Living in Zimbabwe
May 13th 2008, 2:39 pm
#107
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
The Afrikaans word for a bird comes to mind.
with the perforations must have been a bit of a shower!
( I cant stop laughing)
with the perforations must have been a bit of a shower!
( I cant stop laughing)
May 13th 2008, 3:02 pm
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
well thanks, thats great to hear, of course i suppose you've never been cheated on, and i hope you never have to experience what it feels like when the person that you think you know the most in the world, the person who is your best friend, the person you turn to in every crisis, the person you rely on, and trust implicitly and the person you need to make everything ok is suddenly the person who causes you the most pain, the last person you can rely on, and the one person you wish most desperatley that you could talk to about it you cant because he is the problem! i hope you never have to go through the heart wrenching pain of finding your parnter with another woman! good lord how insensitive can you be, 'get to know the person your involved with' do you think that every woman who is cheated on doesnt think she knows her parnter?? of course i wouldnt have entertained the thought of going to africa unless i thought i knew my partner.
and for all those that think this is a hoax nothing i can say will change your opnion and frankly i dont care, i have enough going on right now than to have to deal with comments like that.
and for all those that think this is a hoax nothing i can say will change your opnion and frankly i dont care, i have enough going on right now than to have to deal with comments like that.
May 13th 2008, 3:04 pm
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
well thanks, thats great to hear, of course i suppose you've never been cheated on, and i hope you never have to experience what it feels like when the person that you think you know the most in the world, the person who is your best friend, the person you turn to in every crisis, the person you rely on, and trust implicitly and the person you need to make everything ok is suddenly the person who causes you the most pain, the last person you can rely on, and the one person you wish most desperatley that you could talk to about it you cant because he is the problem! i hope you never have to go through the heart wrenching pain of finding your parnter with another woman! good lord how insensitive can you be, 'get to know the person your involved with' do you think that every woman who is cheated on doesnt think she knows her parnter?? of course i wouldnt have entertained the thought of going to africa unless i thought i knew my partner.
and for all those that think this is a hoax nothing i can say will change your opnion and frankly i dont care, i have enough going on right now than to have to deal with comments like that.
and for all those that think this is a hoax nothing i can say will change your opnion and frankly i dont care, i have enough going on right now than to have to deal with comments like that.
. The best of wishes to you Arikara
May 13th 2008, 3:07 pm
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May 13th 2008, 3:09 pm
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
You make such huge assumptions Arikara. I know first hand what it is like to be cheated on. This person I was with for 4 years, married him too and had a child. Found out the bastard was cheating, so divorced him, got full custody of our son and left the country. Started my life all over again. How's that for a challenge? Learned that I did not in fact know this person as I had assumed. So there, raise you one.
i cant understand the temperament of people who think people come on to forums and just make this stuff up! i do actually have a life and better things to do with my life than make this crap up.
please understand that from my prespetive you we're belittling my situation and calling me a liar. not something i take lightly
May 13th 2008, 3:16 pm
#114
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
However I kind of understand the disbelief, the posting did take a shocking and dramatic turn, but I guess thats how life goes sometimes.
May 13th 2008, 3:20 pm
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I guess the above did not really sound like someone who has been through the same. Its not exactly sympathetic shall I say?
However I kind of understand the disbelief, the posting did take a shocking and dramatic turn, but I guess thats how life goes sometimes.
However I kind of understand the disbelief, the posting did take a shocking and dramatic turn, but I guess thats how life goes sometimes.
May 13th 2008, 3:42 pm
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
yeah it is better to know now. i wont my resolve is firm! thanks for understanding!
May 13th 2008, 4:37 pm
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Re: Living in Zimbabwe
Arikara,if you are genuine, fine, if not...
You do asssume too much, it is impossible to live any sort of emotional life without getting thumped sometimes,its par for the course.it forces either a nervous breakdown or some Maturity, sometimes both.
Best advice I was ever given was to get over one you get under another.
You do asssume too much, it is impossible to live any sort of emotional life without getting thumped sometimes,its par for the course.it forces either a nervous breakdown or some Maturity, sometimes both.
Best advice I was ever given was to get over one you get under another.