Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5296743)

And also for you, yes I did exactly mean it the way I said it.
There is no right way to grieve, it's a personal thing. All these people that judge someone because they still put on earrings or wear make up and therefore cannot be grieving properly....what a load of crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can sort of understand people saying it, who have not been through it, cause how would you know differently, but for someone who has lost a child still to be able to say there is something weird about their grieving annoys me.
Anyway, we PMed about it and thats the end of it as far as I am concerned.
This is just a general observation though, nothing to do with Madeleines mother being guilty or not.
I have said it on another thread, but I will repeat it here, when my daughter died, I still showered, put on make up, nice clothes etc...doing the normal day to day things, the familiar routines makes a life that is otherwise spinning out of control bearable.

Originally Posted by Amazing Grace (Post 5299790)

Personally I think this thread should be closed. Innocent until proven Guilty. Nothing else to say!

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 5299802)

OJ Simpson would be glad to hear that ....

Originally Posted by Amazing Grace (Post 5299790)

Personally I think this thread should be closed. Innocent until proven Guilty. Nothing else to say!