Originally Posted by Irishbeekeeper

men will always be men aka wankers
well most of them anyway, its just a fact of life honestly
I have a very large and diverse friends' base so my opinion has got some knowledge / experience behind it and I am with Millhouse on this one, polls / surveys mean **** all! Most men think of themselves as God's gift to women (or men based on their orientation) and would flirt shamelessly left right and center if given half a chance. So is that cheating then? Flirting? How about a wank in the shower? Or watching porn for that matter? Based on the above discussed comments that 'should' qualify as cheating as well right?

Each person (man) has got their own boundaries set inside their head as to what constitutes a moral red line that He wont cross in regards to fidelity to His partner. Some men wont even have that red line and would still consider it perfectly alright to 'Swing' and still remain happily married. I know many.

I should also like to add that most men I know who went uber-religious (Muslim, Christianity, Hinduism) went straight as a fiddle after they embraced their religion......and for most of them....that point came juuuuuuuust about when they were reaching their 40s with a couple of kids out so I guess Libido plays a part as well doesnt it?
Anyway, rant over...carry on!
Oh and I have NO idea about women! Out of all my female friends there is only 1 person who I know of who might have cheated. Women in my opinion are much much more morally superior to us baboons.
Again all of the above is my opinion only.