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Whether they choose to move or not is up to them still, obviously.
It is their reaction when asked (politely) to do something that would assist a neighbour that pisses me off.
It's the kind of "right to bear arms", "right to piss in my own yard", "right to free speech" BS that drives me out of this country.
And it proves that the stereotype of Midwesterners as friendly is not particularly a 100% match, especially when it comes to interfering with their right to do what they want on their own property.
It is their reaction when asked (politely) to do something that would assist a neighbour that pisses me off.
It's the kind of "right to bear arms", "right to piss in my own yard", "right to free speech" BS that drives me out of this country.
And it proves that the stereotype of Midwesterners as friendly is not particularly a 100% match, especially when it comes to interfering with their right to do what they want on their own property.
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Whether they choose to move or not is up to them still, obviously.
It is their reaction when asked (politely) to do something that would assist a neighbour that pisses me off.
It's the kind of "right to bear arms", "right to piss in my own yard", "right to free speech" BS that drives me out of this country.
And it proves that the stereotype of Midwesterners as friendly is not particularly a 100% match, especially when it comes to interfering with their right to do what they want on their own property.
It is their reaction when asked (politely) to do something that would assist a neighbour that pisses me off.
It's the kind of "right to bear arms", "right to piss in my own yard", "right to free speech" BS that drives me out of this country.
And it proves that the stereotype of Midwesterners as friendly is not particularly a 100% match, especially when it comes to interfering with their right to do what they want on their own property.
And "friendly" seems to be defined as "doing what E17Avenue wants".
No, people do NOT like having their right to do legal things on their own property interfered with. Doing you a favour? maybe Responding to a demand? Almost certainly not.
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Well sorry if I failed Americanese at the entrance exam. Next time I will try some flower and see where that gets me. If it fails, it's back to the same old me. No point in using 50 words where 10 get the same response. Smoke blown in my face.
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It is interesting - the different phrasing sometimes. When my fiance and I are writing letters and emails (for business matters) and consulting each other - we frequently discover some phrase sounds wonderfully polite to one of us, and the other thinks it would be perceived as rude.
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Wildly popular in the UK, as an interesting aside.
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The laws are not decided based upon "God-given" rights - personal desires for lawful behaviour trump your "god-given rights" in this country.
Feel free to campaign to ban all smoking in the state/country - that IS your right. Probably won't succeed, but you can certainly try.
If you didn't like the smell of their BBQ grill - or their dog - or their truck exhaust, would you try to get them to stop that too? And feel your rights were violated?
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If I can smell a dog 50 or 30 ft away I would simply recommend they see a vet as that's just unhealthy...
...and there are pollution laws regarding truck exhaust in most places.
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Same thing really...
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google it; you might be surprised!
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Also, a grill is not particularly mobile. Whereas a human with fully functioning limbs *is*, and has full choice in where to stand in her lot. For instance, at the front end instead of the back end where all she has to interfere with is passing traffic.
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Also, a grill is not particularly mobile. Whereas a human with fully functioning limbs *is*, and has full choice in where to stand in her lot. For instance, at the front end instead of the back end where all she has to interfere with is passing traffic.
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Of course, if she stood at the front end - she'd be inhaling all the car exhaust. And it wouldn't be as pleasant for her.
My grill is on wheels - I move it around all the time. But smells from a grill permeate an entire neighborhood.
The main point is - you find the smell of cigarette smoke objectionable. Fine, so do I. My friend finds the smell of grilling objectionable. I used to have Philipino neighbors quite nearby - I'm afraid I found the (very strong) smells of their cooking unpleasant.
But these are all legal activities that people are entitled to do. They don't have to change their lives to suit you (or me). Perhaps if asked really nicely, they might. But they don't have to.
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