i think the best way is for us to talk, talk and talk it over as a family,


I have been a member of the site long enough to know your name, but never responded to you. I think the above quote is sufficent, why do you ask total strangers who know nothing about you for personal advice like 'shall I move to Canada'?

You know the answer which is above, don't waste time on the computer to us, try talking to your family for the answers.

Good luck and all the best in what ever you decide

Helen

Hi Julius, I don't think you are ever going to get any 'new' advice as people on here have been trying to help you for ages. I strongly advise you however to go and get some professional help to deal with your apparent lack of self-esteem.

Just remember that you are actually giving your folks permission to treat you badly and you need realise your own worth.