Any Regrets!!
#17
I know there is a post on this somewhere but I couldnt find it AGAIN
I have freinds that have moved there just 6 wks ago and they are moving back again as they said it really wasnt what they thought it was.
High insurance, lack of facilities in the electronic front. lack of DIY materials. Costly TV/Cable...etc this list is endless....
Just wanted to get feedback on anyone that went there and thought WTH was I thinking, or have gone there and thought that but got very used to it and started to like it.
Any shocks along the way or anything that you would find that Canada is behind.
Hey any stumble stories would be great to read...
Thanks

I have freinds that have moved there just 6 wks ago and they are moving back again as they said it really wasnt what they thought it was.
High insurance, lack of facilities in the electronic front. lack of DIY materials. Costly TV/Cable...etc this list is endless....
Just wanted to get feedback on anyone that went there and thought WTH was I thinking, or have gone there and thought that but got very used to it and started to like it.
Any shocks along the way or anything that you would find that Canada is behind.
Hey any stumble stories would be great to read...
Thanks

#18
And what about the bacon and the baked beans and the cheese and the...the list is endless ? I sometimes wonder how I have managed to stick it out for the last 40 years having to put up with hardships like that. Regrets, I've had a few, but then again too few to mention. Actually I have none. Never have had. Life is good !
#19
Funny you should mention that Simon. My son has just been visiting (he's 32) and he took some tins of Canadian baked beans back to England with him - he and his fiancee loved them!! They also loved the bacon and our toilet rolls (he even took a roll of that back with him .....
) - apparently they are not as "dusty" as the Andrex ones 
J
) - apparently they are not as "dusty" as the Andrex ones 
J
#21
I see the usual examples of lack of sympathy and understanding.
Maybe they are right and know that after 6 weeks the place isn't for them. Why wait 5 years?
And if it is culture shock then how about some sympathy instead of heckling?
Oh yes, and answering the OPs question instead of berating some unhappy people would be helpful.
My answer is that after 3 years here it's ok. Yes I did research, had read this forum, blah blah. Nothing prepares you for actually living here.
Maybe they are right and know that after 6 weeks the place isn't for them. Why wait 5 years?
And if it is culture shock then how about some sympathy instead of heckling?
Oh yes, and answering the OPs question instead of berating some unhappy people would be helpful.
My answer is that after 3 years here it's ok. Yes I did research, had read this forum, blah blah. Nothing prepares you for actually living here.
In many cases I would agree that there is a lot of hecking on here when people ask honest to goodness questions. However sometimes the questions are a tad redilculous and its hard to suppress that inate British quality (Sarcasm!)
#22
I know there is a post on this somewhere but I couldnt find it AGAIN
I have freinds that have moved there just 6 wks ago and they are moving back again as they said it really wasnt what they thought it was.
High insurance, lack of facilities in the electronic front. lack of DIY materials. Costly TV/Cable...etc this list is endless....
Just wanted to get feedback on anyone that went there and thought WTH was I thinking, or have gone there and thought that but got very used to it and started to like it.
Any shocks along the way or anything that you would find that Canada is behind.
Hey any stumble stories would be great to read...
Thanks

I have freinds that have moved there just 6 wks ago and they are moving back again as they said it really wasnt what they thought it was.
High insurance, lack of facilities in the electronic front. lack of DIY materials. Costly TV/Cable...etc this list is endless....
Just wanted to get feedback on anyone that went there and thought WTH was I thinking, or have gone there and thought that but got very used to it and started to like it.
Any shocks along the way or anything that you would find that Canada is behind.
Hey any stumble stories would be great to read...
Thanks

Six weeks is a really short time.
The first couple of months are about sorting out insurance, unpacking your stuff from your container, looking for rentals etc etc.
It is stressfull, very stressfull.
It seems at the start every hurdle you jump over there's another one right in front of you. Even tougher and higher than that last. But you know what, you can do it if you put your mind to it.
What makes me carry on is the fact that I love living here, its taken time but I have a great circle of friends. I'm going through a bit of bother at the moment after nine months, without my friends and BE I don't know how I would have managed.
One bit of advice I am always giving people is to "put yourself out there, NO ONE is going to come to you".
You need to make 100% of the effort, you control your own happiness. What is one mans misery is another mans pleasure.
Sorry folks, I'm having one of them weeks
Last edited by Cassie 10000; Aug 6th 2009 at 2:41 am. Reason: Sorry its really nine months
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There may be more to why they decided to go back, as pointed outed a persons perspective can change a lot in 4 years. I doubt they left because cable was more.
#24
Surely when people emigrate and decide it's not for them within 2 months of arrival, quoting things as per above as reasons why, there must be an underlying reason for the turnaround of thought.
Or maybe they're the kind of Brits who travel for 2 weeks a year to a Spanglish resort in the Canary Islands with a suitcase full of English grub, and the ensuing excitement at the prospect of pints in the Red Lion followed by karaoke and lashings of "After Sun" before bed. This would then be followed by an early morning wake up to proclaim the sunbeds by decree of a football club emblazoned beach towel.
Or maybe i'm just generalising
Or maybe they're the kind of Brits who travel for 2 weeks a year to a Spanglish resort in the Canary Islands with a suitcase full of English grub, and the ensuing excitement at the prospect of pints in the Red Lion followed by karaoke and lashings of "After Sun" before bed. This would then be followed by an early morning wake up to proclaim the sunbeds by decree of a football club emblazoned beach towel.
Or maybe i'm just generalising


Last edited by act1980; Aug 6th 2009 at 3:25 am.
#25
Funny you should mention that Simon. My son has just been visiting (he's 32) and he took some tins of Canadian baked beans back to England with him - he and his fiancee loved them!! They also loved the bacon and our toilet rolls (he even took a roll of that back with him .....
) - apparently they are not as "dusty" as the Andrex ones 
J
) - apparently they are not as "dusty" as the Andrex ones 
J

#26
Andrex, what luxury, dusty and all ! Do they still have that gawd awful San Izal shiny stuff ? Almost like greaseproof paper ! I remember that stuff as a kid. Interesting that we have toilet seats inbound and toilet paper outbound. Different strokes for different folks eh !
you can still get Izal loo paper! and it's still as unabsorbent and slippy as ever
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As far as cable goes - we have been with Shaw for six years for our phone, including international, high speed internet and TV with all the bells and whistles. Charge: $180 last month!
Telus are so desperate to regain their customers after their strike that they kept ringing me with offers.
Last week I changed over to them and I'm getting the same package for $95.95...with three free months and the price is held at that for three years!
Telus are so desperate to regain their customers after their strike that they kept ringing me with offers.
Last week I changed over to them and I'm getting the same package for $95.95...with three free months and the price is held at that for three years!
#29
As far as cable goes - we have been with Shaw for six years for our phone, including international, high speed internet and TV with all the bells and whistles. Charge: $180 last month!
Telus are so desperate to regain their customers after their strike that they kept ringing me with offers.
Last week I changed over to them and I'm getting the same package for $95.95...with three free months and the price is held at that for three years!
Telus are so desperate to regain their customers after their strike that they kept ringing me with offers.
Last week I changed over to them and I'm getting the same package for $95.95...with three free months and the price is held at that for three years!

We pay Sky £17.50 a month for the same thing.Still, at least I know now so we won't have to return after six weeks!
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I know there is a post on this somewhere but I couldnt find it AGAIN
I have freinds that have moved there just 6 wks ago and they are moving back again as they said it really wasnt what they thought it was.
High insurance, lack of facilities in the electronic front. lack of DIY materials. Costly TV/Cable...etc this list is endless....
Just wanted to get feedback on anyone that went there and thought WTH was I thinking, or have gone there and thought that but got very used to it and started to like it.
Any shocks along the way or anything that you would find that Canada is behind.
Hey any stumble stories would be great to read...
Thanks

I have freinds that have moved there just 6 wks ago and they are moving back again as they said it really wasnt what they thought it was.
High insurance, lack of facilities in the electronic front. lack of DIY materials. Costly TV/Cable...etc this list is endless....
Just wanted to get feedback on anyone that went there and thought WTH was I thinking, or have gone there and thought that but got very used to it and started to like it.
Any shocks along the way or anything that you would find that Canada is behind.
Hey any stumble stories would be great to read...
Thanks

For us the pressure on the kids in UK was immense. The drinking culture in particular was a worry (especially having a teenager). I'm not saying that children don't drink alcohol over here. But it is deffinitely harder to obtain and you need a car in any case to drive to the liquor store!
So yes we feel we had done the right things for our kids. They are doing very well at school and have settled in well. Yes we have spent more time doing things together as a family. There's always some festivel or other on to go to.
But it's not all a bed of roses. My OH is in a job that he doesn't like and is not in his usual field of work. I am not working at mo. but will get myself an evening job to help financially.
Although I am a fully qualified, experienced teacher(gave up my job to emigrate) the Canadians want me to retrain in order to teach here (Yeh right!!!)
Things are more expensive than we were expecting. But we are here for the long haul. Put in for PR in June this year and hope to make it our home.




