another moral question
Feb 1st 2009, 2:41 pm
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Re: another moral question
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Feb 1st 2009, 3:49 pm
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Re: another moral question
Dean's got the right idea about a happy marriage : live in a different continent from your spouse...........
Feb 1st 2009, 3:50 pm
#138
hmmmm...nice
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Re: another moral question
Do you know, I have no idea.I think I just thought you weren't a man more than I thought you weren't a lady.........you didn't say anything, it was Anna when she was asking for a bloke's perspective and cited Auto and your goodself.
It happens.
Dean's got the right idea about a happy marriage : live in a different continent from your spouse...........
It happens.
Dean's got the right idea about a happy marriage : live in a different continent from your spouse...........
Feb 1st 2009, 3:53 pm
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Re: another moral question
As for you Missus, you are very good at these type of things - you gave me some good talkings too and some sound advice. Good friends are few and far between and somehow we know how to give the right support at the time it's needed.
So, don't sell yourself short.
Feb 2nd 2009, 6:34 pm
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Re: another moral question
May I give you my opinion even if I am new here?
Betrayal is a matter of perception.
She perceives she has been betrayed and, from your description, he behaves like he had something to be forgiven for.
This is not a good start, personally I believe that the promise to "tell the truth, all the truth, nothing but the truth" is for adolescents.
Grown-ups should know that trust is more important than truth.
Betrayal is a matter of perception.
She perceives she has been betrayed and, from your description, he behaves like he had something to be forgiven for.
This is not a good start, personally I believe that the promise to "tell the truth, all the truth, nothing but the truth" is for adolescents.
Grown-ups should know that trust is more important than truth.
Feb 3rd 2009, 4:12 am
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Re: another moral question
May I give you my opinion even if I am new here?
Betrayal is a matter of perception.
She perceives she has been betrayed and, from your description, he behaves like he had something to be forgiven for.
This is not a good start, personally I believe that the promise to "tell the truth, all the truth, nothing but the truth" is for adolescents.
Grown-ups should know that trust is more important than truth.
Betrayal is a matter of perception.
She perceives she has been betrayed and, from your description, he behaves like he had something to be forgiven for.
This is not a good start, personally I believe that the promise to "tell the truth, all the truth, nothing but the truth" is for adolescents.
Grown-ups should know that trust is more important than truth.
I agree the truth can hurt and trust is more important in a relationship than revealing all but more important than all of those things is clear, plain communication.
N.
Feb 3rd 2009, 3:18 pm
#143
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Re: another moral question
So Hawkhead....... you a bird or what?
Feb 3rd 2009, 3:28 pm
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Re: another moral question
Feb 3rd 2009, 3:30 pm
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Feb 3rd 2009, 3:44 pm
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