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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by megansmummy
(Post 4874465)
Exactly right!!:D
Ive done that far too many times in the past & no way will i make the same mistake again! |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by Pollyana
(Post 4874618)
Fate's a strange thing too.....you can bet your life that the next bloke you are attracted to will be an Aussie and will want to bring you back here! :rolleyes: :D
I joked with a friend though that may happen to me (unlikely though I think) :) |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by Pollyana
(Post 4874618)
Fate's a strange thing too.....you can bet your life that the next bloke you are attracted to will be an Aussie and will want to bring you back here! :rolleyes: :D
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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by chance to be
(Post 4874631)
Oh God:eek: Dont say THAT to her!!!:)
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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by Pollyana
(Post 4874618)
Fate's a strange thing too.....you can bet your life that the next bloke you are attracted to will be an Aussie and will want to bring you back here! :rolleyes: :D
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Re: Decision has been made!
It's there, in the cards :o What will be will be (I sound just like my mum:D),
Mandy |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4876479)
Oh Polly the strangest things are said in jest. My eldest daughter is now madly in love with a guy who has been round Oz backpacking and his ambition is to go and live there :eek:
Noooooooooo!!!:eek: |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by alicecat
(Post 4874353)
But you also need time to heal yourself and work out why you were in that relationship that didn't work for you in the first place. Or otherwise you just jump right back on the same type of horse again and fall off for exactly the same reasons.
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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by Pollyana
(Post 4874618)
Fate's a strange thing too.....you can bet your life that the next bloke you are attracted to will be an Aussie and will want to bring you back here! :rolleyes: :D
I feel calmly reassured somehow now!!!:unsure::blink::D!! As for love, forget it with anyone apart from a millionaire!! lol Seriously though, im just not interested. I still love my husband & will for a long time to come! |
Re: Decision has been made!
I feel it is important to alert Megansmum to some serious misinformation fed to her here.
It is highly unlikely that the Family Court of Australia will "come after" the mother of a child who has returned to the UK with her child-both being recent immigrants. The rather silly assumption that being Australians the Judges will tend to want the kid to stay in Australia is bunk. It would be extremely foolish and expensive for your hubby to embark on a dishonest case to prove the kid would be better of with him. Who will he claim will look after the kid when he works-can he afford a full time nanny?? Judges arent that screwy or stupid. |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by JAJ
(Post 4868917)
Normally child custody law is based on where the child is resident. So if parents move from UK to Australia and then separate, then the Australian courts usually have jurisdiction.
If a parent takes a child back to the UK without permission of the other parent, they can find themselves served with a court order insisting that child be returned to Australia for a custody and residence determination. The grey area comes about if child is taken back to the UK with implicit consent (or at least, no active objection) from the other parent. And then subsequently, (ie months or years later) the other parent changes mind and wants the child returned. It may be that in those circumstances, where child was brought to the UK with knowledge of other parent, the UK courts would not then insist the child be returned to Australia years later. But you would need to validate this with an experienced UK family law solicitor (and one of the few who understands international child custody issues). I have a lot of PROFFESIONAL experience in this very matter-take the kid and just go. The family court generally has a massive massive tendency to believe kids fundamentally should be with the mother-and will only act contrary to this in extreme circumstances. |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by rustyboy
(Post 4877590)
Bad advice-alerting the hubby will just give him ideas-take the kid and leave.
I have a lot of PROFFESIONAL experience in this very matter-take the kid and just go. The family court generally has a massive massive tendency to believe kids fundamentally should be with the mother-and will only act contrary to this in extreme circumstances. I have asked he does a letter anyway but i cant see either how i could be stopped as we are not PR's or citizens & have only been here a short while Anyway whatever the if's & buts, I do trust my husband to let us go |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by megansmummy
(Post 4877532)
Thanks for that pollyanna!!:D
I feel calmly reassured somehow now!!!:unsure::blink::D!! As for love, forget it with anyone apart from a millionaire!! lol Seriously though, im just not interested. I still love my husband & will for a long time to come! |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by KatieStar
(Post 4877676)
I was talking in general Jude. I can see how much you love your hubby. I wish you lots of happiness for the future.
Its ok Katie i wasnt directing that at you, just saying ive no interest at all!!:( I wiill see you soon xx |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by megansmummy
(Post 4859017)
Im going home!
As you all know,I hate it here & have been unable to settle for a long time. Its caused immense strain on our marriage, to the point where we have argued continually Anyway after some very long painful thinking & talking ive decided to leave. Si still adamant he iisnt coming with me as he wants to stay so its just me & megy I feel terrible for taking her from him but i cant carry on being unhappy any longer as it was affecting her & Karl Ive spoke to my family & they will be sorting out some airfare for me in the next few days I plan to fly back around the 8th July as have some things still needing doing here. When i do return i will stay with mum for a bit then i intend to try & make my home in newcastle near my sister Ive also been in touch with the benefits office & have been told i will get help so i feel quite relieved that i wont be completely skint! Its a very sad situation for all concerned but its for the best in the long run! Well i'm am so glad to have found you. I have been feeling the same way living here in Mackay,We have been here for a little less than a year and i hate it, my hub on the other hand loves it here and so looks like i may well be taking myself and my three kids back on my own, as soon as we can sort it. I was never really that keen on coming here in the first place and wish i had listened to my heart and not come. But i do feel i have made the right choice in returning home now that i have seen your post which seem to reflect exacly how i feel. |
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