I love Oz, partner hates it, is there a way forward?
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Nah - you've both got the wrong end of the stick. I've been slagged off in there on many an occasion (rightfully so on several
) because I'm not 'Moving back' and therefore what am I doing in a 'Moving back' forum arguing the toss with folks that are 'Moving back'. You guys don't fit into that category either (one of you at least ...
), as you have now 'Moved back ...' You're no longer an expat etc etc.
And yes, it does help to be sad and miserable if you want to come on here, because you'll probably end that way by the time you log-out anyway.![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
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And yes, it does help to be sad and miserable if you want to come on here, because you'll probably end that way by the time you log-out anyway.
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It just strikes me as strange that so many people spend so much time on here (Oz forum) telling everyone about their fab lives in Oz, how wonderful and perfect it all is etc. etc. and yet if someone dares come on here and say they have a fab life in the UK, they are questioned about why they are on here
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They must be telling lies and just pretending they are happy
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I find it very confusing that people who are happy in Oz, just cant understand that people can and do have great lives in the UK. I can perfectly understand that some people would love living in Oz, some like France, some like Spain etc etc., It's all about personal choice, what you like doing, where you feel happy and comfortable.
Why does it matter so much to others that some of us love the UK and want to be here? I've seen it all on this forum, the name calling, the slatings and hassle that people get just because they don't like living in Oz. I can't understand why people can't just accept that not everyone likes the same things in life.
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It just strikes me as strange that so many people spend so much time on here (Oz forum) telling everyone about their fab lives in Oz, how wonderful and perfect it all is etc. etc. and yet if someone dares come on here and say they have a fab life in the UK, they are questioned about why they are on here![Confused](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/confused.gif)
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Or maybe 'they' don't exist, except in the minds of folks who seem to spend valuable time coming up with derogatory ways of describing 'us' saddos in here - 'godzoners', 'dingos', 'oz cult' ... think I've heard 'em all now.
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Why does it matter so much to others that some of us love the UK and want to be here? I've seen it all on this forum, the name calling, the slatings and hassle that people get just because they don't like living in Oz. I can't understand why people can't just accept that not everyone likes the same things in life.
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