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#46
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Also not sure if CIS lends itself to what would be a single PA, it would be an unusual application for this route I think, and they are getting stricter I believe, but nothing ventured nothing gained for the OP
Good luck
#47
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hi
thanks for all ur posts, generally very helpfull.
I have my reasons for taking my mum with me. me and my mum are the only family either of us have, it is both of our dream to live in canada and also the job that i do would require me to work shift pattern and to be honest im not sure i would feel comfortable leaving my daughter with someone overnight while i worked. i
thanks for all ur posts, generally very helpfull.
I have my reasons for taking my mum with me. me and my mum are the only family either of us have, it is both of our dream to live in canada and also the job that i do would require me to work shift pattern and to be honest im not sure i would feel comfortable leaving my daughter with someone overnight while i worked. i
worth looking into?
#48
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But if she has then that would be great so
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#49
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Edit: just double checked, and to be eligible for NS CIS you have to be between the ages of 21 and 55, so that's not an option either unfortunately.
Last edited by christmasoompa; Jan 13th 2010 at 12:50 pm.
#50
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Do you know of a good site about CIS in NS? I've been looking on the internet but so far no good...
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Hmm What about the little ones Father... My childcare for my son for the next few years will be visiting Family and friends etc interspersed with my son flying back to the UK to see his Father for weeks if not a month at a time.
I wont need day to day childcare, just someone around to be there at night time if I am called out, to get him up for school etc. make sure he has some breakfast. All my appointments other than that can fit into school time or during holiday activities etc.
What about Gran taking the little one back to blighty every so often to see Dad etc for a month or so and then Gran has to bring her back again. I am sure child care could be sorted out at other times from a more sustainable source.
Just an idea! I would never let child care stop me from emigrating, as has been said you can not rely on relatives to always be there unfortunately, whatever country you are in.
Sarah x
I wont need day to day childcare, just someone around to be there at night time if I am called out, to get him up for school etc. make sure he has some breakfast. All my appointments other than that can fit into school time or during holiday activities etc.
What about Gran taking the little one back to blighty every so often to see Dad etc for a month or so and then Gran has to bring her back again. I am sure child care could be sorted out at other times from a more sustainable source.
Just an idea! I would never let child care stop me from emigrating, as has been said you can not rely on relatives to always be there unfortunately, whatever country you are in.
Sarah x
thanks i know what u are saying and wish it was as simple as that but not really a viable option. i could not be that far away from my daughter. prob over protective i know, but we been through a lot lately. the father thing is just a none starter. her dad, to cut a long story is not allowed her on his own. i know it seems slighltly mad not emigrating due to childcare but it is a practical long term subject that must be explored for me. we are now looking at the care giver route which i have been told by 2 immigration consultants would be a viable option so fingers crossed! we had been told, also be an immigration consultant that yes the sponsor ship would take several yrs but in that time, mum could stay on temp. six month visa, travel to U.S border every 6 month stay for a bit then come back and the 6 month temp. visa would be reinitiated. i have emailed him with the new info that i have had from here regards this and am currently awaiting a reply from him.
I ma starting to resign my self to life in the UK and as much as i try it is hard to come to terms with. have considered living in EU country but to be honest its nothing something that sits right for me and such a big decision should feel right.
am also waiting to hear from the immigration office of CIC emailed abt a week ago explaing situation and seeing if they could offer light at the end of tunnel.
once again thanks for all ur invaluable advice, and if anyone has any brain waves...let me know! xx
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we had been told, also be an immigration consultant that yes the sponsor ship would take several yrs but in that time, mum could stay on temp. six month visa, travel to U.S border every 6 month stay for a bit then come back and the 6 month temp. visa would be reinitiated.
The brother of a friend of mine was recently refused re-entry back into Canada (to see his fiancƩe), after performing exactly that same proposal you mention a couple of times. Immigration had had enough of it, as they determined he was treating Canada as his primary home, without any immigrant status. He's now stuck in the UK.
#53
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That's the only way she'd be able to go on the live-in caregiver program, so just wanted to check she's definitely eligible before you get your hopes up again. Also don't forget that you'd have to offer pay to your mother (her pay will be checked to make sure it meets provincial labour standards, although I'm assuming they won't check she's actually received that pay?). And also prove that "there are not enough Canadians or permanent residents available to work as live-in caregivers in Canada".
Here's the link to the CIC info about the live-in caregiver program btw - http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/work/caregiver/index.asp
Fingers very tightly crossed for you.
P.S. Don't expect to hear back from CIC, they rarely respond to emails from people who've actually applied for visas, never mind people who are just sending enquiries! I don't believe they give general immigration advice via email, if you do get a response they'll probably just tell you to look at the CIC website which outlines all of the available visas.
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#54
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Hope this helps
http://www.novascotiaimmigration.com...ntified-stream
http://www.novascotiaimmigration.com...Sept._2007.pdf
#55
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here is link to nova scotia immigration website lots o f info there aswell as the wiki here on BE. Also if you do a search for CI stream on here you will get lots of hits on this
Hope this helps
http://www.novascotiaimmigration.com...ntified-stream
http://www.novascotiaimmigration.com...Sept._2007.pdf
Hope this helps
http://www.novascotiaimmigration.com...ntified-stream
http://www.novascotiaimmigration.com...Sept._2007.pdf
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Does your Mum have to go? Can you not organise childcare in Canada? Your Mum could travel over with you, on holiday, for a few mths to help you get settled & then return home & you can start your new life with your child/ren. I don't understand why your plans have to end because your Mum can't emigrate with you?
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I understand why the OP's 1st choice would be to have her Mum with her & minding the kids, I just don't understand why it's the only choice iykwim. Her Mum could go out, stay 6mths & help get the OP & her child/ren settled, help choosing good, relaible childcare & then leave & re-visit frequently. Surely it's an option anyway? If the OP really wants to emigrate then there must be an alternative solution somewhere. Where there's a will there's a way & all that.
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and to e honest if it had meant changeing my plans I would have done so, not because she would have wanted it, but i would never have been happy knowing she was on her own, England and Ireland used to have that community spirit, now its dead mores the pity:
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hi
thanks for all ur posts, generally very helpfull.
I have my reasons for taking my mum with me. me and my mum are the only family either of us have, it is both of our dream to live in canada and also the job that i do would require me to work shift pattern and to be honest im not sure i would feel comfortable leaving my daughter with someone overnight while i worked. i dont do it here so therefore wud not feel different over there. i do not have a partner to have moral support from on such a big move and personally wud find it really hard on my own in a strange country so far from what im used on my own with a three year old. my mum took early retirement after advice from immigration agents and it was her wish to be principal childcare while i worked.
for some, maybe leaving parents behind is ok and im not dissing anyone who does but for me i cud not do it.
i have thought out things alongside my mum and were in agreement, all we want is a new start in canada same as anyone else who emigrates. on my visa i wud be able to take my OH but do not have one, i sometimes think wud u really move without ur other half, see not all off us have that luxury.
To those of u who have provided advice ty so much i may well ask for me if i can sort this dilemma out. am awaiting an email form the canadian embassey as we speak..fingers crossesd xx
thanks for all ur posts, generally very helpfull.
I have my reasons for taking my mum with me. me and my mum are the only family either of us have, it is both of our dream to live in canada and also the job that i do would require me to work shift pattern and to be honest im not sure i would feel comfortable leaving my daughter with someone overnight while i worked. i dont do it here so therefore wud not feel different over there. i do not have a partner to have moral support from on such a big move and personally wud find it really hard on my own in a strange country so far from what im used on my own with a three year old. my mum took early retirement after advice from immigration agents and it was her wish to be principal childcare while i worked.
for some, maybe leaving parents behind is ok and im not dissing anyone who does but for me i cud not do it.
i have thought out things alongside my mum and were in agreement, all we want is a new start in canada same as anyone else who emigrates. on my visa i wud be able to take my OH but do not have one, i sometimes think wud u really move without ur other half, see not all off us have that luxury.
To those of u who have provided advice ty so much i may well ask for me if i can sort this dilemma out. am awaiting an email form the canadian embassey as we speak..fingers crossesd xx