Thanks Chris and Sally.

Kyla: temperature on the balcony in the shade is 30C, both the pools look inviting, cold beer is in fridge, airports are open - come for a break at least. Do you want me to check beaches for the best looking fellahs?

STOP! I'm so jealous It's pouring here, the roads are flooded. Yes, please check out the local talent for me and let me know if you spot a good one!

Hi Kyla,how are you this morning,the weather here has been horrendous
perhaps a nice break in the sun is what you need,hope your OK, have you heard of the rat.Chin up girl

Kyla - checked beach at Benalmadena for talent for you, looked at first 50 nearest the promenade. 10 bloody ugly, 10 shaven headed,fat & covered with tattoos, and about 15 with families - that would give you 15 to pick from. I did check the girls as well and copped a slap from the choremeister, this afternoon she is going to get me washing the car, cleaning the balcony, and repairing the sink tap she broke. Oh what joy!!

Ahhhhhhh, What a swine!!! :curse: My God!!!. Can you come to Spain anyway and make a new life for yourself?, Was your OH the only reason for moving to Spain?. Maybe you could find a job in Spain or another reliable Spanish guy.

Good luck and my best wishes.

Hi Diana. Thanks for your message. Are you still thinking about moving to Spain?

My OH was the reason I was moving to Spain and I was very excited about my new life, really looking forward to it. We had been making plans for months. It's just such a disappointment. The idea of moving to Spain anyway is a very tempting one, but at the moment I’m still grieving and trying to find somewhere else to live.

Yes, I am looking for a job in Malaga... or a boyfriend (it´s a joke) I want to be self-sufficiency. Imagine if your OH let you down when you are living in Spain... No way.

Anyway, you could look for a job in Spain and move them. Or maybe it would be possible a reconcilation with your OH. Who knows?

Be positive!!

Good for you. I seem to recall that you are a PA, is that right? What's your Spanish like?

Yes, I am a PA, but my Spanish is very short. No bueno, muy cortio.
I am trying to learn Spanish now and I am going to spend 2 weeks in August in Benalmadena . I have 3 Spanish friends there and they are trying to help me. They know the area and British Enterprises in Marbella, Benalmadena and Torremolinos.

What's your Spanish like? How and where did you learn your Spanish?
Can you help me?

Thank you.