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Forum: New Zealand
Nov 27th 2009, 6:18 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

OK people, here I am, sorry for the delay. Bit of background on today..I've had (swine) flu for a week and today was my first up. We got to Court by 9.05, met with my solicitor and my Counsel by...
Forum: New Zealand
Nov 16th 2009, 7:18 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Good luck, let us know how you go x
Forum: New Zealand
Nov 12th 2009, 7:53 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Sorry BEVS.It's me who hasn't seen the little lad for ages and his biological dad who is off 'sick'.
jennigee - what a cr*p date they gave you! Sorry not to be in touch but laptop has given up the...
Forum: New Zealand
Nov 11th 2009, 10:08 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Stop it you're making my eyes leak.:wub:
As you say it is making things worse, DD is getting more and more angry with her dad and has told her Guardian and solicitor that she will not forgive him ,...
Forum: New Zealand
Nov 10th 2009, 6:00 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Huge thanks to you all, if it's a no from the judge then it won't be for the want of trying or the lack of crossed fingers from you lot. A darker force must be at work. :sneaky:
Big hugs xx
Forum: New Zealand
Oct 15th 2009, 7:56 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

No move here BEVS, still waiting on the end of Nov for Court. Meanwhile paying the Solicitor for every word uttered. Oh the things I could have done with this money :sneaky:
Don't worry will keep...
Forum: New Zealand
Jul 28th 2009, 7:43 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Who you calling a granny? It's the stress highlights isn't it?!
There's no chance of talking, all done via email or texts. Sad thing is he said he was prepared to lose contact with his daughter here...
Forum: New Zealand
Jul 24th 2009, 12:41 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Flip de do dar..Solicitor just rang to say she's had Court date through...13th August!! Much earlier than any of us thought it would be. Not sure yet whether all can make it, will keep you informed...
Forum: New Zealand
Jul 21st 2009, 9:00 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Thank you everyone, virtual hugs and kisses all round xx
Forum: New Zealand
Jul 21st 2009, 5:26 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

So, back from Court. Turned out to just be solicitors asking for it to go before Circuit Judge - probably some time in September - for a whole day. EX, CAFCASS and I will have to give evidence and be...
Forum: New Zealand
Jul 15th 2009, 10:01 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Just back from Solicitors, unless we can find mistakes in her report then no comeback. Should be in Court on Tuesday but solicitor's not sure it's worth going. (I am going ).Basically CAFCASS feel...
Forum: New Zealand
Jul 14th 2009, 5:31 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Well, had Analysis and Recommendation Document, from CAFCASS to Court ,and it's a big fat NO.
That's it then.:cry_smile:
Forum: New Zealand
Jun 16th 2009, 6:39 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Quick update...kids read through the papers CAFCASS sent about their meeting, I took them back yeasterday as OH and I had another meeting with her. Just can't tell where her thoughts are going at...
Forum: New Zealand
May 28th 2009, 10:38 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Hi, it's very daunting isn't it. As your son will be 11 CAFCASS and the courts will listen more to what he says. And yes I'm sure they don't want to split families. Will you have a job to go to?...
Forum: New Zealand
May 27th 2009, 8:54 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Hey you we posted at same time! She'll send the report to the kids to 'mark' and I guess I see it then?
Thanks for asking guys x
Forum: New Zealand
May 27th 2009, 8:52 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

DD said she didn't want to talk about it when she came out, but has said bits and pieces since then. She talked about her schooling and wanting to get in on the beginning of the high school...
Forum: New Zealand
May 26th 2009, 3:15 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Right tick that box. Both children met with the CAFCASS lady today, DD for over an hour and boy child for about 20 mins!! She says she'll write it up then get the kids to read it and see if they...
Forum: New Zealand
May 23rd 2009, 8:43 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Gut instinct? Think it'll be a no. EX has done a cracking job on the boy child. Combination of guilt and lies. Still we continue. Not sure what I'd do if the recommendation was for us to take DD and...
Forum: New Zealand
May 22nd 2009, 8:06 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Update....CAFCASS lady came to see the children at my house after school yesterday. She was a bit confused as EX said the boy child wanted to see her at his house today (friday) instead, but here he...
Forum: New Zealand
Apr 16th 2009, 1:08 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Aaaaargh! I hate CAFCASS :mad::mad:


...finished the rant...:o
Forum: New Zealand
Apr 13th 2009, 8:42 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Hi there, to start with do you or OH have any contact with the father? Phone or letters? Do you actually know where he is? Obviously the first thing to do is ask his permission, you never know! You...
Forum: New Zealand
Apr 9th 2009, 3:40 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Thank you x
Forum: New Zealand
Apr 8th 2009, 6:15 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

When I had my initial meeting with her she said her daughter had gone to EXs school but that he hadn't taught her and she herself had never met him. OK by me then. But when EX got back from his...
Forum: New Zealand
Apr 8th 2009, 2:22 pm
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Two steps back...just had phone call from the CAFCASS lady to say she's not coming to see us tomorrow after all, she's handed the case back to her Manager. This is 6 weeks after I first saw her. She...
Forum: New Zealand
Feb 26th 2009, 10:17 am
Replies: 345
Views: 45,623
Posted By j19fmm

Re: STEP CHILDREN

Hey there, thank you for the finger crossing!
I've just emailed the CAFCASS lady I saw and tried to explain how I would feel if we were refused permission to go to NZ. I'm sure I now sound like a...
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