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#47
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Hi all,
Not 100% agreed yet but O/H has now decided he has had enough of Perth and is bored, and turned around last night and said shall we go,
Must of hit his head or something. I thought he would never change his mind.
He has been offered promotion at work but does not want to accept as he couldn't see us staying here as long term
Although he initially said he wanted to stay and get the Cit-ship for the kids, after all the crap and heartace to get here, he now feels like he is wasting his time here.
He has been offered 2 positions one in Gibraltar with us living in Spain and the other in Cambridge, so fingers crossed we will be going home or closer..
My question is we have PR here and that expires in 2010 if we came back in 2010 say for a 6 week holiday can we just apply for a resident return Visa then leave again?
Don't want to post this on Aus forum, Just in case.
Cheers Sandra X
PS I am soo excited
I just hope he does not change his mind :scared:
Not 100% agreed yet but O/H has now decided he has had enough of Perth and is bored, and turned around last night and said shall we go,
Must of hit his head or something. I thought he would never change his mind.
He has been offered promotion at work but does not want to accept as he couldn't see us staying here as long term
Although he initially said he wanted to stay and get the Cit-ship for the kids, after all the crap and heartace to get here, he now feels like he is wasting his time here.
He has been offered 2 positions one in Gibraltar with us living in Spain and the other in Cambridge, so fingers crossed we will be going home or closer..
My question is we have PR here and that expires in 2010 if we came back in 2010 say for a 6 week holiday can we just apply for a resident return Visa then leave again?
Don't want to post this on Aus forum, Just in case.
Cheers Sandra X
PS I am soo excited
I just hope he does not change his mind :scared:Hi Sandra - am so delighted that things may be looking better for you - keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you
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And me!! I've only been back from the UK for 2 days, and I am struggling to unpack my suitcase now! I keep finding other distractions like reading this forum, looking back over the 100's of photos we took in England and remembering where our real 'home' is. Struggling to understand why we have just endured a horrendous long haul flight to return to a place where I really don't want to be! How's it going Rachel?
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Hmmm..... likewise! But when I told the lady who was 'in charge' that we hadn't seen any penguins, she seemed quite offended (now, there's a surprise!) and said "Well, did you expect to see any penguins?? We'd be worried if you did, madam, because they are all nesting at this time of the year" Oh, sorryeeeeeee. Pardon me for being so naive!! Any chance we could have our money back??!! No! I actually didn't say that - wouldn't dare!!!
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Hmmm..... likewise! But when I told the lady who was 'in charge' that we hadn't seen any penguins, she seemed quite offended (now, there's a surprise!) and said "Well, did you expect to see any penguins?? We'd be worried if you did, madam, because they are all nesting at this time of the year" Oh, sorryeeeeeee. Pardon me for being so naive!! Any chance we could have our money back??!! No! I actually didn't say that - wouldn't dare!!!
We have friends and rellies who have visited Penguin Island and they've all said the same.Not worth the trip or the money.Go to Perth Zoo, you stand a better chance of seeing Penguins there at least.
BTW, did it smell down in Shoalwater when you were there? We think it smells dreadful down there.
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Hi all
Still not got a firm decision as to where we are going, although he has emailed the company in Gibraltar to see if the position is still available and if so what they are prepared to offer him, if it is a no no then we can rule that out,
I wish they would hurry up and respond.
Then we can look at the Cambridge option, and see what they have to offer.
Although he keeps backtracking saying maybe we should stay and get the Cit-ship and go after that as it will only be another year and at least we/the Kids can come back in the future, but that thought fills me with dread, I really don't know if I could do it.
He said if we just look at this as an adventure and we will defiantly be going home at the end of it.. then he changes his mind again and says sod it let's go.
So where am I, so confused, and scared.
I keep having these strange dreams, where I picture my mums face then it disappears and it wakes me up. what is that all about.
I wonder if it is because we don't have webcams etc and have not seen my mum since 14 feb 06 and I am missing her so much. Spooky and weird.
Still not got a firm decision as to where we are going, although he has emailed the company in Gibraltar to see if the position is still available and if so what they are prepared to offer him, if it is a no no then we can rule that out,
I wish they would hurry up and respond.
Then we can look at the Cambridge option, and see what they have to offer.
Although he keeps backtracking saying maybe we should stay and get the Cit-ship and go after that as it will only be another year and at least we/the Kids can come back in the future, but that thought fills me with dread, I really don't know if I could do it.
He said if we just look at this as an adventure and we will defiantly be going home at the end of it.. then he changes his mind again and says sod it let's go.
So where am I, so confused, and scared.
I keep having these strange dreams, where I picture my mums face then it disappears and it wakes me up. what is that all about.
I wonder if it is because we don't have webcams etc and have not seen my mum since 14 feb 06 and I am missing her so much. Spooky and weird.
Last edited by sandrainaus; Jan 16th 2007 at 1:55 pm.
#52
Hi all
Still not got a firm decision as to where we are going, although he has emailed the company in Gibraltar to see if the position is still available and if so what they are prepared to offer him, if it is a no no them we can rule that out,
I wish they would hurry up and respond.
Then we can look at the Cambridge option, and see what they have to offer.
Although he keeps backtracking saying maybe we should stay and get the Cit-ship and go after that as it will only be another year and at least we/the Kids can come back in the future, but that thought fills me with dread, I really don't know if I could do it.
He said if we just look at this as an adventure and we will defiantly be going home at the end of it.. then he changes his mind again and says sod it let's go.
So where am I, so confused, and scared.
I keep having these strange dreams, where I picture my mums face then it disappears and it wakes me up. what is that all about.
I wonder if it is because we don't have webcams etc and have not seen my mum since 14 feb 06 and I am missing her so much. Spooky and weird.
Still not got a firm decision as to where we are going, although he has emailed the company in Gibraltar to see if the position is still available and if so what they are prepared to offer him, if it is a no no them we can rule that out,
I wish they would hurry up and respond.
Then we can look at the Cambridge option, and see what they have to offer.
Although he keeps backtracking saying maybe we should stay and get the Cit-ship and go after that as it will only be another year and at least we/the Kids can come back in the future, but that thought fills me with dread, I really don't know if I could do it.
He said if we just look at this as an adventure and we will defiantly be going home at the end of it.. then he changes his mind again and says sod it let's go.
So where am I, so confused, and scared.
I keep having these strange dreams, where I picture my mums face then it disappears and it wakes me up. what is that all about.
I wonder if it is because we don't have webcams etc and have not seen my mum since 14 feb 06 and I am missing her so much. Spooky and weird.
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My dad still goes to his bank same branch to do his banking, even though they moved over an hours drive away (because they know him) and he has never used a ATM machine, I even had to go to the machine to sort out his cards for the Chip & Pin.
Asking them to use a computer/Webcam is like asking them to cut off their arms.
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My Mum and dad are very old school they don't understand computers they can just about get their head around using the remote control,
My dad still goes to his bank same branch to do his banking, even though they moved over an hours drive away (because they know him) and he has never used a ATM machine, I even had to go to the machine to sort out his cards for the Chip & Pin.
Asking them to use a computer/Webcam is like asking them to cut off their arms.
My dad still goes to his bank same branch to do his banking, even though they moved over an hours drive away (because they know him) and he has never used a ATM machine, I even had to go to the machine to sort out his cards for the Chip & Pin.
Asking them to use a computer/Webcam is like asking them to cut off their arms.
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I speak to my Mum every 2 days and have done since I arrived here 12 months ago, but it is not the same, I miss just being around her.
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I wish I could get them to move into the real world, get some modern gagets ie: computer but they won't, they don't like flying, love England, love the English countryside etc holiday there twice a year and can see no reason for wanting to go elsewhere, so I have to respect them for that.
I speak to my Mum every 2 days and have done since I arrived here 12 months ago, but it is not the same, I miss just being around her.
I speak to my Mum every 2 days and have done since I arrived here 12 months ago, but it is not the same, I miss just being around her.
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And me!! I've only been back from the UK for 2 days, and I am struggling to unpack my suitcase now! I keep finding other distractions like reading this forum, looking back over the 100's of photos we took in England and remembering where our real 'home' is. Struggling to understand why we have just endured a horrendous long haul flight to return to a place where I really don't want to be! How's it going Rachel?
Sounds like you had a great time
My good friends who emigrated here in OCT have just gone back to the UK for good. They realised they had made a big mistake. It has unsettled me even more now. We all got very close and now it's gone.
But we are going back to UK for Xmas anyway:



