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MataHari Sep 9th 2007 5:24 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 5291544)
eh?? wasn't BB agreeing with you...??!!!

MM, xx

no, she meant she knows she could never do that...at least that is what I read into it.

shakh your bootie Sep 9th 2007 5:24 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 5291544)
eh?? wasn't BB agreeing with you...??!!!

MM, xx

i thought so...

beebee Sep 9th 2007 5:24 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5291540)
Well, lets agree to disagree on this.

Of course... i don't do online arguing but this is something I am just one hunderd percent sure of.

beebee Sep 9th 2007 5:26 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5291549)
i thought so...

No.. I wasn't

shakh your bootie Sep 9th 2007 5:27 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by beebee (Post 5291539)
A fantasy shared by the father?
Could you do it?

Either the mother was so convincing that the husband was duped. Or she is the dominant partner & coerced him. Or perhaps they were both involved in the accident and the fantasy is a mass-hysteria thing. Like Nazism or the Salem Witch trials...

As MH says - people do remarkable things under certain conditions.

shakh your bootie Sep 9th 2007 5:28 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by beebee (Post 5291550)
Of course... i don't do online arguing but this is something I am just one hunderd percent sure of.

:) it's a discussion, BB. Say what you think.

beebee Sep 9th 2007 5:29 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5291556)
Either the mother was so convincing that the husband was duped. Or she is the dominant partner & coerced him. Or perhaps they were both involved in the accident and the fantasy is a mass-hysteria thing. Like Nazism or the Salem Witch trials...

As MH says - people do remarkable things under certain conditions.

Ok.. could you be coerced?

MataHari Sep 9th 2007 5:32 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5291556)
Either the mother was so convincing that the husband was duped. Or she is the dominant partner & coerced him. Or perhaps they were both involved in the accident and the fantasy is a mass-hysteria thing. Like Nazism or the Salem Witch trials...

As MH says - people do remarkable things under certain conditions.

yes, people can do remarkable things, never thought to be possible...either in positive ways, like staying alive when given up by all the doctors in the world for instance or showing an incredible physical or mental strenght under extreme circumstances....things that you would have said beforehand that it would not ever be possible for a human being to do, and still they did it.
The same can happen in a negative form...for instance covering up the killing of a child...

MataHari Sep 9th 2007 5:33 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by beebee (Post 5291561)
Ok.. could you be coerced?

That question cannot be answered...one can only say that he hopes he would not...but until it actually happens, I am convinced you don't know what you'll do...

shakh your bootie Sep 9th 2007 5:33 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by beebee (Post 5291561)
Ok.. could you be coerced?

No - but I'm not really the type to. But some people can be coerced.

shakh your bootie Sep 9th 2007 5:35 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5291571)
That question cannot be answered...one can only say that he hopes he would not...but until it actually happens, I am convinced you don't know what you'll do...

Sophie's Choice - What would you do if a Nazi officer offered you the choice between the lives of 2 of your children?

Extreme circumstance can produce very bizarre behaviour.

MataHari Sep 9th 2007 5:37 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5291577)
Sophie's Choice - What would you do if a Nazi officer offered you the choice between the lives of 2 of your children?

Extreme circumstance can produce very bizarre behaviour.

that's my point all along...
I find it a bit too easy to say oh I would never do that....

beebee Sep 9th 2007 5:37 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5291577)
Sophie's Choice - What would you do if a Nazi officer offered you the choice between the lives of 2 of your children?

Extreme circumstance can produce very bizarre behaviour.

I really think you are going a little off track...

shakh your bootie Sep 9th 2007 5:39 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by beebee (Post 5291585)
I really think you are going a little off track...

Maybe. So do you think the police have got it wrong, then?

beebee Sep 9th 2007 5:43 am

Re: The mother did it.....
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5291589)
Maybe. So do you think the police have got it wrong, then?

I always say.. no smoke without fire.. they usually are pretty sure of the evidence before they blame the parents...
I really have not read up enough on the case to make a judgement.. but I really hope they are wrong. For the simple fact that if they are right then that little girl is dead and not kidnapped....


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