I love Oz, partner hates it, is there a way forward?
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(....if a woman is unhappy she will whinge and bitch all the time until the guy caves in more often than not. While the bloke will often bottle it up - in which case it either eats away at him (or the relationship) or he will do something drastic like walk away.)
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Because of this little gem perhaps?
(....if a woman is unhappy she will whinge and bitch all the time until the guy caves in more often than not. While the bloke will often bottle it up - in which case it either eats away at him (or the relationship) or he will do something drastic like walk away.)
(....if a woman is unhappy she will whinge and bitch all the time until the guy caves in more often than not. While the bloke will often bottle it up - in which case it either eats away at him (or the relationship) or he will do something drastic like walk away.)
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Because I have been down that road and I didn't whinge or bitch, I kept it pretty much to myself and gave in to what others wanted, others needs, always have done. I think your generalisation was way off that's all.
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I think your right, maybe I will stay out of there for a while and let people commiserate amongst themselves. Afterall, all they seem to do is talk about 3 things.
1) I am unhappy in [insert country here] and want to go home
2) I have decided to go home, what is the UK like now
3) I'm home from [insert country here] and life is great in the UK
1) I am unhappy in [insert country here] and want to go home
2) I have decided to go home, what is the UK like now
3) I'm home from [insert country here] and life is great in the UK
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You complain that people on the Moving Back to the UK Forum writing about wanting to go home
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You moan about people on the Moving Back to the UK Forum asking questions about what it's like in the UK
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You whinge about people on the Moving Back to the UK Forum giving their opinions of what life in the UK is like. And then you have the cheek to call us liars because we dare to have a nice life here and because we like it
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And just as a matter of interest, why do you spend so much time in there?
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I agree Carol, thats all they are supposed to help - your biological symptoms of depression ie tearfulness, poor sleep, anxiety etc. Many women find that once these symptoms are better managed then they have more strength and resilience within themselves to explore the causes of their depression.
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I agree Carol, thats all they are supposed to help - your biological symptoms of depression ie tearfulness, poor sleep, anxiety etc. Many women find that once these symptoms are better managed then they have more strength and resilience within themselves to explore the causes of their depression.
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Sensing a bit of history there - lol. But, as a matter of interest Louise - let me put the question to you - since you've now made the move back to the UK and are, by all accounts, having trouble wiping the smile of joy off your face - why do you spend so much time in there? Yes, I know all the stuff about keeping in touch with people and supporting others etc etc .. but if life's one non-stop conga-line of ecstacy back in blighty ...
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Sensing a bit of history there - lol. But, as a matter of interest Louise - let me put the question to you - since you've now made the move back to the UK and are, by all accounts, having trouble wiping the smile of joy off your face - why do you spend so much time in there? Yes, I know all the stuff about keeping in touch with people and supporting others etc etc .. but if life's one non-stop conga-line of ecstacy back in blighty ...![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
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Sensing a bit of history there - lol. But, as a matter of interest Louise - let me put the question to you - since you've now made the move back to the UK and are, by all accounts, having trouble wiping the smile of joy off your face - why do you spend so much time in there? Yes, I know all the stuff about keeping in touch with people and supporting others etc etc .. but if life's one non-stop conga-line of ecstacy back in blighty ...
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I couldn't agree more. Sure, if a woman is unhappy she will whinge and bitch all the time until the guy caves in more often than not. While the bloke will often bottle it up - in which case it either eats away at him (or the relationship) or he will do something drastic like walk away.
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I've whinged at my OH for the past 15 years.
He's still here though
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Sorry, but .... ![ROFL](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/rofl.gif)
Sensing a bit of history there - lol. But, as a matter of interest Louise - let me put the question to you - since you've now made the move back to the UK and are, by all accounts, having trouble wiping the smile of joy off your face - why do you spend so much time in there? Yes, I know all the stuff about keeping in touch with people and supporting others etc etc .. but if life's one non-stop conga-line of ecstacy back in blighty ...![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
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In the MB2 forum? Fair point. Ask around though and you'll find that I'm very much a reformed character on that front...
Besides - how do you know I'm not in denial, secretly hate it here and am planning my own escape ... hmmm .... ?
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As for secret denial, yes I sussed you out ages ago
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