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Originally Posted by CaliforniaBride
Ok Ray. Let's do this slowly. I magine the same situation in the UK. What would be the response?
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OK heres the deal. Everytime as a copper you do a traffic stop you have NO IDEA what you are going to face. Every single person in the car you have stopped is a potentially deadly threat and that goes for anywhere not just in the US. Dont believe me? Consider the three Leeds coppers who made a stop on a vehicle last year. The car had a single male in it. So here we have 3 cops one male...easy right? Wrong! The guy pulled a hand gun and shot all 3 killing one. And that, my friends, was in Leeds, England. Some of the most viscious and physically difficult arrests have been on people you wouldnt normally look twice at.
In my professional opinion the copper handled it to a T. The female driver failed to comply following several reasonable and clear commands to do so. For all the copper new she could have been about to pull a gun, knife, pepper spray or attempt to run him over. When someone has such a confrontational attitude to the most mundane request - ie please show me your drivers license - then they are capabale of anything. He ended the confrontation with minimal threat of injury to all involved.
In my professional opinion the copper handled it to a T. The female driver failed to comply following several reasonable and clear commands to do so. For all the copper new she could have been about to pull a gun, knife, pepper spray or attempt to run him over. When someone has such a confrontational attitude to the most mundane request - ie please show me your drivers license - then they are capabale of anything. He ended the confrontation with minimal threat of injury to all involved.
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Originally Posted by CaliforniaBride
Ok Ray. Let's do this slowly. I magine the same situation in the UK. What would be the response?
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The response in england may well have ended the same. A number of forces are now trialling tasers and have used them. If not then she certainly would have risked a face full of CS followed by arrest for obstruction. And yes, it would have been a justifiable use of force. I dont care how "right" someone thinks they are you dont get confrontational and expect the copper to just say "Oh ok madam you are obviously right. Please go on your way."
I got a bullshit ticket the other day for making an "Improper right turn". The cop wanted to stick it on me and nothing I could have said would change it. My response? "Thank you officer. Have a nice day." and walk away. If you genuinely think the copper has it wrong, take the ticket and challenge it in court. Screaming and shouting and refusing to do as requested will NOT make him change his mind.
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Question-is it the same in the UK, that domestics are not a popular kind of call to answer? Reason here is that you never know how those are going to end up.
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Originally Posted by cindyabs
Question-is it the same in the UK, that domestics are not a popular kind of call to answer? Reason here is that you never know how those are going to end up.
Too bloody right. I used to hate domestic shouts. Never know what you were getting into, who the real victim was and the emotions were the highest you've ever seen. And if there were kids involved it was 10 times as bad. Ive been to some where you can calm it down and get them talking to each other Ive been to others where you literally end up physically restraining and locking someone up (and not always the bloke) just to stop them attempting murder. Then you have to deal with the little 'uns who have just witnessed their mam and dad beating the sh!t out of each other and now mam or dad is getting carted away in the back of a police car....not good at all.
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Originally Posted by Ray
What would happen in the UK has nothing to do with it ..
I don't want you to agree with me ..I want you to tell me how you think it should have been handled...
I don't want you to agree with me ..I want you to tell me how you think it should have been handled...
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The response in england may well have ended the same. A number of forces are now trialling tasers and have used them. If not then she certainly would have risked a face full of CS followed by arrest for obstruction. And yes, it would have been a justifiable use of force. I dont care how "right" someone thinks they are you dont get confrontational and expect the copper to just say "Oh ok madam you are obviously right. Please go on your way."
I got a bullshit ticket the other day for making an "Improper right turn". The cop wanted to stick it on me and nothing I could have said would change it. My response? "Thank you officer. Have a nice day." and walk away. If you genuinely think the copper has it wrong, take the ticket and challenge it in court. Screaming and shouting and refusing to do as requested will NOT make him change his mind.
I got a bullshit ticket the other day for making an "Improper right turn". The cop wanted to stick it on me and nothing I could have said would change it. My response? "Thank you officer. Have a nice day." and walk away. If you genuinely think the copper has it wrong, take the ticket and challenge it in court. Screaming and shouting and refusing to do as requested will NOT make him change his mind.
I agree with what the response from the driver should have been. But if tazering somebody for being mouthy is a punishment then that means the officer is playing judge, jury and executioner.
I also think that we are Brits expecting to see a Brit attitude towards police officers when this is America where the attitude is very different. Consent of the people and such like.
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A case in point about being nice and smiling, my wife got pulled over for speeding for the second time this year (Nutter in a Mini Cooper) She smiled and said sorry, the local cop made a joke about the size of her speedo and gave her a ticket for not wearing a seatbelt instead (no points) There's no way you're going to win with them if you get arsey about it, especially bored local cops in low crime areas.
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Originally Posted by CaliforniaBride
I believe that US police officers use force before UK officers do. I know thats part of the training but it's still different.
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I agree with what the response from the driver should have been. But if tazering somebody for being mouthy is a punishment then that means the officer is playing judge, jury and executioner.
Originally Posted by CaliforniaBride
I also think that we are Brits expecting to see a Brit attitude towards police officers when this is America where the attitude is very different. Consent of the people and such like.
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Consider the three Leeds coppers who made a stop on a vehicle last year. The car had a single male in it. So here we have 3 cops one male...easy right? Wrong! The guy pulled a hand gun and shot all 3 killing one. And that, my friends, was in Leeds, England.
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Just the one. And it's grossly overrated.
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Originally Posted by gruffbrown
A case in point about being nice and smiling, my wife got pulled over for speeding for the second time this year (Nutter in a Mini Cooper) She smiled and said sorry, the local cop made a joke about the size of her speedo and gave her a ticket for not wearing a seatbelt instead (no points) There's no way your going to win with them if you get arsey about it, especially bored local cops in low crime areas.
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Originally Posted by elfman
not trying to make any kind of point here, but the shooter happened to be an American in that case:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/4058795.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/4058795.stm
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