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robin1234 Nov 20th 2011 3:23 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by paranoidandroid (Post 9744075)
Be sure to find your sense of humour, and learn to recognise irony, before you do so, Dorothy. The joke was specifically aimed at Robin, who makes no secret of being older.. hence the ":sneaky:" emoticon.

I'd made no mention of age in my original post, but to clarify, the person in question was a late 40's/early 50's, redneck. Ok?

:frown: :cry_smile: :cry_smile: :cry_smile:

zargof Nov 20th 2011 4:15 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by AmerLisa (Post 9744094)
And that's ok, why?

You wouldn't happen to be a late 40s, early 50s redneck would you?

theOAP Nov 20th 2011 4:32 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by robin1234 (Post 9743888)
Now we are getting into a period when folks who've been using computers, plastic cards, emerging technologies all their adult lives are retiring & in some cases unfortunately getting senile. Hard to see how they will juggle the multifarious accounts, systems, pins and passwords as they progressively lose their marbles...

My pet peeve is the overdependence on direct debits, online submissions, and on line accounts. Contrary to popular perceptions, the dependence on 'it all happening in the ether' is causing some, both young and old, to lose the day to day ability to retain control their funds, with or without marbles. They can become observers. If there are computer problems, individuals may have to contact the bank or HR just to rediscover payments or outgoings from 2 months ago. The fast growing requirement to use these facilities could create more difficulties than the inability to remember passwords. Home accountancy skills decline, and the banks and credit card companies love it.

robin1234 Nov 20th 2011 4:42 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by theOAP (Post 9744177)
My pet peeve is the overdependence on direct debits, online submissions, and on line accounts. Contrary to popular perceptions, the dependence on 'it all happening in the ether' is causing some, both young and old, to lose the day to day ability to retain control their funds, with or without marbles. They can become observers. If there are computer problems, individuals may have to contact the bank or HR just to rediscover payments or outgoings from 2 months ago. The fast growing requirement to use these facilities could create more difficulties than the inability to remember passwords. Home accountancy skills decline, and the banks and credit card companies love it.

Telecoms love it too. I recently discovered I was fraudulently crammed by an outfit in Florida called ESBI, who have been charging me $12.95 a month since March, third party billed by Verizon, my home phone line provider. I didn't authorise the charge and I received no services for it.

I think it happened because I moved to direct debit for Verizon, got lazy and never checked my monthly phone bill. Now I'm back to writing Verizon a check each month..

cindyabs Nov 20th 2011 4:44 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by theOAP (Post 9744177)
My pet peeve is the overdependence on direct debits, online submissions, and on line accounts. Contrary to popular perceptions, the dependence on 'it all happening in the ether' is causing some, both young and old, to lose the day to day ability to retain control their funds, with or without marbles. They can become observers. If there are computer problems, individuals may have to contact the bank or HR just to rediscover payments or outgoings from 2 months ago. The fast growing requirement to use these facilities could create more difficulties than the inability to remember passwords. Home accountancy skills decline, and the banks and credit card companies love it.

As I had mentioned before, I do my Mom's payments for her online since her handwriting is so poor now and too much of a chore. It's a hassle for her control wise since we're 300 miles apart and indeed she has to wait to get bank statement to know where she's at. Unfortunately, there's no other solution, but I agree, more and more everything is aimed for those with a computer. :(

AmerLisa Nov 20th 2011 5:01 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by zargof (Post 9744148)
You wouldn't happen to be a late 40s, early 50s redneck would you?

If I were, would it make a difference?:confused:

Perhaps the person was challenged in ways that were not obvious... It just feels wrong to adopt a "holier than thou" attitude to someone who may not be at the same level.

AmerLisa Nov 20th 2011 5:07 am

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Originally Posted by cindyabs (Post 9744191)
As I had mentioned before, I do my Mom's payments for her online since her handwriting is so poor now and too much of a chore. It's a hassle for her control wise since we're 300 miles apart and indeed she has to wait to get bank statement to know where she's at. Unfortunately, there's no other solution, but I agree, more and more everything is aimed for those with a computer. :(

I do the same for my grandmother. Now that my aunt has passed away, and my grandmother's insistence on staying in her own home, 200 miles away, I'm the only relative that's left to do her bills. She has a friend, thankfully, that can help read whatever mail she receives (my grandmother is 96 and has macular degeneration) But I'm thankful that I have access to her bank account online and we've set up most of her bills to be paid online.

As a side note, she takes her debit card to the stores and uses it and remembers her pin number. She's pretty sharp for 96! :)

theOAP Nov 20th 2011 5:12 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by cindyabs (Post 9744191)
As I had mentioned before, I do my Mom's payments for her online since her handwriting is so poor now and too much of a chore. It's a hassle for her control wise since we're 300 miles apart and indeed she has to wait to get bank statement to know where she's at. Unfortunately, there's no other solution, but I agree, more and more everything is aimed for those with a computer. :(

It would be foolish to argue against the technology where it can be extremely useful, particularly in a case such as yours. It's the requirement to use the technology, whether you want it or not, that's annoying. As opposed to your situation where it solidifies control, it could result in the loss of control. Both sides of the same coin.

Lorna at Vicenza Nov 20th 2011 5:21 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 
Men who think the blades of knives clean better in the dishwasher with the dirty blade pointing upwards.

Idiots.

Poppy girl Nov 20th 2011 5:25 am

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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza (Post 9744249)
Men who think the blades of knives clean better in the dishwasher with the dirty blade pointing upwards.

Idiots.

What about the women that do the same thing!! :lol:

(Wonder where you got that notion from ;) )

Lorna at Vicenza Nov 20th 2011 5:27 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 
One very small glass of wine with Sunday lunch out with friends (I was driving) and at about 5 pm I had the beginnings of a headache ...


.... yet ....if I start in the evening, I can go on for hours and bottles without the slightest hint of a headache. Why is that?

Lorna at Vicenza Nov 20th 2011 5:31 am

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Originally Posted by Poppy girl (Post 9744257)
What about the women that do the same thing!! :lol:

(Wonder where you got that notion from ;) )

Because in my house blades and forks go down. My bloody father (but lovely father) showed me a picture of a toddler who tripped over an open dishwasher when I first got mine - the toddler fell face down onto knives and forks. It pisses me off that OH thinks blades wash better upwards. What kind of science is that?

And yes - I suppose plenty of women stick cutlery in any old way - so my apologies. I just thought most of us had been taught to put blades down and to pass knives and scissors by the handle and not the blade.

Bob Nov 20th 2011 6:23 am

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How Chrome has "Close tabs to the right" right beside "Reopen Closed Tab". I've accidently hit the close tabs one quite a few times...grrrr.

Bob Nov 20th 2011 6:30 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by AmerLisa (Post 9744208)
If I were, would it make a difference?:confused:

Perhaps the person was challenged in ways that were not obvious... It just feels wrong to adopt a "holier than thou" attitude to someone who may not be at the same level.

But sometimes, it's just fun to take the piss and be mean, than take the "holier than thou" attitude.

Oh, and while having a peeve at stupid people....the knob head who broke into the mall complex the other day and tried to kick in the door at the missus bank....set off the alarm.

Now means before she can open the branch, I've got to do a drive by of the back door, which is a miles detour to get around the lot because it's right on the very end, of a one way side road.

Bob Nov 20th 2011 6:32 am

Re: Pet Peeves?
 

Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza (Post 9744249)
Men who think the blades of knives clean better in the dishwasher with the dirty blade pointing upwards.

Idiots.

Because the reality is, it doesn't make a difference as all dish washers are shit :D


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