Difficult to make friends in America?
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yeah but those are all pictures of tourist attractions- this is obviously by definition selective- & yes, there are many stunningly beautiful places in the US - dont get me wrong - Im a fan - but you head west from NYC on 80, once youre out of suburban NJ it all starts looking very much the same, pass the Poconos & the rest of PA, Ohio & Indiana- its all very much the same for hundreds of miles
Not looking to insult everybody here, its just the way it is- you want to recomend some places Im open to suggestion dude
Not looking to insult everybody here, its just the way it is- you want to recomend some places Im open to suggestion dude
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yeah but those are all pictures of tourist attractions- this is obviously by definition selective- & yes, there are many stunningly beautiful places in the US - dont get me wrong - Im a fan - but you head west from NYC on 80, once youre out of suburban NJ it all starts looking very much the same, pass the Poconos & the rest of PA, Ohio & Indiana- its all very much the same for hundreds of miles
Not looking to insult everybody here, its just the way it is- you want to recomend some places Im open to suggestion dude
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I get your point about it looking the same in some places, but this is a massive country. If the UK weren't so old and densely populated, the scenery wouldn't look too different either. Part of the charm of the British countryside is the ancient man made factor. Much of the US is still undeveloped wild forest that has probably not been touched for centuries.
I can knock the US for many things, but scenery certainly isn't one of them. I've seen some spectacular stuff here, though not so much in FL.
If you want something that looks a little like the rolling hills, fields and woodland of the English countryside, I recommend Virginia. Get off the main interstate and drive from Richmond to Lynchburg / Roanoke and find the Blue Ridge Parkway:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_Ridge_Parkway
Fantastic drive. I even enjoyed it with a howling cat in the car.
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I've lived in Boston, DC, NYC, various places in Colorado, and now Chicago. Most of my family now lives in Florida and Nashville and I go to both somewhat frequently. I can tell you that it's very easy to distinguish all of these places on sight. Also, the cultures are extremely diverse. For example: New York is nothing at all like Nashville culturally.
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Last year, I drove up through Virginia, Pennsylvania, east through New York (state) and into Connecticut and Massachusetts. It was a spectacular drive, although southern PA is a little flat,
If you want something that looks a little like the rolling hills, fields and woodland of the English countryside, I recommend Virginia. Get off the main interstate and drive from Richmond to Lynchburg / Roanoke and find the Blue Ridge Parkway:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_Ridge_Parkway
Fantastic drive. I even enjoyed it with a howling cat in the car.
If you want something that looks a little like the rolling hills, fields and woodland of the English countryside, I recommend Virginia. Get off the main interstate and drive from Richmond to Lynchburg / Roanoke and find the Blue Ridge Parkway:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_Ridge_Parkway
Fantastic drive. I even enjoyed it with a howling cat in the car.
You go 500 miles from NYC youre in Ohio. Another 500 youre in Iowa.
Its a big country. A lot of it all looks the same.
And some of it is very nice.
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He did have a point. There are many towns that are characterless and look much the same with stripmalls and not much character for miles around.
New England is not all that typical of the bog standard little town.
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The UK and Europe in general are much older. You get a vast array of architecture, quaint villages, ancient rolling farmland. If you stripped all of that out, I bet it wouldn't seem like it varied as much.
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Me neither - please don't take this the wrong way. Hard to make a point on the internets without sounding like you are berating someone.
Well Santa Fe definitely is. Montpelier VT sorta qualifies as touristy but is really a government/former mill town and a is bit rough round the edges. If you take the state house out of the equation there are a lot of New England cities like it. The field in Illinois is not a tourist attraction. The Hudson valley is but it is massive and looks like that along its extent so it's a tourist attraction in the same way the Appalachians are for example.
Yeah the real problem is sprawl - the anywhere USA effect. Places that are newer in the states and the outskirts of most older places have this auto-centric crap around it that looks identical whatever area of the country you are in. I'll go with that. The midwest I have been told is pretty dull.
Yeah the real problem is sprawl - the anywhere USA effect. Places that are newer in the states and the outskirts of most older places have this auto-centric crap around it that looks identical whatever area of the country you are in. I'll go with that. The midwest I have been told is pretty dull.
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Me neither - please don't take this the wrong way. Hard to make a point on the internets without sounding like you are berating someone.
Yeah the real problem is sprawl - the anywhere USA effect. Places that are newer in the states and the outskirts of most older places have this auto-centric crap around it that looks identical whatever area of the country you are in. I'll go with that. The midwest I have been told is pretty dull.
Yeah the real problem is sprawl - the anywhere USA effect. Places that are newer in the states and the outskirts of most older places have this auto-centric crap around it that looks identical whatever area of the country you are in. I'll go with that. The midwest I have been told is pretty dull.
It is dull.
Agree with your point about the internet/ making a point/ berating people/
Id like to think of it as 'intellectually rigorous' eh ha ha- and if you dont mind, then I dont mind
Glad youre not berating me though mate
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True - not going to pretend that there aren't crappy Levittown developments or never ending roads of sprawl in America that depress the hell out of you. However it's also important to make the point there are great places in and amongst that - not to mention great differences in the landscape, architecture, outlook etc.. I would probably feel differently if I lived in Southern Illinois though.
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blimey you lot are a cynical load arn't you!!
I love living in US - if I didnt I wouldnt be here - go on shoot me down in feathers why dont you!
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I live in an amazing place on the PNW coast - but also appreciate the urban sprawl that is LA, NY etc
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