Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
[QUOTE=ezzie;5829791]That's fantastic....where have you moved back to in the UK? That really must have cemented the feeling that moving back was the right decision.
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Hi Ezzie
I live in Newmarket which is about 12 miles from Cambridge
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I live in Newmarket which is about 12 miles from Cambridge
C x
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Gorgeous! Lucky sods. My daughter is determined to go to Cambridge (not on overseas student fees she won't!!!!!) I wouldn't put it past her either, she's got nerves of steel and the tenacity of a terrier that one.
We heard actually driving into Cambridge now and parking is not for the faint-hearted and requires a pre-packed picnic basket for all the traffic jams!
[quote=chance to be;5830116][quote=ezzie;5829791]That's fantastic....where have you moved back to in the UK? That really must have cemented the feeling that moving back was the right decision.
We heard actually driving into Cambridge now and parking is not for the faint-hearted and requires a pre-packed picnic basket for all the traffic jams!
[quote=chance to be;5830116][quote=ezzie;5829791]That's fantastic....where have you moved back to in the UK? That really must have cemented the feeling that moving back was the right decision.
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Gorgeous! Lucky sods. My daughter is determined to go to Cambridge (not on overseas student fees she won't!!!!!) I wouldn't put it past her either, she's got nerves of steel and the tenacity of a terrier that one.
We heard actually driving into Cambridge now and parking is not for the faint-hearted and requires a pre-packed picnic basket for all the traffic jams!
We heard actually driving into Cambridge now and parking is not for the faint-hearted and requires a pre-packed picnic basket for all the traffic jams!
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
[QUOTE=ezzie;5829791]That's fantastic....where have you moved back to in the UK? That really must have cemented the feeling that moving back was the right decision.
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Hi we are moving back to northamptonshire next week! WE are sooooo excited.
My 17 year old got himself lost last night!!!! No money left his phone at home etc... he rang us from a call box, just got 1 word then would cut off!!! Nightmare, we tried ringing the mobile who he had rung us earlier with to say he was going to the pub after work and would get a lift home. The guy (so called work mate said'we lost him' and put the phone down, and turned his phone off!!! As you can imagine all things going through my head now!!!My husband went to morley, cause he sometimes meets people there, but could be in burswood!!! We really did not know where to start. Finally 2am he walked up the street, I gave him a big hug and said I was so scared. He said you were scared, I was crapping myself, throught i would have to sleep on the side of the road.
Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
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My 17 year old got himself lost last night!!!! No money left his phone at home etc... he rang us from a call box, just got 1 word then would cut off!!! Nightmare, we tried ringing the mobile who he had rung us earlier with to say he was going to the pub after work and would get a lift home. The guy (so called work mate said'we lost him' and put the phone down, and turned his phone off!!! As you can imagine all things going through my head now!!!My husband went to morley, cause he sometimes meets people there, but could be in burswood!!! We really did not know where to start. Finally 2am he walked up the street, I gave him a big hug and said I was so scared. He said you were scared, I was crapping myself, throught i would have to sleep on the side of the road.
Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
#680
Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Hi we are moving back to northamptonshire next week! WE are sooooo excited.
My 17 year old got himself lost last night!!!! No money left his phone at home etc... he rang us from a call box, just got 1 word then would cut off!!! Nightmare, we tried ringing the mobile who he had rung us earlier with to say he was going to the pub after work and would get a lift home. The guy (so called work mate said'we lost him' and put the phone down, and turned his phone off!!! As you can imagine all things going through my head now!!!My husband went to morley, cause he sometimes meets people there, but could be in burswood!!! We really did not know where to start. Finally 2am he walked up the street, I gave him a big hug and said I was so scared. He said you were scared, I was crapping myself, throught i would have to sleep on the side of the road.
Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
My 17 year old got himself lost last night!!!! No money left his phone at home etc... he rang us from a call box, just got 1 word then would cut off!!! Nightmare, we tried ringing the mobile who he had rung us earlier with to say he was going to the pub after work and would get a lift home. The guy (so called work mate said'we lost him' and put the phone down, and turned his phone off!!! As you can imagine all things going through my head now!!!My husband went to morley, cause he sometimes meets people there, but could be in burswood!!! We really did not know where to start. Finally 2am he walked up the street, I gave him a big hug and said I was so scared. He said you were scared, I was crapping myself, throught i would have to sleep on the side of the road.
Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
#681
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Thanks, i think that is half our problem! we just do not know enough about this country to survive! if you have grown up here you now all the little things, we still have to think what the emergency number is or which is the closest hospital etc.. however in england you are brought up with it and know what to do with out thinking!!
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Thanks, i think that is half our problem! we just do not know enough about this country to survive! if you have grown up here you now all the little things, we still have to think what the emergency number is or which is the closest hospital etc.. however in england you are brought up with it and know what to do with out thinking!!
Good luck on your return.
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
I wasn't brought up here. I had to learn all these things, they don't come handed on a plate. I think a lot of people expect to come and it be the same which as you well know it isn't. It is hard work and takes time to learn these things but you have to want to.
Good luck on your return.
Good luck on your return.
Yes it is really hard work, and we are just tired now!! Tired of asking silly questions, we are selling our car at the weekend and have no idea what to do!!! Need to get some transfer papers from the licencing centre I think.Everything is so different here and I think thats why every comes, because they are looking for something different from england but speak the same language!! However the language thing is debatable!!!!
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Thank you.
Yes it is really hard work, and we are just tired now!! Tired of asking silly questions, we are selling our car at the weekend and have no idea what to do!!! Need to get some transfer papers from the licencing centre I think.Everything is so different here and I think thats why every comes, because they are looking for something different from england but speak the same language!! However the language thing is debatable!!!!
Yes it is really hard work, and we are just tired now!! Tired of asking silly questions, we are selling our car at the weekend and have no idea what to do!!! Need to get some transfer papers from the licencing centre I think.Everything is so different here and I think thats why every comes, because they are looking for something different from england but speak the same language!! However the language thing is debatable!!!!
Its all quite simple.
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
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That's lovely...I am so pleased that your children have settled well into your schools...most of the "friends" I know who have gone back have all said the schools were excellent, their children have settled in well etc......good luck to you all......nice to hear a good word said about the British Education System which on whole is one of the best in the world......
However, we have decided to go back to the UK, my daughter can get into her old school no problems, the head master there is fab and has emailed us while in oz!!! (that lovely community feel we miss). QUOTE]
I emailed the head of our old kids school to get them back in when we came back. She went to the second hand clothes shop in the school and got them completely kitted out as a "welcome back" gift and meant a) I didnt have to fork out again when I couldnt afford it and B) kids looked the same as everyone else when they started back.
It truely was one of the many wonderful gestures Ive received since coming back
Both of my childrens schools are fantastic state schools with a cirriculum and out-of-school activies that are far more varied and surpass anything I personally experienced abroad.
Yes, community's great!
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I emailed the head of our old kids school to get them back in when we came back. She went to the second hand clothes shop in the school and got them completely kitted out as a "welcome back" gift and meant a) I didnt have to fork out again when I couldnt afford it and B) kids looked the same as everyone else when they started back.
It truely was one of the many wonderful gestures Ive received since coming back
Both of my childrens schools are fantastic state schools with a cirriculum and out-of-school activies that are far more varied and surpass anything I personally experienced abroad.
Yes, community's great!
C
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
[QUOTE=gsxrmad;5830601][QUOTE=ezzie;5829791]That's fantastic....where have you moved back to in the UK? That really must have cemented the feeling that moving back was the right decision.
Good luck on your return...I have friends down in Rockingham who are from Northampton....with 3 boys all struggling to like living in Perth and keep saying they are all going home asap, their ages 17,18,20....they have found it so hard.....
All the best
Hi we are moving back to northamptonshire next week! WE are sooooo excited.
My 17 year old got himself lost last night!!!! No money left his phone at home etc... he rang us from a call box, just got 1 word then would cut off!!! Nightmare, we tried ringing the mobile who he had rung us earlier with to say he was going to the pub after work and would get a lift home. The guy (so called work mate said'we lost him' and put the phone down, and turned his phone off!!! As you can imagine all things going through my head now!!!My husband went to morley, cause he sometimes meets people there, but could be in burswood!!! We really did not know where to start. Finally 2am he walked up the street, I gave him a big hug and said I was so scared. He said you were scared, I was crapping myself, throught i would have to sleep on the side of the road.
Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
My 17 year old got himself lost last night!!!! No money left his phone at home etc... he rang us from a call box, just got 1 word then would cut off!!! Nightmare, we tried ringing the mobile who he had rung us earlier with to say he was going to the pub after work and would get a lift home. The guy (so called work mate said'we lost him' and put the phone down, and turned his phone off!!! As you can imagine all things going through my head now!!!My husband went to morley, cause he sometimes meets people there, but could be in burswood!!! We really did not know where to start. Finally 2am he walked up the street, I gave him a big hug and said I was so scared. He said you were scared, I was crapping myself, throught i would have to sleep on the side of the road.
Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
All the best
#687
Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Phew! Glad that one turned out OK. Yes, that driver definitely deserves a drink or three. What a smashing bloke....there are some lovely people in Oz aren't there. Do you think the same would have happened back in the UK. How old is your son then?
"Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I![/quote]
"Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I![/quote]
#688
Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
No idea, sorry.
If you like the school that is 20kms away, is the distance really an inhibitor? I know it's not ideal, but children of high school age can travel independently and many many children travel this distance every day to go to school. I have two neighbours both in year 7 (age 11/12) that leave the house at 7.15 to catch the bus/train for (different) schools.
Personally, I think the distance is more of an issue for their out of school socialising in the evenings and weekends due to the spread of their friends, than the distance to travel to actually go to school. Picking them up from the pub/party will be somewhat arduous. Then again, some parents don't do this and this may be looking too far ahead.
I believe things usually work out okay, although we may not always be aware of it.
If you like the school that is 20kms away, is the distance really an inhibitor? I know it's not ideal, but children of high school age can travel independently and many many children travel this distance every day to go to school. I have two neighbours both in year 7 (age 11/12) that leave the house at 7.15 to catch the bus/train for (different) schools.
Personally, I think the distance is more of an issue for their out of school socialising in the evenings and weekends due to the spread of their friends, than the distance to travel to actually go to school. Picking them up from the pub/party will be somewhat arduous. Then again, some parents don't do this and this may be looking too far ahead.
I believe things usually work out okay, although we may not always be aware of it.
Yes it probably could happen in the UK, especially if you lived in a more rural area, but who knows, it's down to alot of factors isn't it.
Last edited by St.Georges Girl; Jan 24th 2008 at 1:15 am.
#689
Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
I remember falling asleep on the train from London on the way home from work one night (after a night on the piss so it was my own fault!). Ended up at the end of the line in Ashford. I lived in Maidstone which is about 20 miles away. There was a single solitary taxi left and no one else around. Panicking a bit now being drunk at a deserted train station I asked him how much to Maidstone "20 something quid" he replied ... I only had 10, no cards or anything
He said "go on love, hop in" and took me all the way back for 10 quid. This was over 10 years ago and I never forgot that.
There are good and bad people everywhere.
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Re: Do you worry about raising your kids in the UK?
Phew! Glad that one turned out OK. Yes, that driver definitely deserves a drink or three. What a smashing bloke....there are some lovely people in Oz aren't there. Do you think the same would have happened back in the UK. How old is your son then?
"Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
"Anyway he was drunk got himself lost in DUNCRAIG, flagged down a bus driver, who took him back to the station, then brought him up to hocking for free!!! I could hug that man, I am going to ring and buy that man a few drinks. It could have turned out so differently.
My son said, 'Ill be glad when we get home and I know where the bloody hell I am!!!'
So will I!
My son is 17 but thinks hes 25!!!!
He left his phone at home, typical when you ned it you forget it!!
Rang transperth to se if they could track the man