another moral question
Jan 31st 2009, 6:11 am
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Re: another moral question
My mistake..........
Jan 31st 2009, 6:29 am
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Re: another moral question
Yes you're right. I would banish her from my life, who needs friends like that? Trust goes a long way and it doesn't just stop with my husband.
Jan 31st 2009, 6:49 am
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Re: another moral question
but don't you think that he may argue that it is not forbiden by law to sleep with a woman outside marrige?
why do you think he is making a big fault to feel like killing him if he didn't break the law?
is there any law in Uk that states this as a crime/mistake/sin whatever?
which is a problem .. because then... the wife may think the same!! and may starts having a secret lover for the same argument ...
why do you think he is making a big fault to feel like killing him if he didn't break the law?
is there any law in Uk that states this as a crime/mistake/sin whatever?
which is a problem .. because then... the wife may think the same!! and may starts having a secret lover for the same argument ...
UK Divorce Law states:
Adultery is a term used when one partner has had a sexual relationship with a third party of an opposite sex (sometimes a more common term of infidelity is used by couples in a marriage counseling session). It is important that people are clear about the Divorce Law as far as "Adultery" is concerned. There has to be proof that a "sexual" relationship has taken place and that this relationship was with a member of the opposite sex. If a partner has committed adultery by having a sexual relationship with a member of the same sex, then according to the UK Divorce Law, this is not grounds for Adultery, but rather classified as "Divorce due to Unreasonable Behaviour".
What are the points that you need to be aware of when filling for divorce under the grounds of Adultery:
Adultery is only granted if there has been sexual relationship involving a member of opposite sex outside that of the marriage.
There are "time limits" involved in the cases of Adultery. A person must file for divorce within six months of discovering the Adultery. This, however, does not apply if the couple do not continue to live together after the Adultery has been discovered.
It is not necessary, or recommended, to name the third party involved in the Adultery.
Which partner has committed the act of Adultery has no bearing on the court's decision when considering the assets, children or any other judgments passed.
More than anything else though it would be his betrayal that would make me feel that way, whether he slept with a man or a woman, the law would have nothing to do with it.
Jan 31st 2009, 6:56 am
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Re: another moral question
UK Divorce Law states:
Adultery is a term used when one partner has had a sexual relationship with a third party of an opposite sex (sometimes a more common term of infidelity is used by couples in a marriage counseling session). It is important that people are clear about the Divorce Law as far as "Adultery" is concerned. There has to be proof that a "sexual" relationship has taken place and that this relationship was with a member of the opposite sex. If a partner has committed adultery by having a sexual relationship with a member of the same sex, then according to the UK Divorce Law, this is not grounds for Adultery, but rather classified as "Divorce due to Unreasonable Behaviour".
What are the points that you need to be aware of when filling for divorce under the grounds of Adultery:
Adultery is only granted if there has been sexual relationship involving a member of opposite sex outside that of the marriage.
There are "time limits" involved in the cases of Adultery. A person must file for divorce within six months of discovering the Adultery. This, however, does not apply if the couple do not continue to live together after the Adultery has been discovered.
It is not necessary, or recommended, to name the third party involved in the Adultery.
Which partner has committed the act of Adultery has no bearing on the court's decision when considering the assets, children or any other judgments passed.
More than anything else though it would be his betrayal that would make me feel that way, whether he slept with a man or a woman, the law would have nothing to do with it.
Adultery is a term used when one partner has had a sexual relationship with a third party of an opposite sex (sometimes a more common term of infidelity is used by couples in a marriage counseling session). It is important that people are clear about the Divorce Law as far as "Adultery" is concerned. There has to be proof that a "sexual" relationship has taken place and that this relationship was with a member of the opposite sex. If a partner has committed adultery by having a sexual relationship with a member of the same sex, then according to the UK Divorce Law, this is not grounds for Adultery, but rather classified as "Divorce due to Unreasonable Behaviour".
What are the points that you need to be aware of when filling for divorce under the grounds of Adultery:
Adultery is only granted if there has been sexual relationship involving a member of opposite sex outside that of the marriage.
There are "time limits" involved in the cases of Adultery. A person must file for divorce within six months of discovering the Adultery. This, however, does not apply if the couple do not continue to live together after the Adultery has been discovered.
It is not necessary, or recommended, to name the third party involved in the Adultery.
Which partner has committed the act of Adultery has no bearing on the court's decision when considering the assets, children or any other judgments passed.
More than anything else though it would be his betrayal that would make me feel that way, whether he slept with a man or a woman, the law would have nothing to do with it.
but there is no punishment.
Jan 31st 2009, 7:21 am
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Re: another moral question
Jan 31st 2009, 7:33 am
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Anyway, my husband has a good wife and 4 great children, it would be his loss.
Jan 31st 2009, 8:00 am
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Re: another moral question
i never said that. but it is worth worrying about the rest of the women ... thinking of their problems .. and trying to find out the reasons for these problems ... and then look for the best solutions
because then .. if all do the same .... you are creating a better society for your kids..
if all ignore it... you will come to see the result of that.
because then .. if all do the same .... you are creating a better society for your kids..
if all ignore it... you will come to see the result of that.
Jan 31st 2009, 8:11 am
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i never said that. but it is worth worrying about the rest of the women ... thinking of their problems .. and trying to find out the reasons for these problems ... and then look for the best solutions
because then .. if all do the same .... you are creating a better society for your kids..
if all ignore it... you will come to see the result of that.
because then .. if all do the same .... you are creating a better society for your kids..
if all ignore it... you will come to see the result of that.
Jan 31st 2009, 8:16 am
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Re: another moral question
I love worrying about others. it is one thing that makes us human.
didn't you feel sorry for all those poor little kids and women and old men in Gaza who was bombarded by the Israil army? why did you feel sorry for them?
because you are a human ....
and for the same reason ... you would not want to see others sad and living lousy life
Jan 31st 2009, 8:18 am
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I love worrying about others. it is one thing that makes us human.
didn't you feel sorry for all those poor little kids and women and old men in Gaza who was bombarded by the Israil army? why did you feel sorry for them?
because you are a human ....
and for the same reason ... you would not want to see others sad and living lousy life
didn't you feel sorry for all those poor little kids and women and old men in Gaza who was bombarded by the Israil army? why did you feel sorry for them?
because you are a human ....
and for the same reason ... you would not want to see others sad and living lousy life
Jan 31st 2009, 8:24 am
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Re: another moral question
Hun im totally human and of course think of others, my comment related to, worrying whether my husband would commit adultery, this is something i would not worry about, if it is going to happen then it happens, there is nothing i can do to stop it but im not going to ruin my relationship by worrying about what he might do.
you are right in a way.
but if you think that there are things that you can do now to make the life in the future better for your kids then why not doing it?
beside .. in some cases ... it is worth worrying about the husband ... because this feeling will drive the woman to protect her marrige... by elemenating things that can lead to it as far as she can.
when there are things that are out of her hands and it is because of mistakes in the society ... then at least she will feel she did what was required from her.
Jan 31st 2009, 8:28 am
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Hun im totally human and of course think of others, my comment related to, worrying whether my husband would commit adultery, this is something i would not worry about, if it is going to happen then it happens, there is nothing i can do to stop it but im not going to ruin my relationship by worrying about what he might do.