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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:24 pm
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Originally Posted by Irn-bru
I think about you on occasion reading your blog and knowing your health isn't getting better. BTW you never replied to my pm
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You better re-send it ... I never saw it ...
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:25 pm
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I don't understand the company as what if I did work for walmart or another company that doesn't have good health insurance would that mean my OH employers would cease to cover me

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Our insurance is like that. I am not included on it automatically at the beginning of each year. He has to ask for me to go on it and he has to say I am not receiving insurance from anyone else. They have said that occasionally they may ask employees to prove their spouse isn't working by looking at bank statements and tax returns!!!!

Like you I wonder what would happen if I had a job with inferior health insurance. I would have to come off his, which is quite good and then how easy is it to get back on?
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:29 pm
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Most Americans would say that any kind of government-sponsored universal health care is 'socialised medicine' and in some senses that is accurate; however 'socialised' is practically a swear word here and for that reason the term can turn some folks off. However, Social Security is by definition and name socialised! So Americans do accept some socialised programmes, but it's definitely a can of worms argument.

Each country with universal care (preferred term) has its own system, rules, etc. You'd have to do some research as to the systems in Germany vs France vs wherever. It really is a research project of its own.
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:33 pm
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You better re-send it ... I never saw it ...
sent it to someone else I expect

will do, wasn't important anyhow!
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:35 pm
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Originally Posted by jumping doris
Our insurance is like that. I am not included on it automatically at the beginning of each year. He has to ask for me to go on it and he has to say I am not receiving insurance from anyone else. They have said that occasionally they may ask employees to prove their spouse isn't working by looking at bank statements and tax returns!!!!

Like you I wonder what would happen if I had a job with inferior health insurance. I would have to come off his, which is quite good and then how easy is it to get back on?
Is the requirement that you do NOT have insurance elsewhere, or that you are being offered/aren't eligible for healthcare insurance through your work?

If the former, simply decline "crap insurance" you may receive through a job. If the latter.... well.... the justification is that a working spouse's company ought to do their bit to insure their worker and not fob them off on the spouse's company. NOW -- that's often horribly unfair to the working spouse if coverage is existent but crap -- but it happens.

If you lose coverage through a job either by choice or by termination of employment, that is considered a "qualifying event" and you'd be eligible to rejoin your husband's plan IMMEDIATELY. However, you may wish to COBRA your old insurance until you're sure that you're on your husband's plan (get insurance card etc).

I don't think COBRA is considered to be insurance available through your work since you wouldn't be working any longer -- so at least you wouldn't be forced to pay high premiums and exhaust your COBRA time (18 months) before joining your husband's plan. But if you really want to be safe and ensure no lapse in coverage, then COBRA until you are officially on your husband's plan.

In my case my employer contributes nothing to insuring my spouse, so they don't give a monkey's about whether he's got insurance offered. Then again, the cost is high.
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:35 pm
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Originally Posted by Irn-bru
FMI only if you don't want to get into a debate with everyone
What is the French or German model and is that what they mean when they say 'socialised' medicine - us? And when 'they' say it doesn't work, what do they mean.

(I know the NHS has many problems or can improve and I am with others that want to fight for it to constantly improve etc but like the system)

sorry OP know I'm hijacking your thread won't be for long hopefully and will get back on track
A very complicated subject, but basically 'socialized' medicine is healthcare that is funded out of taxation and is administered by the government. You may have noticed that many Americans are opposed to 'too much government', so this is never going to fly here.

The German system is universal healthcare administered by insurance companies. It is strictly regulated by the government. All employees and their families *have* to be covered by law, and non-working people have their premiums paid for by the government.

I'm not really familiar with the French system, but I think it is quite similar to the German system, but with more flexibility regarding choice of doctor and treatment, and thus quite a bit more expensive, both individually and in terms of GDP.

Part of the problem of bringing the debate about healthcare in the US forward is the fact that many people seem to assume that 'universal healthcare' is the same as 'socialized medicine'.
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:38 pm
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Originally Posted by Elvira
Part of the problem of bringing the debate about healthcare in the US forward is the fact that many people seem to assume that 'universal healthcare' is the same as 'socialized medicine'.
In general it is, since the government is either providing the cover or is forcing all employers to purchase private cover for all employees.

However 'socialised medicine' seems to conjure up images of the USSR treating people stacked ten to a bed whilst the people in the queue peel potatoes.
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:52 pm
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Originally Posted by jumping doris

Our insurance is like that. I am not included on it automatically at the beginning of each year. He has to ask for me to go on it and he has to say I am not receiving insurance from anyone else. They have said that occasionally they may ask employees to prove their spouse isn't working by looking at bank statements and tax returns!!!!

Like you I wonder what would happen if I had a job with inferior health insurance. I would have to come off his, which is quite good and then how easy is it to get back on?
Thats how it seems ours has gone, I thought you could choose, if you worked, to go either on your own plan or your spouses but seems like thats not true for some/us, as snowbunny explained it.

Thanks to Elvira and snowbunny for explaining the system re the UK and Europe
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 6:53 pm
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[QUOTE=jumping doris;4914988]
Originally Posted by Irn-bru
I don't understand the company as what if I did work for walmart or another company that doesn't have good health insurance would that mean my OH employers would cease to cover me

QUOTE]

Our insurance is like that. I am not included on it automatically at the beginning of each year. He has to ask for me to go on it and he has to say I am not receiving insurance from anyone else. They have said that occasionally they may ask employees to prove their spouse isn't working by looking at bank statements and tax returns!!!!

Like you I wonder what would happen if I had a job with inferior health insurance. I would have to come off his, which is quite good and then how easy is it to get back on?
I have a friend who is asked that - I think it's becoming quite common to do this. (Her insurance with OH company is free though). I think you could appeal it if you had inferior insurance offered - you would show them a copy of the policy. Or you could have both policies, yours and OH, and then everything would be paid, no deductibles. I've done that before. Or, if you work part-time, you probably wouldn't be offered insurance anyway, as apparently P/T people don't get sick!
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You better re-send it ... I never saw it ...
sent it to someone else I expect
Have you got the new one I just sent you?
Double checked your name. Don't want to hassle you over it, just wondering if my pms are getting to you! Or I am sending the wrong people pms
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Old Jun 14th 2007, 7:01 pm
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Have you got the new one I just sent you?
Double checked your name. Don't want to hassle you over it, just wondering if my pms are getting to you! Or I am sending the wrong people pms
Yup ..its in the file for answering ...with 3 days ...

I dont think I can do what you suggest ..
those stairs always really dig into my back ...
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Yup ..its in the file for answering ...with 3 days ...

I dont think I can do what you suggest ..
those stairs always really dig into my back ...
I can but ask...

Just glad you got it OK.
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[QUOTE=Mallory;4915151]
Originally Posted by jumping doris

I have a friend who is asked that - I think it's becoming quite common to do this. (Her insurance with OH company is free though). I think you could appeal it if you had inferior insurance offered - you would show them a copy of the policy. Or you could have both policies, yours and OH, and then everything would be paid, no deductibles. I've done that before. Or, if you work part-time, you probably wouldn't be offered insurance anyway, as apparently P/T people don't get sick!
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Originally Posted by Elvira
If there is anything that keeps me awake it's the thought of people being without health insurance!! :curse:

I've just recently found out that a friend of mine has been without insurance since she got divorced a couple of years ago......... tales like that scare me shitless!!
speaking of, did you hear about that couple yesterday in the hospital, she was sick as a parrot, but none of the doctors would help out, husband even called 911 for ambulance service but they wouldn't send someone already at a hospital....she ended up dying on the trolly in the corridor, because they didn't have insurance.
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Originally Posted by Bob
speaking of, did you hear about that couple yesterday in the hospital, she was sick as a parrot, but none of the doctors would help out, husband even called 911 for ambulance service but they wouldn't send someone already at a hospital....she ended up dying on the trolly in the corridor, because they didn't have insurance.
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