Other peoples noise and anti-social behaviour.
#362
slanderer of the innocent
Joined: Dec 2008
Location: Vancouver, BC
Posts: 6,695
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
Seriously...you need to move!
#363
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
I know but it isn't as easy as that is it. Would you try to sell on a house to someone unaware? I wouldn't. In any case you can't just dump unless you are running very far away. We're not planning to move far away.
Let there be peace first.
Let there be peace first.
#364
Just Joined
Joined: Mar 2012
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Re: So embarassed about where we live.
Hey..Im stacey.... lived in NZ 5 1/2 years now live near Mot after leaving chch...I think I know which place your talking about, we went there one day for a coffee (coffee was shite actually) after the aquarium burnt down..im sorry your dealing with such stress, I cant offer much advice but I hope everything will quiten down for you guys! x
#365
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Joined: Apr 2008
Location: Epsom
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Re: So embarassed about where we live.
If someone isn't smart enough to do the research, and that includes visiting the area at various times of the day/night then it's their own fault.
#366
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
and Bev - you so deserve much better - you nice person you
#368
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Re: So embarassed about where we live.
A house is usually the single biggest thing anyone buys in their lives, laying out hundreds of thousands of dollars. You'd be mad not to visit during various times to see what the area is like. Seeing what traffic is like at rush hour, Friday/Sat nights for local bars and antisocial behaviour etc, even to the point of knocking on various neighbours and asking their opinions of the place, researching police complaints/offences etc in the area.
And then when you have a potential buyer would you seriously come out and tell them the neighbours are a problem?
And then when you have a potential buyer would you seriously come out and tell them the neighbours are a problem?
#369
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
Agree SR71. We did all that when thinking to buy this house. Trouble was, things changed around us.
This is a small place sr71 . Everyone knows everyone around here .
This is a small place sr71 . Everyone knows everyone around here .
#371
slanderer of the innocent
Joined: Dec 2008
Location: Vancouver, BC
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Re: So embarassed about where we live.
I agree with sr. As long as Bevs isn't out and out lying about noise it's caveat empor. We always did a lot of research before we bought. You never know, there could a person out there who is equally noisy and wants to live somewhere where it isn't an issue...,
#372
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
Obviously that lady hasn't been in Nelson , or perhaps NZ for that matter, for that long. Nelson and surrounding areas has always 'closed down' around 9pm, with the exception of a couple of Fests which may go on an hour later. It's how it's always been. Mostly because there would be no customers after around 9pm This is New Zealand love, is what I would say to her, not the UK. Folks like to be home by 9pm and in their beds undisturbed.
On the other hand Nelson does have several clubs and bars ,all in the one street ,which stay open until 4 am and are well served by the local young'uns. There is even a topless , strip club, type bar.
My council is Tasman not Nelson. The problemo with the pub is that it has previously been a licensed premises ( restaurant) so came with existing rules, if you see what I mean.
Problemo with the neighbours is that they don't give jack poops .
Anyway, we soldier on. Perhaps when I can honestly say that noise is no longer an issue , we may sell.
We have new neighbours on one side of us . A young family . I'm waiting to see how it will be if the pub has one of it's Dub Drum n Bass nights. Although I have to say that the pub has not been a problem of late.
#373
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
It is surely everyone's right to enjoy the peace and quiet of their own property. Can the noise people not do anything at all about it? Do they own the property or is it rented do you know? If rented what about the terms of their tenancy. Just a thought. Hope it settles down soon for you. x
#374
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
and you have my sympathy in return. The old 'muvver' who is one of those partying & is in her 70's A neighbour up the road had the old bag banging on her door at 1.30 am one night , drunk as a skunk , not knowing where she was. Police had to sort it out with her equally rat-faced daughters. This was a Wednesday night.
I totally 'get it' about them shouting loudly so they can hear each other.
I totally 'get it' about them shouting loudly so they can hear each other.
#375
Re: So embarassed about where we live.
and you have my sympathy in return. The old 'muvver' who is one of those partying & is in her 70's A neighbour up the road had the old bag banging on her door at 1.30 am one night , drunk as a skunk , not knowing where she was. Police had to sort it out with her equally rat-faced daughters. This was a Wednesday night.
I totally 'get it' about them shouting loudly so they can hear each other.
I totally 'get it' about them shouting loudly so they can hear each other.