UKCityGent

I had a chat with a friend who got found out having an extra-marital affair - how many have had extra-martial affairs (be honest)

weasel decentral

A chat with a 'friend' eh?

Anyhow approaching this from the other side, that is not being the married one. Over the last decade at least 75% of the women I have had relationships with have been married, and it's certainly not cultural as it's been a mixture of all religions, races and locations. Being in my 40s it's definitely age related in my opinion, their relationships have reached their natural lifespan.

Good topic btw

UKCityGent

Problem is i cant lie as my face is too expressive (apparently) and too blunt with the truth

My friend has 2 phones one for work and one for pleasure - unfortunately he left his pleasure phone at home with his wife and she saw the pop up whatsapp messages. He was saying it sort of saves him telling the wife he wants to divorce. Somehow i think he will change his mind when he finds out how expensive a hobby it is !

Millhouse

what's your definition of an affair?

One night stand? friend with benefits or actual relationship?

DXBtoDOH

In the eyes of most women they're all the same. You're cheating, one way or another.

Never been married so this question doesn't apply to me. But at the same time I won't get involved with marrieds.

Millhouse

In for a penny, in for a pound then. My guess is that the number is well up in the 50+% if truth be known.

jam25mack

As DXB says, I'd class all of those as cheating at some level or another. Drunken grope / snog, nah.... that's just dog house material.

I've never been married so the poll doesn't apply to me. With regards to my being involved with someone who is married..... as far as I can recall / know about it has only happened once (well with one person and then only on two occasions). Back when I worked in Scotland we used to go away as a department (from 2 offices) once a year after Christmas for a team building piss up. There was this lady in the other office who used to pretty much jump me each year. Seems like I was her annual Christmas present to herself.

Saying that I have loads of married mates and I've been away on a lot of stag do's.... and having some 'fun' while away doesn't seem to be a big thing.

scot47

Is this the place for confessions ?

Bahtatboy

Apparently.

As to the comments by other posters, even though the OP stated "ex-marital", surely the question applies equally to those who are in long-term relationships even though not actually married.

reddiva

0 and i wouldn't entertain anyone that was married either
Summer bachelor months are rapidly approaching haha

Millhouse

that you are aware of

reddiva

Due diligence, believe me it is easy to find out

Taz786

Does it count if you're on a break? Like Ross from Friends

mission

nope

weasel decentral

I wasn't saying I was having to lie, it was the married women doing the lying.

I'm sort of with millhouse on this, my experience has been that it seems like the percentage is very high. Certainly 50% or above for men.