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Old Oct 15th 2019, 7:59 am
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...but I have informed both the Military and Government agencies of my marital status change for pension purposes. I have had an acknowledgement from the Military agency but not yet from DWP."
I had to supply a notarized copy of my British marriage certificate to DWP when I applied for pension which I get due to being married to a Brit. I got married by a Brit. consul in a Brit. embassy.
They may ask you for such.
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Originally Posted by Philosophical 11
I had a church wedding, but held on one of the local resorts here. The Pastor, one of her batch-mates was qualified to carry out the service. I am not sure how it should be officially registered in the UK, but I have informed both the Military and Government agencies of my marital status change for pension purposes.
Please may I suggest you immediately inform then of change of circumstance?
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"...but I have informed both the Military and Government agencies of my marital status change for pension purposes. I have had an acknowledgement from the Military agency but not yet from DWP."
I had to supply a notarized copy of my British marriage certificate to DWP when I applied for pension which I get due to being married to a Brit. I got married by a Brit. consul in a Brit. embassy.
They may ask you for such.
Your military pension could be a problem but the married man's pension no longer exists, neither can your wife claim a pension on the back of your work record. That sort of thing finished years ago. My wife will receive her own pension based on her years worked.

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Your military pension could be a problem but the married man's pension no longer exists, neither can your wife claim a pension on the back of your work record. That sort of thing finished years ago. My wife will receive her own pension based on her years worked.
Thanks Gazza...

Yes, I am aware of all that and should have made it clear that I was referring to Bereavement Benefit or whatever it is called now. As far as the Military Pension is concerned, I have already received confirmation of what my wife will be entitled to and their records have been amended.

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Thanks Gazza...

Yes, I am aware of all that and should have made it clear that I was referring to Bereavement Benefit or whatever it is called now. As far as the Military Pension is concerned, I have already received confirmation of what my wife will be entitled to and their records have been amended.

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Nice, did you tell her how much?

You're worth more dead than alive - maybe the loan security was indeed you.
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Nice, did you tell her how much?

You're worth more dead than alive - maybe the loan security was indeed you.
Q1..... Nope. Not worth much anyway

Q2..... No contract. Just a scribbled piece of paper.

Moving on.....

Kitchen ware she bought at a sale came to 1380. Just pans. No knives
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Creditor still quiet.... Maybe she is just wary of dealing with a foreigner. We shall see

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So she knows she's over 200k in debt but thinks it's ok to borrow more money to buy crap? No matter how long you stay with this woman, you will never get on top of her debts.
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So she knows she's over 200k in debt but thinks it's ok to borrow more money to buy crap? No matter how long you stay with this woman, you will never get on top of her debts.
Yes... You are probably right. Unless of course she has a good wage which is looking doubtful now.. She reckons she will get paid once she has completed one month
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She appears to have no comprehension of our financial situation. The landlady removed the rather nice kitchen table and chairs a couple of weeks ago which belonged to her.. Wife later shows me a nice replacement in a catalogue for 15k. Told her we cannot afford it. No problem she reckons... We can get it on credit for 1.5k pm. It also escaped her notice that we rarely eat at the table anyway..
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Originally Posted by Philosophical 11
Q1..... Nope. Not worth much anyway

Q2..... No contract. Just a scribbled piece of paper.

Moving on.....

Kitchen ware she bought at a sale came to 1380. Just pans. No knives
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Creditor still quiet.... Maybe she is just wary of dealing with a foreigner. We shall see

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At least P11 might get a tasty dinner now his L/L has got some new pans, might not be able to cut the meal owing to a lack of knives.
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Originally Posted by Philosophical 11
Yes... You are probably right. Unless of course she has a good wage which is looking doubtful now.. She reckons she will get paid once she has completed one month
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She appears to have no comprehension of our financial situation. The landlady removed the rather nice kitchen table and chairs a couple of weeks ago which belonged to her.. Wife later shows me a nice replacement in a catalogue for 15k. Told her we cannot afford it. No problem she reckons... We can get it on credit for 1.5k pm. It also escaped her notice that we rarely eat at the table anyway..
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This is the L/L that P11 used to praise over her bussiness acumen. Go back further than the last Year when it all supposedly went wrong..... the shoe business, real estate sales , jewelery, etc.
Makes me wonder If p11 and his L/L are equally devoid of common sense.
As for the L/L gaining any responsible (legal) employment .....dream on !

l can see where this is leading,P11 will hang o to his L/L for all he is worth, even If the book of excuses is exhausted.




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l can see where this is leading,P11 will hang o to his L/L for all he is worth, even If the book of excuses is exhausted.
And the sad thing is that eventually she may up & leave him - & all his trials & tribulations will have been for nothing.
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Old Oct 15th 2019, 3:01 pm
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And the sad thing is that eventually she may up & leave him - & all his trials & tribulations will have been for nothing.
If you had read previously, this is exactly what I wish right now.

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If you had read previously, this is exactly what I wish right now.

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To go where? Why would she leave you? Where will she go? the parents house, no chance.

The only person who will be leaving is you. The only questions in my mind are 1) when and 2) how (free will, forced, via jail, or wooden box).
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If you had read previously, this is exactly what I wish right now.

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So why wait, take the initiative!
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Old Oct 15th 2019, 3:12 pm
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This is the L/L that P11 used to praise over her bussiness acumen. Go back further than the last Year when it all supposedly went wrong..... the shoe business, real estate sales , jewelery, etc.
Makes me wonder If p11 and his L/L are equally devoid of common sense.
As for the L/L gaining any responsible (legal) employment .....dream on !

l can see where this is leading,P11 will hang o to his L/L for all he is worth, even If the book of excuses is exhausted.






Explain to me for what purpose given the current events?

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