Time for some realism
Sep 13th 2014 | 5:44 am
#62
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Muskoka, Ontario
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Re: Time for some realism
Diolch SR..... My husband well it's like I've lifted a heavy weight and he's really happy around the place. I potentially might still have to ask him to go back at some point but at least I know I will have given it my best shot... Bolting home at 9months is not the best of me. Now have to chuck myself into lots of planning of things- keep myself busy!
Sep 13th 2014 | 5:51 am
#63
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Re: Time for some realism
Diolch SR..... My husband well it's like I've lifted a heavy weight and he's really happy around the place. I potentially might still have to ask him to go back at some point but at least I know I will have given it my best shot... Bolting home at 9months is not the best of me. Now have to chuck myself into lots of planning of things- keep myself busy!
Sep 13th 2014 | 6:02 am
#64
Lost in BE Cyberspace
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From: SW Ontario, Canada / Gozo, Malta
Re: Time for some realism
Sooooo, after a few sleepless nights, the jury's back....
We are goings to stay, until at the earliest next summer- start of the new school yr for both- it gives me time to work through how I really feel, we will have a new Canadian citizen, we won't have to worry about short term money worries in the UK and potentially we would go back financially stronger.
The other option is to stay until it's time for the son to go to comprehensive- about two yrs away, or I'll work through my issues- love it here and stay for good. Time will tell....
We are goings to stay, until at the earliest next summer- start of the new school yr for both- it gives me time to work through how I really feel, we will have a new Canadian citizen, we won't have to worry about short term money worries in the UK and potentially we would go back financially stronger.
The other option is to stay until it's time for the son to go to comprehensive- about two yrs away, or I'll work through my issues- love it here and stay for good. Time will tell....
We'll see how you feel once winter starts again
Sep 13th 2014 | 10:07 am
#65
limey party pooper
Joined: Jul 2012
Posts: 10,000
Re: Time for some realism
Diolch SR..... My husband well it's like I've lifted a heavy weight and he's really happy around the place. I potentially might still have to ask him to go back at some point but at least I know I will have given it my best shot... Bolting home at 9months is not the best of me. Now have to chuck myself into lots of planning of things- keep myself busy!
Sep 13th 2014 | 10:22 am
#66
Professional Cat herder
Joined: Apr 2007
Posts: 5,709
From: TORONTO- yay!!!
Re: Time for some realism
for what its worth. I think you've made the right choice.
I truly hope that everything falls into place for you.
I truly hope that everything falls into place for you.
Sep 13th 2014 | 11:14 am
#67
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Re: Time for some realism
I think you're doing the right thing too. Hoping it all works out for you 
