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NorthernLad Jan 28th 2009 10:27 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7225131)
TBH thats my opinion, i hate liars with a passion. How could you trust someone that kept all of that secret, she found out, he didn't tell her, if she had not of found out it prob would have led to summat

I see only 2 guys have responded, come on guys, whats the male stance on it

Sounds well dodge to me.

I have female friends, but don't keep it secret from the missus.

Sky Blue Jan 28th 2009 10:27 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7225131)
TBH thats my opinion, i hate liars with a passion. How could you trust someone that kept all of that secret, she found out, he didn't tell her, if she had not of found out it prob would have led to summat

I see only 2 guys have responded, come on guys, whats the male stance on it

Its difficult to comment too much as dont really know the full story...

What goes on between 2, 3, 4 or however many people rock your boat can be difficult to work out...

MacScot Jan 28th 2009 10:28 pm

Re: another moral question
 
Not everything is black and white...and time heals.

My brother-in-law did the same to my sister...seeing another woman and being unfaithful. They worked through it and got back together and have been happily married ever since. Though, they were of similar ages...not sure about the large age difference in the current case (i.e., this thread).

It was a mid-life crisis thingy with my brother-in-law. :confused:

Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:29 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by Sky Blue (Post 7225158)
Its difficult to comment too much as dont really know the full story...

What goes on between 2, 3, 4 or however many people rock your boat can be difficult to work out...

The basics are there pet, would you do it or what would be yr reaction if your wife/GF/Lover did it

Meow Jan 28th 2009 10:30 pm

Re: another moral question
 
I have a simple maxim for relationships - if you can't do it in front of your partner then you shouldn't be doing it.



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Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:30 pm

Re: another moral question
 
Hawkhead?

Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:32 pm

Re: another moral question
 
Autonomy?

Sky Blue Jan 28th 2009 10:34 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7225161)
The basics are there pet, would you do it or what would be yr reaction if your wife/GF/Lover did it

Well its not text book I'll give you that, but they/he/she may have had some issues, maybe it could be a nadir and they could go forward or not...

Confucius Jan 28th 2009 10:35 pm

Re: another moral question
 
My moral question is; why did he get caught???

Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:37 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7225185)
My moral question is; why did he get caught???

baby, cos liars always get caught!

Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:38 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by Sky Blue (Post 7225180)
Well its not text book I'll give you that, but they/he/she may have had some issues, maybe it could be a nadir and they could go forward or not...

you didnt answer me thou, with the facts i gave, what would be yr reaction

Confucius Jan 28th 2009 10:39 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7225189)
baby, cos liars always get caught!

Of course they do when they get complacent and stupid...

Sky Blue Jan 28th 2009 10:44 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7225195)
you didnt answer me thou, with the facts i gave, what would be yr reaction

So how old is the girl and how old is the other girl???

Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:45 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7225198)
Of course they do when they get complacent and stupid...

its hard to be on yr guard the whole time, it only takes a second to let it down and all is revealed.

Grace O Malley Jan 28th 2009 10:46 pm

Re: another moral question
 

Originally Posted by Sky Blue (Post 7225218)
So how old is the girl and how old is the other girl???

he is 57, my friend 36 and the girl late 20"s.


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