DIVORCE.
Jan 31st 2010 | 10:12 am
#61
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Feb 2005
Posts: 15,526
Re: DIVORCE.
There are bound to be happy times ahead as well. Although I've got to admit it's debatable whether you will regret your current actions.... possibly not is a real likelyhood, especially considering your caring profession, which to my mind equates to higher moral values.
Best of luck
Jan 31st 2010 | 1:34 pm
#62
Auntie Fa
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 7,344
From: Seattle
Re: DIVORCE.
Squabble over you, Bernie? Admit it, you love it!
Jan 31st 2010 | 2:36 pm
#63
Home and Happy
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From: Keep true friends and puppets close, trust no-one else...
Jan 31st 2010 | 5:56 pm
#64
Crazy Cat Lady
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 65,493
Re: DIVORCE.
Those of you men that automatically assume that women always try to "take men to the cleaners" really make me laugh.
Admittedly a few do - I know a woman who has done very nicely out of several divorces and broken relationships despite having no kids to provide for.
However like others here I walked away with only my dignity and started again. I let myself be made out as the bad bitch for the sake of peace and to preserve his reputation among our many mutual friends and colleagues, and still only a handful of people know just what I put up with before I realised I needed to get out with my sanity (almost) intact.
So please, guys, less of the stereotyping based on your own shit choice in women.
Admittedly a few do - I know a woman who has done very nicely out of several divorces and broken relationships despite having no kids to provide for.
However like others here I walked away with only my dignity and started again. I let myself be made out as the bad bitch for the sake of peace and to preserve his reputation among our many mutual friends and colleagues, and still only a handful of people know just what I put up with before I realised I needed to get out with my sanity (almost) intact.
So please, guys, less of the stereotyping based on your own shit choice in women.
Jan 31st 2010 | 6:10 pm
#65
Auntie Fa
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 7,344
From: Seattle
Re: DIVORCE.
I'm not caustic, I'm just from Yorkshire 
Jan 31st 2010 | 7:37 pm
#66
Account Closed
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 10,784
Re: DIVORCE.
It is understandable though and please give the wee man some leeway!!
Jan 31st 2010 | 9:12 pm
#67
Officially Bewildered
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 5,523
From: Blue Mountains, NSW
who the hell knows? 
Jan 31st 2010 | 10:34 pm
#72
Thread Starter
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Posts: 18,840
Re: DIVORCE.
I thought i told you lot to stop squabbling and Kporte less of the 'wee man'
Jan 31st 2010 | 10:38 pm
#74
Chan eil aon chà nan gu le
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From: On the ning nang nong
Jan 31st 2010 | 11:10 pm
#75
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Joined: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,626
From: Kohimarama
Re: DIVORCE.
I was but I wouldn't be much help as I was a prosecutor. FWIW I would just sign the papers. Until it is finalised you can't move on and it is like a heavy cloud hanging overhead. Anger and bitterness are such a waste of energy and emotions and make the person not very nice company to be around if it eats away at them too much. Shake yourself down, sign the papers, hold your head in the air with shoulders back and walk away with pride.
