Again, I know what you mean but it doesn't have to be rushed and can still be the second happiest day of your lives. (The happiest might have been the birth of your daughter! ) Just consider marrying if it does look like you'll be moving, but it wouldn't be just because you're moving, it would also be because you love each other! I wouldn't want you to suffer just because you and your man are being slightly "stubborn"... Best of luck! And PM me if you want an excellent tropical wedding planner! (not me)

I realize that just responding to what people are saying it would be rude not too

Yes defiantly the second happiest day

If it comes down to it and he does get offered the job and he really wants to take it then i think yes i would stop being "stubborn" and do it. I wouldn't want him missing out on a fantastic opportunity!!

and thankyou yes i may just do that (the tropical wedding planner)

Yay! That sounds good.

I have moved the off topic posts re immigration and marriage into a discussion thread in the Trailer Park forum.

http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=790789