This is a low
Aug 16th 2005 | 6:30 pm
#16
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Re: This is a low
You poor things. I'm so very, very sorry to hear your awful news.xxxxxxxxxx
Aug 16th 2005 | 6:35 pm
#17
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Re: This is a low
That's terrible news, thinking of you both. xxxx
Aug 16th 2005 | 6:46 pm
#18
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Re: This is a low
Sorry to hear your sad news, all you can do is look after each other at this point, as someone else so rightly pointed out.
Aug 16th 2005 | 6:58 pm
#19
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Really sorry to hear your news. My thoughts and best wishes are with you.
Aug 16th 2005 | 7:13 pm
#20
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How awful! It won't feel like it at the moment but the light of the dawn always comes after the darkness of the night,
In my thoughts and prayers, Nicola
In my thoughts and prayers, Nicola
Aug 16th 2005 | 7:20 pm
#21
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Re: This is a low
Originally Posted by JulesandChris
After the jubilation of discovering we were going to have a baby comes the lowest point I think we've ever reached.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
I'm very very sorry. Have been in a situation like that. Very hard. I just think it wasn't meant to be and perhaps something was wrong with the baby. All my best with coming to terms with it. It's a hard one.
Aug 16th 2005 | 7:27 pm
#22
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From: Dundee (Scotland) now Bayside Brisbane
Re: This is a low
Originally Posted by JulesandChris
After the jubilation of discovering we were going to have a baby comes the lowest point I think we've ever reached.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
Ginny x
Aug 16th 2005 | 7:27 pm
#23
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Re: This is a low
So sorry. But these things often happen for a very good reason; you'll probably never know, but it's worth bearing in mind.
Aug 16th 2005 | 7:51 pm
#24
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Re: This is a low
Originally Posted by JulesandChris
After the jubilation of discovering we were going to have a baby comes the lowest point I think we've ever reached.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
Yesterday the doctors told us what we didn't want to hear. The heart beat went from slow to nonexistent somewhere in the last 7 days.
This is when we feel so far away from our families.
There is nothing anyone can say or do. We have to come to terms with it ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words over the last 4 weeks.
I'm really sorry to read your sad news. If its any consolation - I have been through something similar twice previously and had no family support, but I found the strenth to deal with it and you will too.
It will be a really tough time - but you have each other for support so look after each other and you will be ok.
Wishing you all the best
Shell
x
Aug 16th 2005 | 7:59 pm
#25
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Re: This is a low
Oooh what can I say. I really feel for you both at this very sad time. Keep talking to each other, cry with each other, draw strength from each other. You will go through times when one of you is feeling lower than the other, support each other. It is no-ones fault so don't even think of wondering if you could have done something or not have done something. Take any offers of help that you get from friends.
There are so many people out here who are wishing you so much love and sympathy.
Much love
Anne x
There are so many people out here who are wishing you so much love and sympathy.
Much love
Anne x
Aug 16th 2005 | 8:02 pm
#26
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From: Gilston, GOLD COAST.
Re: This is a low
So sorry to hear your sad news. Be strong and work through it together. Remember you are never alone while B.E. is up & running we are all here at all times of the day/night if you need to talk, cry, shout etc.
Thinking of you.
Karen x
Thinking of you.
Karen x
Aug 16th 2005 | 8:06 pm
#27
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Re: This is a low
So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you both.
Aug 16th 2005 | 8:15 pm
#28
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Thinking of you both and pray that you have the strength to get through whatever the future holds.
Aug 16th 2005 | 8:17 pm
#29
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So sorry to hear yours news, all our best wishes and thoughts are with you. Remember to talk to each other in this hard time. Big hugs to you both.
Nicky
Nicky
Aug 16th 2005 | 8:27 pm
#30
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Re: This is a low
So sorry guys The most important thing is that you have each other. It doesn't help now that it happened for a reason but it will later. Things will get brighter. All the best.
The most important thing is that you have each other. It doesn't help now that it happened for a reason but it will later. Things will get brighter. All the best.
