Serious about going back
#211
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Joined: Jan 2005
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Hi,
I have lived in both Australia and Canada and I have found (again totally my own opinion) that it is a totally different type of expat that goes to Canada and stays than one that goes and stays in Oz, not better or worse but certainly different. Because of this, I also think that for some, unhappiness in Canada is definitely dis positional and not situational and that for some, no length of time will make them happy here.
J
I have lived in both Australia and Canada and I have found (again totally my own opinion) that it is a totally different type of expat that goes to Canada and stays than one that goes and stays in Oz, not better or worse but certainly different. Because of this, I also think that for some, unhappiness in Canada is definitely dis positional and not situational and that for some, no length of time will make them happy here.
J
Personally also i dont hold with people who seem to live their lives through their children and judge their own quality of life on those of the kids. To say we would stay even if we were unhappy because our children are happy is madness!!!
#212
I have wondered the same...and i think the same... that the kind of people who emigrate to Canada are generally not the same kind of people that go to Australia. I find that i probably fall into the Australia category of person (that doesnt mean i ever wanted to live there) just the type of person i am.
Personally also i dont hold with people who seem to live their lives through their children and judge their own quality of life on those of the kids. To say we would stay even if we were unhappy because our children are happy is madness!!!
Personally also i dont hold with people who seem to live their lives through their children and judge their own quality of life on those of the kids. To say we would stay even if we were unhappy because our children are happy is madness!!!
#213
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Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 11,708
From: White Rock BC











In my opinion someone who comes onto expats and honestly expresses their true feelings especially when many are afraid to for whatever reason, deserves a big pat on the back and the respect of those expats yet to experience hardships.
#216
ah, but the party line is very heavy. That's how people justify buying the big 4x4 truck, so they have enough towing capacity.As for me, I shall henceforth fly in the face of convention and heel the party line instead.
#217
I stand by my initial advice that people should wait more than 6 months, preferably at least a year before jumping ship.
#218
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#221
"Tow the line" is a recent bastardization popularized by lazy journalists. I can't find a reference older than the mid-1980s. It appears in august publications such as the Cambridge dictionary because it is in regular common usage. That doesn't make it any more excusable for those of JonboyE's or AX's standing.
#222
as you'll no doubt know, the job of a dictionary is to reflect the current usage of idiom, without necessarily commenting on its etymology or "correctness" (I use the term loosely). The original expression was undoubtedly "toe the line." Precise etymology - probably from boxing - is unclear, but it appears to have been widely used in various forms from the second quarter of the 19th century (OED, Webster, Chambers all have citations from the 1820s and 1830s).
"Tow the line" is a recent bastardization popularized by lazy journalists. I can't find a reference older than the mid-1980s. It appears in august publications such as the Cambridge dictionary because it is in regular common usage. That doesn't make it any more excusable for those of JonboyE's or AX's standing.
"Tow the line" is a recent bastardization popularized by lazy journalists. I can't find a reference older than the mid-1980s. It appears in august publications such as the Cambridge dictionary because it is in regular common usage. That doesn't make it any more excusable for those of JonboyE's or AX's standing.

#224
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I assumed that the derivation was something like a boat being towed. That is, it has no freedom to chose its own direction and had to follow the boat that was towing it.
As observed, one learns.
However, I still prefer my derivation to the real one.
As observed, one learns.
However, I still prefer my derivation to the real one.
#225
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Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 6,695
From: Vancouver, BC











I have wondered the same...and i think the same... that the kind of people who emigrate to Canada are generally not the same kind of people that go to Australia. I find that i probably fall into the Australia category of person (that doesnt mean i ever wanted to live there) just the type of person i am.
Personally also i dont hold with people who seem to live their lives through their children and judge their own quality of life on those of the kids. To say we would stay even if we were unhappy because our children are happy is madness!!!
Personally also i dont hold with people who seem to live their lives through their children and judge their own quality of life on those of the kids. To say we would stay even if we were unhappy because our children are happy is madness!!!



