Need "personal" advice
#76
Re: Need "personal" advice
Everything else is
#78
Re: Need "personal" advice
Bingo
#79
Re: Need "personal" advice
Another porn aspect that nobody has mentioned is the negative effect it can have on an individuals sex life.
If used occasionally then a lot of people can find it enhances their experience. However, some men (and women) use it so often that they find it difficult to *perform* without it.
It's also much easier now to get hold of more and more explicit porn - people can find that something unexpected (and illegal) turns them on and this can create problems.
For some people it's not as simple as someone looking at a copy of Razzle.
If used occasionally then a lot of people can find it enhances their experience. However, some men (and women) use it so often that they find it difficult to *perform* without it.
It's also much easier now to get hold of more and more explicit porn - people can find that something unexpected (and illegal) turns them on and this can create problems.
For some people it's not as simple as someone looking at a copy of Razzle.
ahhh the mammaries
#81
Jenny
Joined: Apr 2009
Location: Bradford, but moving to Busselton WA in Sept 2010 (yay!!!!)
Posts: 79
Re: Need "personal" advice
I have a bit of a problem!
As some of you are aware i work away from home and called the wife last night who was VERY upset. Turns out she had gone through the computer and discovered i have looked at some "naughty" sites.
I think most guys do / have, but havent a clue what to say to her. Its not easy being stuck here talking over the phone.
Help please
As some of you are aware i work away from home and called the wife last night who was VERY upset. Turns out she had gone through the computer and discovered i have looked at some "naughty" sites.
I think most guys do / have, but havent a clue what to say to her. Its not easy being stuck here talking over the phone.
Help please
Next, consider whether you think it's unreasonable for her to be upset - ignore what you think "most guys" might think. If you do think that she's being unreasonable then you need to reassure her (see earlier posts about the reasons it is likely to make her feel upset) and try to get her to see things differently if it's that important to you.
However, following this conversation with her, if your wife is still really upset regardless of how normal you believe it is, you need to decide what is more important to you - your wife's feelings or your wank sites.
Don't forget that what "most guys do/have" is a bit of a red herring since she is married to you and not to "most guys"!
Good luck......
#82
Re: Need "personal" advice
I have a bit of a problem!
As some of you are aware i work away from home and called the wife last night who was VERY upset. Turns out she had gone through the computer and discovered i have looked at some "naughty" sites.
I think most guys do / have, but havent a clue what to say to her. Its not easy being stuck here talking over the phone.
Help please
As some of you are aware i work away from home and called the wife last night who was VERY upset. Turns out she had gone through the computer and discovered i have looked at some "naughty" sites.
I think most guys do / have, but havent a clue what to say to her. Its not easy being stuck here talking over the phone.
Help please
I think communication is very important along with honesty here.
I hope you can sort it out and reach a compromise.
Ellie x
#83
Re: Need "personal" advice
Tell her to put out more than you need, or at least lend you her best looking mate, so that you actually dont need to look or want relief elsewhere.
Wimmin just dont get it sometimes. '
Cant believe how selfish some women can be.
Wimmin just dont get it sometimes. '
Cant believe how selfish some women can be.
#85
Joined: Oct 2007
Posts: 9,668
Re: Need "personal" advice
I am quite concerned we haven't heard from the OP. Do you think he's become 'porned out'?
#89
Account Closed
Joined: May 2009
Posts: 2,708
Re: Need "personal" advice
At the end of the day, it's her own fault, she shouldn't be so selfish.
#90
Re: Need "personal" advice
I have a bit of a problem!
As some of you are aware i work away from home and called the wife last night who was VERY upset. Turns out she had gone through the computer and discovered i have looked at some "naughty" sites.
I think most guys do / have, but havent a clue what to say to her. Its not easy being stuck here talking over the phone.
Help please
As some of you are aware i work away from home and called the wife last night who was VERY upset. Turns out she had gone through the computer and discovered i have looked at some "naughty" sites.
I think most guys do / have, but havent a clue what to say to her. Its not easy being stuck here talking over the phone.
Help please