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Old Apr 13th 2009, 8:42 am
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Sorry for the late response. I was referring to the Second Battle of Copenhagen in 1807, during which the Royal Navy lobbed 15000 Congreve rockets and artillery rounds into Copenhagen over three days, killing thousands of civilians. For some reason we didn't commemorate it in 2007 alongside the abolishment of the slave trade.
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Although I don't agree with all your comments, I do appreciate the fact that you say what you feel. Its a great side of the British, you can have a good argument with someone but still be good mates. Don't let the buggers get you down.
As an American I like to call these discussions "debates" rather than arguments. But they are good to have, whether you are waiting for a bus, or for your take-out order to be ready. I'm glad to live in a city where complete strangers can have these debates and enjoy them.
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As an American I like to call these discussions "debates" rather than arguments. But they are good to have, whether you are waiting for a bus, or for your take-out order to be ready. I'm glad to live in a city where complete strangers can have these debates and enjoy them.
What is the general consensus to the difference between debate - discussion and argument ???

How do we define one from the other? Honestly, I'm interested. Said in general terms world wide.
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Old Apr 13th 2009, 8:53 am
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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza
What is the general consensus to the difference between debate - discussion and argument ???

How do we define one from the other? Honestly, I'm interested. Said in general terms world wide.
to me a discussion doesn't require a winner. I would like to think a debate would be more logical, or less emotional than an argument.
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Originally Posted by cindyabs
to me a discussion doesn't require a winner. I would like to think a debate would be more logical, or less emotional than an argument.
I agree, I think an argument is more passionate, about opinions, where as a debate is more about believed facts.
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to me a discussion doesn't require a winner. I would like to think a debate would be more logical, or less emotional than an argument.
Yep - and a debate winner is generally determined by a third party - not present in a lot of cases.

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A debate, forum for declamation, and lots of drinking. Sound good?
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Originally Posted by snowbunny
Yep - and a debate winner is generally determined by a third party - not present in a lot of cases.

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A debate, forum for declamation, and lots of drinking. Sound good?
are there munchies too? she asked cautiously.
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Old Apr 13th 2009, 8:59 am
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are there munchies too? she asked cautiously.
Yep!
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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza
What is the general consensus to the difference between debate - discussion and argument ???

How do we define one from the other? Honestly, I'm interested. Said in general terms world wide.
The amount of concession participants are willing to make to the other point of view?

discussion-->debate-->argument, in order of flexibility.
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Yep!
okay, I'm in, she responded piously.
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The amount of concession participants are willing to make to the other point of view?

discussion-->debate-->argument, in order of flexibility.
So have I unwittingly just taken this discussion / debate /argument into another type of discussion ?

When we have a fight with our OH's, is it a debate or a down and out argument? I suppose it depends on time and context and a whole lot of other stuff ?
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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza
So have I unwittingly just taken this discussion / debate /argument into another type of discussion ?

When we have a fight with our OH's, is it a debate or a down and out argument? I suppose it depends on time and context and a whole lot of other stuff ?
depends on whether there's a counselor there or not.
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Originally Posted by cindyabs
depends on whether there's a counselor there or not.
Not in my house .......... sometimes I get the last word !
Sometimes that's because I'm saying it to closed front door !
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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza
So have I unwittingly just taken this discussion / debate /argument into another type of discussion ?

When we have a fight with our OH's, is it a debate or a down and out argument? I suppose it depends on time and context and a whole lot of other stuff ?
I was going to yell "New Thread!!!" at you, but why not.. yes, you've taken it to a whole 'nother type of, er, chat. That's it, 'chat'!

My OH won't fight/argue/disagree. He sulks + silent treatment & thinks any 'excited' talk is 'yelling'.
It's torture.
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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza
Not in my house .......... sometimes I get the last word !
Sometimes that's because I'm saying it to closed front door !
which side are you on?
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