's
- beliefs
- access
- attitudes
- traditions
etc

When I lived in the UK I noticed that, even now, when classes are mean to be blurring, a lot of people are proud to be part of the class they are in as it is their identity. It didn't seem to be all a bad thing either as it seemed to be a holder of traditions and values.

So while I think you could argue that all the attributes I listed are present in normal snobbery, I think it becomes a lot more when it is formalised into definitive social groups to which people are born into. I think Australia just has plain old vanilla snobbery rather than a formal class system that is a more complex beast. Maybe the difference between Australian snobbery and the Indian caste system is another (extreme) example. Maybe if Australia was given 800 years we could turn it into a class system

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Originally Posted by ABCDiamond
Sensible negative posts don't bother many people at all.
But the over the top ones generalisations may bother the people who prefer to see the reality.

Also if many of these over the top generalisations are read by people considering moving, they could well end up with lack of confidence, and you will then be proved correct in your statements. Nothing to do with low esteem though, just being fed with over generalisations by some people.
Requiring validation for ones decisions is all about self esteem.
 
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Non-English speakers face a barrier in getting jobs and having qualifications recognised, it finds.

The report says affordable housing is becoming out of reach for more people, with more than 23 per cent of Melburnians spending 30 per cent, or more, of their income on housing - a figure that has risen 16 per cent over the past decade.

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My parents live in a nice western suburbs house with no morgage and plenty of disposable income. Thave good paying jobs and my dad travels a lot with work so the isolation factor is no issue for him. LIFE IS GOOD FOR THEM. this is the sort of people who enjoy it here in Perth.

Coming to Perth paying a massive morgage not having any money to do anything or even get out eventually takes its toll here. My friends who all have worked in England have now booked there flights back for later this year. Work my arse off to live in Joondalup where there is no life and essentially you end up living a pretty pointless life. I'm off to America at the end of the year. I'll earn a lot less money but i'll have a chance at owning a house and Í'll be in a country that's close to things and I'll have a bit more of a life. We'll see how it pans out.

One of the funny things about Australia I find is how people think that automatically moving to Australia will allow their kids to have an Öutdoo"r lifestyle" hahahahaha most kids here just sit at home on weekends and watch Foxtel.

Life is hard here even with high salaries so be prepared. Although I think many potential migrates will haev a better life back home I respect anyone out here who is willing to give it a go.
 
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My parents live in a nice western suburbs house with no morgage and plenty of disposable income. Thave good paying jobs and my dad travels a lot with work so the isolation factor is no issue for him. LIFE IS GOOD FOR THEM. this is the sort of people who enjoy it here in Perth.

Coming to Perth paying a massive morgage not having any money to do anything or even get out eventually takes its toll here. My friends who all have worked in England have now booked there flights back for later this year. Work my arse off to live in Joondalup where there is no life and essentially you end up living a pretty pointless life. I'm off to America at the end of the year. I'll earn a lot less money but i'll have a chance at owning a house and Í'll be in a country that's close to things and I'll have a bit more of a life. We'll see how it pans out.

One of the funny things about Australia I find is how people think that automatically moving to Australia will allow their kids to have an Öutdoo"r lifestyle" hahahahaha most kids here just sit at home on weekends and watch Foxtel.

Life is hard here even with high salaries so be prepared. Although I think many potential migrates will haev a better life back home I respect anyone out here who is willing to give it a go.
Your sentiment is exactly what I'm hearing from other newbies to Perth in the last couple of years. Two families I know have gone home recently because they found housing and cost of living higher than when they first started the migration process. They decided they were better off in UK. It's a trend I expect to continue.

Perth has been nicknamed 'Dullsville' for a reason. It's great place if you are into boating, fishing and surfing but other than that, very lacklustre.
 
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Your sentiment is exactly what I'm hearing from other newbies to Perth in the last couple of years. Two families I know have gone home recently because they found housing and cost of living higher than when they first started the migration process. They decided they were better off in UK. It's a trend I expect to continue.

Perth has been nicknamed 'Dullsville' for a reason. It's great place if you are into boating, fishing and surfing but other than that, very lacklustre.
Perth is the most boring place i've ever had the (dis)pleasure to visit.
 


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