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No worries. :thumbup: And for what its worth - I have regular wobbles. Its all part of the process. I have spent days crying over the people I am leaving behind and I feel so guilty about hurting them this way. I just ask myself would I want them to waste a wonderful opportunity for my sake. The answer is always unresoundingly "No". Living your own life does not mean you do not care about those closest to you. ;)

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Difficult to leave something so good behind though. I asked her to come though and she wouldn't consider it and wantsd to follow her own path in London so not much more I could do.

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Well I guess thats your answer then. :unsure:

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I know. Just need some attitude readjustment from time to time.

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As harsh as it may be, if she wasnt willing to even consider moving then you shouldnt even be considering missing her?

You can prob tell im single but relationships are two way. Its better to have loved and lost than to stay with someone and never find true love.

Good luck. xx
(my advice is normally cr@p so dont listen to me!) :eek:

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:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

And mine! I am Queen of singletons! And I agree - deffo better to have loved and lost than live with a psycho. :p

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Well - today, me and the girlfriend went our seperate ways!! :(

It's not easy, and it was her that ended it, but I know it's because of oz. I was naughty and didn't go into work today!! Couldn't face it.

So, am an now actually an official loner at long last.

Why are some things so hard hey?? :unsure:

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Because if they were easy life would be boring.

Because if everything was easy then you wouldnt appreciate the easy things.

Because self pitty and woe was created for a reason - to get us through the hard things.

Because if everything was easy for everyone then what would we we be jealous of in other people?!

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Breaking up is mega hard and it takes time to heal (if you ever actually do). But to rebuild yourself as a bigger and better man you have to crumble to sand to start with.

Let the thought of Visaland be your new love. :wub:

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Oh dear it's all a bit miz in here today.... I find the hardest thing about leaving the ex behind is that we barely have any contact anymore. I know she's trying to get over me but I get maybe 3-4 txts maybe one day a week. We don't even write to each other on facebook. It's weird going from full-on relationship to no contact at all.

Anyways, anyone got any good news??

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I've come into work today, and promised myself to not have any tears!! But you've just ruined that plan lol!

:(

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I have good news! :thumbsup:

My shippers are coming tomorrow. And I will wave bye bye to all my nice belongings and hopefully see them on the other side of the world. :thumbup:

It does mean though that I wont be online much as will have to beg steal and borrow internet time cos my PC will be in a box on a boat. :(

But I am now going to party party party. :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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I've only got bad news I'm afraid. I think the guy that got me my job has left the firm so I'm on shaky ground again. ****ing typical.

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Have you signed a contract?

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Yes but not sent it back to them. Think I'll be doing that tonight!

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Well get it signed. They'd be hard pushed to not give you the job if you have a signed contract. (But thats UK law so I maybe talking crap). :thumbsup: