Mate, the only things not made in China are our kids

Everything else is

Sorry, The "I can't change everything so I will change nothing" mentality doesn't fly with me - I do what I can, always have always will - I am proud of that.

So...your logic is the same then i.e most people buy porn as they believe it is consenting adults making porno films.

Bingo

Razzle

ahhh the mammaries

As a few other people on here have said, try and think of it from your wife's point of view. She would certainly not be unique in being upset as women often have a very different view on this than men do.

Next, consider whether you think it's unreasonable for her to be upset - ignore what you think "most guys" might think. If you do think that she's being unreasonable then you need to reassure her (see earlier posts about the reasons it is likely to make her feel upset) and try to get her to see things differently if it's that important to you.

However, following this conversation with her, if your wife is still really upset regardless of how normal you believe it is, you need to decide what is more important to you - your wife's feelings or your wank sites.

Don't forget that what "most guys do/have" is a bit of a red herring since she is married to you and not to "most guys"!

Good luck......

I feel for your wife, could she be feeling betrayed and as if the trust has been broken? Possibly not so much upset because of the sites you've been looking at but because she didn't know about it or suspect it? Your wife possibly never thought in a million years that this would be the kind of thing you'd be into and therefore didn't see it coming which then means when she found it on the pc she'd have been shocked, upset and wouldn't know what to think or do.

I think communication is very important along with honesty here.

I hope you can sort it out and reach a compromise.

Ellie x

Tell her to put out more than you need, or at least lend you her best looking mate, so that you actually dont need to look or want relief elsewhere.

Wimmin just dont get it sometimes. '

Cant believe how selfish some women can be.

Stop it

I am quite concerned we haven't heard from the OP. Do you think he's become 'porned out'?

He's probably a dead man walking mate

He's in training to become a MOD

He took some of the advice posted on here literally?

I have to agree with this. If the wife was actually fulfilling the husbands needs in the bedroom he wouldn't need to even go on porn sites.

At the end of the day, it's her own fault, she shouldn't be so selfish.

I like to make my own porn. Much more fun, for both of us....