Eva

Even if the landlord says it's alright, we know it isn't.Correct?This is my point about your post-it's not down to what a landlord rules....
And would someone handing over a deposit in good faith ever see that deposit again if perchance they were fired in or caught out for 'inappropriate' living arrangements?

busybee2

but as we know even if you dont do anything wrong you can be caught out. but many landlords rent out bed spaces and sharing accommodation etc or company provided labour camps. hence why we moved from one villa where a certain "new" supermarket chain put in 50 single men...... now with the landlords permission, even thou they pretended they didnt know anything about it when we complained but did that change the situation, no. but yes i wouldnt do it you need to get the correct paperwork to at least be half way there, what happens if you get ill, some companies will not allow you to live together also if you fall pregnant etc you and I know what will happen there.

Candy Ride

You'll most likely get pregnant

seven seas

There isn't a smilie of Bobby Bacalieri sounding shocked, nothign even close.

Wow, imagine what woudl happen when one of the housemates finds out you are actually sleeping with someone else, breakign his heart, etc etc....

Avoid it at all costs, it leaves you open to so many risks. If you must do it, don't tell people about it.

admon

no but, yeah but, no but, yeah but, no but,...

busybee2

am i bovvverreed!

admon

well I heard a rumour that...

kittycat1

Points noted, have blown it off! think Ive found a nice little pad that I can have all to myself

and in regards to most likely getting pregnant- I'm not one for bed hopping with housemates- causes far too much tension so I son't think getting a bun in the oven would have been an issue Candy ride!

How does it stand with having friends coming to visit and stay? My brotehr is gonna come out with my nephew- will they be able to stay? I know when I have come through passport control before I have had to show my hotel booking, will they be allowed to stay? And other male friends/female friends?

Thanks for all the advice

Kittycat
xxx

Relaunch

Thats what they all say

kittycat1

Yes relaunch, all women want is to fall pregnant and have babies and trap a man, doesn't matter who as long as we have lots and lots of babies. In fact we all sit at how piercing condoms with needles and working out when we are most fertile....yeah right...so how come so many women are in their 30's + 40's and single with no kids and are actually independant? must be mingers that no man would shag i guess....

Morocco Mole

I have to agree with Candy Ride and Relaunch on this one Kitty. Don't put yourself in that situation. You'd be strong for awhile then one late night after a few drinks a Mazola Party breaks out and you wake up the next day you're wondering who the daddy is.

kittycat1

seriously- I have been drunk before and have lived with men and been able to keep my knickers on! anyway I've taken my own apartment all on my tod so unless I shag the doorman I should be safe!

Eva

KittyC,
Check your Lease, the doorman might come under amenities, you know: parking, pool,gym, a safe shot at the doorman
Happy new house anyway.

Hello.Kitty

male family members are fine to stay... as are same sex friends.

Glad you've got your accomm sorted... I think sharing with 3 guys would have drawn huge amounts of unwaranted attention and "People" would have thought of you in a far less than flattering light! Men have funny notions, after all!

XBOX

I agree with Candy Ride, Seven Seas, Relaunch and Morocco Mole.

Don't do it unless you want to become the next Octomom Kity