A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
#152
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Jan 2007
Location: NW Chicago suburbs
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Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
Privacy rights are more important to some people than to others.
It becomes an unfortunate area of disagreement when those who couldn't care less about their privacy impose those same lax standards upon those who do.
If you want to live your life like an open book and have strangers transmit your life across the universe, that's within your right and I won't be begrudge you. But you aren't particularly concerned about others who don't share your casualness with the subject.
I believe that I have a right to use public space without someone attempting to monitor my movements and share them with the world. My right to be left alone should prevail over someone who wants to use my image as he sees fit without my consent.
If I wanted to live in such a fishbowl, I would have joined the circus or signed up to join the cast of Big Brother. As it turns out, I didn't do either, and I don't want that decision made for me.
It becomes an unfortunate area of disagreement when those who couldn't care less about their privacy impose those same lax standards upon those who do.
If you want to live your life like an open book and have strangers transmit your life across the universe, that's within your right and I won't be begrudge you. But you aren't particularly concerned about others who don't share your casualness with the subject.
I believe that I have a right to use public space without someone attempting to monitor my movements and share them with the world. My right to be left alone should prevail over someone who wants to use my image as he sees fit without my consent.
If I wanted to live in such a fishbowl, I would have joined the circus or signed up to join the cast of Big Brother. As it turns out, I didn't do either, and I don't want that decision made for me.
Again - I believe in the process. You don't like the law - fine, fair enough. Campaign to change it. If the majority agree with you - so be it.
But give a thought to just what you are asking for - if noone can photograph or film anyone else without express permission - just how are journalists going to do their job? There will be basically no pics of celebrities, no pics of criminals at the courthouse, no pics of pedophiles for others to check on - none would likely give their permission. There would be no filming of public events - as you couldn't ask everyone in the crowd for permission. Just how are you going to draw that line?
btw I actually am a very private person. For example, I live where I have a big enough yard that neighbors aren't peering at me all the time. But when I'm out in public, I don't expect privacy - they're basically opposite terms I think.
#153
Lost in BE Cyberspace
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Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
Oh yeah - and what about security cameras in parking lots? Eliminate those too?
#154
Bloody Yank
Joined: Oct 2005
Location: USA! USA!
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Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
if noone can photograph or film anyone else without express permission - just how are journalists going to do their job? There will be basically no pics of celebrities, no pics of criminals at the courthouse, no pics of pedophiles for others to check on - none would likely give their permission. There would be no filming of public events - as you couldn't ask everyone in the crowd for permission. Just how are you going to draw that line?
Private figures get more protection than public figures. That is true now, and should remain true. Demi Moore has fewer rights to privacy than I do, because she chose to live a public life. I chose to do otherwise, and want to be left alone.
Civil rights are not a function of majority rule, but one of right and entitlement. If a majority voted today to reinstitute slavery or rescind the voting rights of women, it wouldn't matter one whit because freedom is not to be left up to someone else's vote. It's a republic ruled by principles, not a pure democracy subject to whim and the tyranny of the majority.
#155
Lost in BE Cyberspace
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Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
Journalists get special treatment, the First Amendment acknowledges the importance of a free press. They should get more latitude than a perv at the pool, because they are protecting democracy in a way that Chester the Molester is not.
Private figures get more protection than public figures. That is true now, and should remain true. Demi Moore has fewer rights to privacy than I do, because she chose to live a public life. I chose to do otherwise, and want to be left alone.
Civil rights are not a function of majority rule, but one of right and entitlement. If a majority voted today to reinstitute slavery or rescind the voting rights of women, it wouldn't matter one whit because freedom is not to be left up to someone else's vote. It's a republic ruled by principles, not a pure democracy subject to whim and the tyranny of the majority.
Private figures get more protection than public figures. That is true now, and should remain true. Demi Moore has fewer rights to privacy than I do, because she chose to live a public life. I chose to do otherwise, and want to be left alone.
Civil rights are not a function of majority rule, but one of right and entitlement. If a majority voted today to reinstitute slavery or rescind the voting rights of women, it wouldn't matter one whit because freedom is not to be left up to someone else's vote. It's a republic ruled by principles, not a pure democracy subject to whim and the tyranny of the majority.
Demi Moore has less rights to privacy than you ro I do. Just how public a figure do you need to be, before you lose your rights?
Sorry, we have this little "all created equal" thing - I don't think the way you would selectively grant both photography and privacy rights works for me.
Disagree on the political bit - thankfully neither of those will happen, but I disagree in principle pretty much. Rules by principles - I guess it would be ruled at the whim of YOUR principles? Because people's principles often vary. Oh yeah - those "someone else's" votes apparently shouldn't count.
#156
Bloody Yank
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Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
When did the OP's kid swimming in a pool become a public event? That's a real stretch.
There's a distinct difference between background subjects being incidental to a photo and someone fixating on a stranger without consent. If we can figure that much out, then we can figure out where to draw a line.
She chose to give them up. I chose not to give mine up. Apparently, you believe that choices such as mine aren't worth respecting and that all of us should get the scrutiny of public figures?
Have you read the Declaration of Independence? The whole notion of rights coming from a creator is not so much a religious principle as it is a statement that rights are inherent unto man, and are not privileges that are doled out like trinkets by kings or the public.
You are born with rights, and you have to do something horrid and nasty, such as committing a felony, before they can be taken from you. We can't hold elections to take them away just because somebody who is indifferent to privacy decides that none of us should have them.
She chose to give them up. I chose not to give mine up. Apparently, you believe that choices such as mine aren't worth respecting and that all of us should get the scrutiny of public figures?
You are born with rights, and you have to do something horrid and nasty, such as committing a felony, before they can be taken from you. We can't hold elections to take them away just because somebody who is indifferent to privacy decides that none of us should have them.
#157
Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
Permissible Subjects
Despite misconceptions to the contrary,
the following subjects can almost always be photographed lawfully
from public places:
accident and fire scenes
children
celebrities
bridges and other infrastructure
residential and commercial buildings
industrial facilities and public utilities
transportation facilities (e.g., airports)
Superfund sites
criminal activities
law enforcement officers
http://www.krages.com/ThePhotographersRight.pdf
Despite misconceptions to the contrary,
the following subjects can almost always be photographed lawfully
from public places:
accident and fire scenes
children
celebrities
bridges and other infrastructure
residential and commercial buildings
industrial facilities and public utilities
transportation facilities (e.g., airports)
Superfund sites
criminal activities
law enforcement officers
http://www.krages.com/ThePhotographersRight.pdf
#158
Account Closed
Joined: Oct 2003
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Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
I think a lot of you are missing the point here.
A stranger, giving obnoxious reasoning why he is filming the OP's 7 year old daughter for 30 minutes without the OP knowing, is not to me and to most other posters just a harmless photographer.
If he had given a reason why he was doing it, if he had apologized for doing it and if he had agreed to wipe out the film then I'm sure the OP would have felt a lot easier about the whole episode.
A stranger, giving obnoxious reasoning why he is filming the OP's 7 year old daughter for 30 minutes without the OP knowing, is not to me and to most other posters just a harmless photographer.
If he had given a reason why he was doing it, if he had apologized for doing it and if he had agreed to wipe out the film then I'm sure the OP would have felt a lot easier about the whole episode.
#159
Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
I think a lot of you are missing the point here.
A stranger, giving obnoxious reasoning why he is filming the OP's 7 year old daughter for 30 minutes without the OP knowing, is not to me and to most other posters just a harmless photographer.
If he had given a reason why he was doing it, if he had apologized for doing it and if he had agreed to wipe out the film then I'm sure the OP would have felt a lot easier about the whole episode.
A stranger, giving obnoxious reasoning why he is filming the OP's 7 year old daughter for 30 minutes without the OP knowing, is not to me and to most other posters just a harmless photographer.
If he had given a reason why he was doing it, if he had apologized for doing it and if he had agreed to wipe out the film then I'm sure the OP would have felt a lot easier about the whole episode.
we can tell ... filming children is not illegal ...
#161
Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
Thank you for that I was once told I couldn't take a photo of a friend from the outside of a store, that had the store in the background. I didn't think that was legal (but didn't make a scene).
I think it is most important what is legal. You apparently would be willing to resort to theft and perhaps assault in order to deal with what YOU have decided is unacceptable. Rather than abide by the law. I think I might be more worried about you than the photographer.
Who, in fact, might have been enjoying kids at play. Might have been shooting various footage of all sorts of things. Or might have been a creep. We have no way of knowing.
But I generally do aim to be law-abiding (yeah, I've probably gone over the speed limit a few times) - and I am not in favour of people who think when something is unacceptable to THEM, even if legal - that it's ok to break the law. Not ok with that one.
I think it is most important what is legal. You apparently would be willing to resort to theft and perhaps assault in order to deal with what YOU have decided is unacceptable. Rather than abide by the law. I think I might be more worried about you than the photographer.
Who, in fact, might have been enjoying kids at play. Might have been shooting various footage of all sorts of things. Or might have been a creep. We have no way of knowing.
But I generally do aim to be law-abiding (yeah, I've probably gone over the speed limit a few times) - and I am not in favour of people who think when something is unacceptable to THEM, even if legal - that it's ok to break the law. Not ok with that one.
Tracy,let it go mate. I said I may have reacted when I said grabbing the camera etc. I then also said -everything in my power will be done - may that be calling the police or filing a report or getting as many details of the guy as possible or telling the park authorities etc.
Just for record - I am and always have and always will be law abiding as well....
#162
Peace onion
Joined: Jul 2006
Location: Denver
Posts: 5,686
Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
Psst/
Anyone wanna buy some pictures I snapped up in Maine this weekend?
Anyone wanna buy some pictures I snapped up in Maine this weekend?
#164
Re: A stranger videoing my daughter at the pool
I think a lot of you are missing the point here.
A stranger, giving obnoxious reasoning why he is filming the OP's 7 year old daughter for 30 minutes without the OP knowing, is not to me and to most other posters just a harmless photographer.
If he had given a reason why he was doing it, if he had apologized for doing it and if he had agreed to wipe out the film then I'm sure the OP would have felt a lot easier about the whole episode.
A stranger, giving obnoxious reasoning why he is filming the OP's 7 year old daughter for 30 minutes without the OP knowing, is not to me and to most other posters just a harmless photographer.
If he had given a reason why he was doing it, if he had apologized for doing it and if he had agreed to wipe out the film then I'm sure the OP would have felt a lot easier about the whole episode.