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She has a big and temperate heart - he's a lucky guy. I just hope he really wasn't up to anything after all, and that if he was he won't do it again.

N.

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Do you know, I have no idea.I think I just thought you weren't a man more than I thought you weren't a lady.........you didn't say anything, it was Anna when she was asking for a bloke's perspective and cited Auto and your goodself.

It happens.
Dean's got the right idea about a happy marriage : live in a different continent from your spouse...........

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my spouse and I live in different worlds...

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Shame its not different cities

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If she's giving him another chance then at least she can say she tried if it doesn't work out and if it does then it means she did the right thing to try again (sorry bit garbled).

As for you Missus, you are very good at these type of things - you gave me some good talkings too and some sound advice. Good friends are few and far between and somehow we know how to give the right support at the time it's needed.

So, don't sell yourself short. :)

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May I give you my opinion even if I am new here?
Betrayal is a matter of perception.
She perceives she has been betrayed and, from your description, he behaves like he had something to be forgiven for.
This is not a good start, personally I believe that the promise to "tell the truth, all the truth, nothing but the truth" is for adolescents.
Grown-ups should know that trust is more important than truth.

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Nearly everything in life is about perception...

I agree the truth can hurt and trust is more important in a relationship than revealing all but more important than all of those things is clear, plain communication.

N.

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[QUOTE=Eva;7236387]Do you know, I have no idea.I think I just thought you weren't a man more than I thought you weren't a lady.........you didn't say anything, it was Anna when she was asking for a bloke's perspective and cited Auto and your goodself.



So Hawkhead....... you a bird or what?:)

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Fix the damn quotes...

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What's wrong with em Musicman?
don't be so damn bossy!

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It's a mishmash...

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Aaw meeshmeesh will ya...........
I deliberately resurrected the original Q as it's a few days old now so that Hawkhead who might
be a doehead and not remember, could easily follow.
Clarity and transparency- my new style of posting.

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Did we miss anything regarding your posting.

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Nope don't think so all perfectly understood me thinks but I just felt like a change of style but not in a hairdressing thread
more a salad dressing.

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You not going to make it a bit Saucy?

Heinz or Tabasco