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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by Pennyhen2
(Post 4863066)
Good luck on your safe return to UK. Will be thinking about you and your daughter, keep us posted.
I will, i will still be around for a while yet!!:D |
Re: Decision has been made!
How has his reaction been since you have told him, i have told my H i'm not happy and may end up returning alone and he has gone very quiet since i told him x x
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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by lisaloo
(Post 4863142)
How has his reaction been since you have told him, i have told my H i'm not happy and may end up returning alone and he has gone very quiet since i told him x x
My hubs has beeen upset & moody for the past 2 days! He didnt expect me to go ahead with it as ive threatend it so often. Until i book the ticket he may well stay the same but he knows im going & is genuinly upset . He keeps accusing me of breaking up the family!!! Thats him who came here without his son in the 1st place!:confused: |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by megansmummy
(Post 4863153)
My hubs has beeen upset & moody for the past 2 days!
He didnt expect me to go ahead with it as ive threatend it so often. Until i book the ticket he may well stay the same but he knows im going & is genuinly upset . He keeps accusing me of breaking up the family!!! Thats him who came here without his son in the 1st place!:confused: I wish you and the rest of the family well and hope that you can some how reconcile what appear to be huge differences. |
Re: Decision has been made!
Just thought i would tell you what someone told me just a few weeks ago, never feel guilty for the decision we make, just learn from them and move on!! I know its easy to say but you can only do what you think is right, even when you think its wrong! take care ang
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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by framac
(Post 4863394)
Just thought i would tell you what someone told me just a few weeks ago, never feel guilty for the decision we make, just learn from them and move on!! I know its easy to say but you can only do what you think is right, even when you think its wrong! take care ang
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Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by dingbat
(Post 4864105)
I must be old fashioned....I think people should be accountable for all decisions they make, good or bad. Not feeling guilty if your decision had adversely impacted someone's life, is precisely why some people wander through life these days with a false sense of entitlement. (Nothing to do with the OP on this thread, BTW just in general).
Guilt is a non productive waste of time, energy and emotion. We are humans not robots ;) |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4864432)
Bloody hell I'm glad I'm not married to you. You sound like the nuns at my primary school :eek:
Guilt is a non productive waste of time, energy and emotion. We are humans not robots ;) |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by jempee
(Post 4864480)
so who is accountable for the decisions you make then? i would have to agree with Dingbat.
We are HUMAN. We make mistakes. Show me a perfect person and I will concede defeat. |
Re: Decision has been made!
Well done MM, I hope you soon feel the weight lifting from your shoulders and your life brightening.
Follow your instinct, your heart, not your head. Do the best you can, no one can ask for more. You are loved and supported by your family and friends. Life will be uncomfortable for a while, but happier I am sure. x |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4864645)
We are all accountable for the decisions we make but what the hell is the point of feeling guilty about it all (unless of course you made someone unhappy deliberately).
We are HUMAN. We make mistakes. Show me a perfect person and I will concede defeat. |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by seasprite
(Post 4864658)
Right on. We do the best we can at that time in our life...thinking that is the best decision...at that time. Guilt is so destructive and crippling for all involved. Sadly it follows like a stray !
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Re: Decision has been made!
Of course guilt can be dsetructive but it dosnt stop you feeling it whatever the rights or wrongs
This decison has been one of the hardest ive ever made but i had to do it for my own sanity & for the future of my daughter as she was in a unhappy environment with 2 parents constantly arguing Thats not right for any child & i wont feel guilty for that! |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by moneypen20
(Post 4860103)
Is there any chance everyone can lay off bad mouthing someone who is not on the forum to defend himself. Wish MM all the best obviously but leave the guy alone. He presumably has his reasons and they are for him and MM to discuss not everyone else.
We all have our OWN lives. Why should he have to return to the UK and be miserable? As indeed MM should not have to stay in Oz. Its his life. Its her life. No one should be 'made' to do ought in situations like this. He does what's right for him and ditto MM. |
Re: Decision has been made!
Originally Posted by megansmummy
(Post 4864811)
Of course guilt can be dsetructive but it dosnt stop you feeling it whatever the rights or wrongs
This decison has been one of the hardest ive ever made but i had to do it for my own sanity & for the future of my daughter as she was in a unhappy environment with 2 parents constantly arguing Thats not right for any child & i wont feel guilty for that! |
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