This is a low
Aug 17th 2005 | 8:12 am
#46
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Re: This is a low
Cant imagine how your feeling but we're all here for you both.
Look after one another
Look after one another
Aug 17th 2005 | 8:29 am
#47
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Re: This is a low
very best wishes to both of you
Chris
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Aug 17th 2005 | 9:07 am
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Re: This is a low
Just wanted to send you a hug too.
I know it's no consolation whatsoever, but it's not until you talk to people that you realise how many women go through the same thing.
I had two miscarriages and have gone on to have two beautiful children. I know at the time it's heartbreaking, but I comfort myself with the thought that things obviously weren't right and that decision was taken from me.
God bless at this sad time.
Lots of love,
Jules x
I know it's no consolation whatsoever, but it's not until you talk to people that you realise how many women go through the same thing.
I had two miscarriages and have gone on to have two beautiful children. I know at the time it's heartbreaking, but I comfort myself with the thought that things obviously weren't right and that decision was taken from me.
God bless at this sad time.
Lots of love,
Jules x
Aug 17th 2005 | 9:17 am
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Re: This is a low
I just wish that I could say something to take the pain away, but I can't 
. I can only tell you how very, very sorry I am and hope that you can find the strength in you to get through the coming days and weeks. I know that it doesn't seem like it at the moment but you can survive this.
Take care of each other.
Sending you a ((((((((hug)))))))
Tracey
. I can only tell you how very, very sorry I am and hope that you can find the strength in you to get through the coming days and weeks. I know that it doesn't seem like it at the moment but you can survive this.Take care of each other.
Sending you a ((((((((hug)))))))
Tracey
Aug 17th 2005 | 10:01 am
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Re: This is a low
Originally Posted by JulesandChris
After the jubilation of discovering we were going to have a baby comes the lowest point I think we've ever reached.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
x
Aug 17th 2005 | 10:32 am
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Re: This is a low
Originally Posted by JulesandChris
After the jubilation of discovering we were going to have a baby comes the lowest point I think we've ever reached.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
I haven't been here for ages but just saw this. I'm so so sorry. How bloody awful. Thinking of you and Jules.
Jem
Aug 17th 2005 | 10:37 am
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Re: This is a low
Im so sorry for you both. Its awful news. Take care.
Aug 17th 2005 | 10:53 am
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Re: This is a low
Aw shit Chris !
You are one of the forum members who really does try to help others solve their problems. For once u need some help and none of us can do anything to help. I just read all of the kind words posted on the thread and hope it softens the blow a wee bit.
It’s a really shit time for u both and I hope u find the courage to lift yourselves. I know its hard when u don’t have family around mate, but listen to the thoughts of others who have posted on here and grasp them with both hands. These people really do empathise and care for you both. I wish I had a huge speech that would make you feel better, but sorry I don’t. I just send my love and sympathy and hope u get dealt a better hand in the future.
Robert and Pauline
You are one of the forum members who really does try to help others solve their problems. For once u need some help and none of us can do anything to help. I just read all of the kind words posted on the thread and hope it softens the blow a wee bit.
It’s a really shit time for u both and I hope u find the courage to lift yourselves. I know its hard when u don’t have family around mate, but listen to the thoughts of others who have posted on here and grasp them with both hands. These people really do empathise and care for you both. I wish I had a huge speech that would make you feel better, but sorry I don’t. I just send my love and sympathy and hope u get dealt a better hand in the future.
Robert and Pauline
Aug 17th 2005 | 2:15 pm
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Re: This is a low
A big thank you to everyone for so many kind words and thoughts.
I am overwhelmed by your responses and indebted to you all for the strength you have given to us.
I don't know what I was expecting when i posted, but I could never have expected so many replies. I can never hope to respond to you all individually but thank you all so very much.
Take good care of yourselves.
I am overwhelmed by your responses and indebted to you all for the strength you have given to us.
I don't know what I was expecting when i posted, but I could never have expected so many replies. I can never hope to respond to you all individually but thank you all so very much.
Take good care of yourselves.
