Best Wishes from me too....

Jan

Sorry, I wasn't having a go at you. You are entitled to say what you like about him. Others are not. That's all I was saying.

I will second that Jude.

Wish you all the luck in the world.

Its ok, no harm done! Ive not been offended by what was said anyway as none of it was really nasty only saying what i thought about him!! i.e being selfish!

Hi

I can understand you wanting to go home, we have been here now for 15 months, first 6 months ok, but when reality sets in its hard, we have probably spent the last 12 months arguing to a point where we hate each other, we have two chilidren and are probably staying more for them at the moment, then us.

We are going to move to Mornington soon and have said that after another year if we or I still feel the same way then I am going back home, life is far too short to be miserable and sad, my sister and her husband came for Christmas and the new year and I laughed more in the two weeks they were here then I have in 15 months.

Its your life and not a rehearsal, you are just as important as others in your family.

Good Luck

Debra :

I agree he is thinking about his own happiness but at the cost of his wife and child's happiness. Surely that is selfish. His wife came here with him, even though she wasn't really struck on the idea, she agreed to give it a go. Now, when the tables are turned and this isn't working for her, the husband is flatly refusing to go back to where they came from for the sake of the family unit.

It's a case of "I'm alright Jack and stuff you" on his part.

You and I will have to agree to disagree on this point.

Goodluck and I hope you will be very happy in the UK. Please keep in touch and send me emails and piccies of you and Meggy. I would love to see how she grows up.

Katie

Definitely worth doing, otherwise if he ever decides to get nasty (heaven forbid, but it does happen) he could decide that you have "abducted" your daughter and they could well be able to come after you under the Hague Convention.

All the best, hope it all works out for you and your daughter!! I'm sure there will be a time you look back at what you've gone through and all the hurt, resentment and confusion will be replaced by relief, love and fulfillment. xxx

Hi Megansmummy,
Good luck to you both i think you have made the right decision, It must have been hard for you, but at the end of the day your daughter's & yours happiness must come first.
It also be a relief for your family knowing that you will soon be home & not being unhappy so far away.
Good luck with everthing and keep us posted on your new life in the UK.
Lots of love Welshlass

He has promised me that he will not do that to me. It is worrying but i trust him as i think he has enough to worry about with looking after his son!!!!

All the best to you and your daughter for a safe return

XXX

How is his son taking the news?

Here here!

Good luck on your safe return to UK. Will be thinking about you and your daughter, keep us posted.

Its not real at the moment as we have said im going b4 & not gone so until i leave then i think he will not know or accept it!