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#46
Originally posted by SteveBannister
It's funny how many people drop out of the argument when you challenge them!
It's funny how many people drop out of the argument when you challenge them!
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Nyxlas having read the posts on the link I could not agree with you more - SteveBannister has every right to be an Atheist - but he need not insult others' beliefs in such an unpleasant manner.
#48
Originally posted by nxylas
Having read your initial contribution to the debate, I assume "challenge" is your particular euphemism for "insult".
Having read your initial contribution to the debate, I assume "challenge" is your particular euphemism for "insult".
Having read your reply to mine, I assume "read" is your particular euphemism for "gloss over and pick out the bits I want to talk about". - A bit like the bible, really!
Try reading it all, then comment. Else, don't comment at all!
#50
Originally posted by JeanDupont
Let us not rise to the bait in the above post folks
Let us not rise to the bait in the above post folks
It's very easy to rubbish someone's argument when you have nothing structual to say, but it's not very intelligent, is it.
Let people discuss what they want to and stop acting like some kind of moderator.
#51
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Originally posted by rincewind
This post is for the secular people among us. If you hold deep religious beliefs then please do not read this thread so you can avoid being offended.
Basically, I want to know how Expats feel about the whole religion thing out here.
I live in the south Bush voting bible belt, and it amazes me how people think here. Only recently, "Evolution" was once again targeted to be removed from text books in Georgia. Thankfully, it didn't happen.
When we first moved into our home, we met our neighbours and they spent the whole time trying to get us to go to their church. We haven't been round since.
My wife's ex is just as bad. When her girls get sick, he spends his time on the phone telling them that the devil is making them sick. He believes that if a child gets sick and dies, that’s god’s will. Be bitches everytime my wife takes them to the doctors telling them that the medicine they are taking is poison. He even told them once that I am demon possessed, which is why I stole mommy from him.
My cousin (by marriage) is a cool guy. Your typical Nascar fanatic and he used to be a preacher. Religion was never a part of our discussions until recently. He wanted to debate religion and I agreed but only if we did it online and kept our face-to-face friendship as it has been. It's been a fun discussion and has not yet become an argument. He respects my views.
But my main concern is my career. I am still waiting for my EAD but I'm worried about my atheist views being a problem for job interviews. Has anyone else experienced this yet?
I would go as far as to list my political issues where religion is a factor but I fear this post could grow too long.
Am I the only one that feels like I am surrounded by religious fanatics?
This post is for the secular people among us. If you hold deep religious beliefs then please do not read this thread so you can avoid being offended.
Basically, I want to know how Expats feel about the whole religion thing out here.
I live in the south Bush voting bible belt, and it amazes me how people think here. Only recently, "Evolution" was once again targeted to be removed from text books in Georgia. Thankfully, it didn't happen.
When we first moved into our home, we met our neighbours and they spent the whole time trying to get us to go to their church. We haven't been round since.
My wife's ex is just as bad. When her girls get sick, he spends his time on the phone telling them that the devil is making them sick. He believes that if a child gets sick and dies, that’s god’s will. Be bitches everytime my wife takes them to the doctors telling them that the medicine they are taking is poison. He even told them once that I am demon possessed, which is why I stole mommy from him.
My cousin (by marriage) is a cool guy. Your typical Nascar fanatic and he used to be a preacher. Religion was never a part of our discussions until recently. He wanted to debate religion and I agreed but only if we did it online and kept our face-to-face friendship as it has been. It's been a fun discussion and has not yet become an argument. He respects my views.
But my main concern is my career. I am still waiting for my EAD but I'm worried about my atheist views being a problem for job interviews. Has anyone else experienced this yet?
I would go as far as to list my political issues where religion is a factor but I fear this post could grow too long.
Am I the only one that feels like I am surrounded by religious fanatics?
For the baptists, (and others) it is all about appearance...how much i have been "blessed" with material goods and money because i am a 'good christian'. Bullshit...being a christian (so i am told) means a life of humble service to others.
Religiotainment here in the south is about appearances, being 'conservative' and a bush supporter. I hate those three things.
These ignorant people are like sheep, being fed biblical lies by some con artist preacher who lives it up with 5 houses and a ton of cars and money, all because these 'followers' tithe 10% of their income to the church, but wouldn't spit on the real poor of the nation. The hypocrasy is astounding.
I have become very 'anti-christian', i am agnostic by choice but these people have done such a good job of showing me what they are really like i don't want to have anything to do with them ot their religiotainment. The church here is like an emotional crutch, afterall there is nothing else to do in most small towns so why not go to church and be told what to do.
Most christians do not know any real scholarly theology...the bible was written and complied over thousands of years, and is really an instrument of Roman control. Why else was the catholic church centred at the heart of the roman empire....so the pope could make a religious decree and the masses would do as they are told....Marx was right: Religion is the opium of the masses.
Don't get me wrong, i love the USA and all the opportunities i have here. I am grateful to be here, but feel VERY strongly on the religion issue.
I was insensed when my 3 year old son came home from a supposedly 'secular' daycare and started singing about jesus, and said god bless you when i sneezed. The amount of brain washing and proselatysing (sp) that goes on starts at an early age...it is enough for me not to go and explode at the daycare workers for their insensitive and downright arrogant forcing down the throat of my son their fairy stories, what next: the world is flat, and is carried on the back of a turtle???
#52
Originally posted by Muswell Hill
I think this is one of the most important discussions ever to be had on the message board. I had no idea America was so religious before i moved here, i had heard the south was, and i still moved here; So as i could be with my new wife. I have so much i want to say on this i don't know where to begin; it seems to me as though religion here is more "religiotainment" more than anything else. The baptists, who i personally despise as a faith have bastardised christianity into a "consumption is good, do as you are told" way of life. How many times have i seen the parking lots of their mega-churches brimming with $60,000 SUV's and Mercedes Benz's???...loads, i'll tell you.
For the baptists, (and others) it is all about appearance...how much i have been "blessed" with material goods and money because i am a 'good christian'. Bullshit...being a christian (so i am told) means a life of humble service to others.
Religiotainment here in the south is about appearances, being 'conservative' and a bush supporter. I hate those three things.
These ignorant people are like sheep, being fed biblical lies by some con artist preacher who lives it up with 5 houses and a ton of cars and money, all because these 'followers' tithe 10% of their income to the church, but wouldn't spit on the real poor of the nation. The hypocrasy is astounding.
I have become very 'anti-christian', i am agnostic by choice but these people have done such a good job of showing me what they are really like i don't want to have anything to do with them ot their religiotainment. The church here is like an emotional crutch, afterall there is nothing else to do in most small towns so why not go to church and be told what to do.
Most christians do not know any real scholarly theology...the bible was written and complied over thousands of years, and is really an instrument of Roman control. Why else was the catholic church centred at the heart of the roman empire....so the pope could make a religious decree and the masses would do as they are told....Marx was right: Religion is the opium of the masses.
Don't get me wrong, i love the USA and all the opportunities i have here. I am grateful to be here, but feel VERY strongly on the religion issue.
I was insensed when my 3 year old son came home from a supposedly 'secular' daycare and started singing about jesus, and said god bless you when i sneezed. The amount of brain washing and proselatysing (sp) that goes on starts at an early age...it is enough for me not to go and explode at the daycare workers for their insensitive and downright arrogant forcing down the throat of my son their fairy stories, what next: the world is flat, and is carried on the back of a turtle???
I think this is one of the most important discussions ever to be had on the message board. I had no idea America was so religious before i moved here, i had heard the south was, and i still moved here; So as i could be with my new wife. I have so much i want to say on this i don't know where to begin; it seems to me as though religion here is more "religiotainment" more than anything else. The baptists, who i personally despise as a faith have bastardised christianity into a "consumption is good, do as you are told" way of life. How many times have i seen the parking lots of their mega-churches brimming with $60,000 SUV's and Mercedes Benz's???...loads, i'll tell you.
For the baptists, (and others) it is all about appearance...how much i have been "blessed" with material goods and money because i am a 'good christian'. Bullshit...being a christian (so i am told) means a life of humble service to others.
Religiotainment here in the south is about appearances, being 'conservative' and a bush supporter. I hate those three things.
These ignorant people are like sheep, being fed biblical lies by some con artist preacher who lives it up with 5 houses and a ton of cars and money, all because these 'followers' tithe 10% of their income to the church, but wouldn't spit on the real poor of the nation. The hypocrasy is astounding.
I have become very 'anti-christian', i am agnostic by choice but these people have done such a good job of showing me what they are really like i don't want to have anything to do with them ot their religiotainment. The church here is like an emotional crutch, afterall there is nothing else to do in most small towns so why not go to church and be told what to do.
Most christians do not know any real scholarly theology...the bible was written and complied over thousands of years, and is really an instrument of Roman control. Why else was the catholic church centred at the heart of the roman empire....so the pope could make a religious decree and the masses would do as they are told....Marx was right: Religion is the opium of the masses.
Don't get me wrong, i love the USA and all the opportunities i have here. I am grateful to be here, but feel VERY strongly on the religion issue.
I was insensed when my 3 year old son came home from a supposedly 'secular' daycare and started singing about jesus, and said god bless you when i sneezed. The amount of brain washing and proselatysing (sp) that goes on starts at an early age...it is enough for me not to go and explode at the daycare workers for their insensitive and downright arrogant forcing down the throat of my son their fairy stories, what next: the world is flat, and is carried on the back of a turtle???
Steve.
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Muswell Hill
How many times have i seen the parking lots of their mega-churches brimming with $60,000 SUV's and Mercedes Benz's???...loads, i'll tell you.
You want to see opulence? go to the Rome - The Vatican, although it's a beautiful place to see, I was quite taken aback by how disgusted I felt at the sheer wealth lavished on something that essential has no earthly presence. It did actually quite sicken me, something I didn't expect to feel.
I am not as well up on all the ancient history as Mr Bannister is, so couldn't defend a corner in a religious debate as to why I just don't 'believe'
Me I just don't get how so much money can be lavished on pastime which is essentially brainwashing.
Gosh, think I've just fell off the fence on this one.
I do hope this thread carries on to be a lengthy debate. I might not be able to contribute anything worthwhile, but it's bloody interesting reading.
Jill
From the Church of the Tender Rabbit
How many times have i seen the parking lots of their mega-churches brimming with $60,000 SUV's and Mercedes Benz's???...loads, i'll tell you.
You want to see opulence? go to the Rome - The Vatican, although it's a beautiful place to see, I was quite taken aback by how disgusted I felt at the sheer wealth lavished on something that essential has no earthly presence. It did actually quite sicken me, something I didn't expect to feel.
I am not as well up on all the ancient history as Mr Bannister is, so couldn't defend a corner in a religious debate as to why I just don't 'believe'
Me I just don't get how so much money can be lavished on pastime which is essentially brainwashing.
Gosh, think I've just fell off the fence on this one.
I do hope this thread carries on to be a lengthy debate. I might not be able to contribute anything worthwhile, but it's bloody interesting reading.
Jill
From the Church of the Tender Rabbit
#54
[i]Originally posted by Go Banana's !!
You want to see opulence? go to the Rome - The Vatican, although it's a beautiful place to see, I was quite taken aback by how disgusted I felt at the sheer wealth lavished on something that essential has no earthly presence. It did actually quite sicken me, something I didn't expect to feel.
I am not as well up on all the ancient history as Mr Bannister is, so couldn't defend a corner in a religious debate as to why I just don't 'believe'
Me I just don't get how so much money can be lavished on pastime which is essentially brainwashing.
Gosh, think I've just fell off the fence on this one.
I do hope this thread carries on to be a lengthy debate. I might not be able to contribute anything worthwhile, but it's bloody interesting reading.
Jill
From the Church of the Tender Rabbit
You want to see opulence? go to the Rome - The Vatican, although it's a beautiful place to see, I was quite taken aback by how disgusted I felt at the sheer wealth lavished on something that essential has no earthly presence. It did actually quite sicken me, something I didn't expect to feel.
I am not as well up on all the ancient history as Mr Bannister is, so couldn't defend a corner in a religious debate as to why I just don't 'believe'
Me I just don't get how so much money can be lavished on pastime which is essentially brainwashing.
Gosh, think I've just fell off the fence on this one.
I do hope this thread carries on to be a lengthy debate. I might not be able to contribute anything worthwhile, but it's bloody interesting reading.
Jill
From the Church of the Tender Rabbit
Is this an opinion I see before me? Well done Jill, I knew you had it in you!
Steve.
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Originally posted by SteveBannister
Is this an opinion I see before me? Well done Jill, I knew you had it in you!
Steve.
Is this an opinion I see before me? Well done Jill, I knew you had it in you!
Steve.
I agree about the catholic church and its opulence. It disgusts me that an organisation so wealthy does not do more to relive global poverty and infact encourages it with the medievil rules on contraception and abortion...i know, if you are dirt poor and have no access to a Dr, have more kids!!! That way you are bound to starve and the mother die during labour.
I used to be catholic, but was 110% turned against it when the priest told me i was sinning as i was going to marry a divorced woman. What the **** does a celebate man know about marriage??? Rather like asking a blind man for his opinion on a Monet painting. The christian rhetoric spouted on abortion, divorce, contraception, homosexuality, sex before marriage etc etc makes me want to vomit.
Do these fundamentalists and the various demoninations really think jesus or god gives a **** on whether i had sex before i got married, the fact my wife (through no fault of hers-she was cheated on by her ex) was divorced and now we are a loving family or i have many friends who are gay?? No, God would say go and play with your toys......if he/she existed as the christians believe in an omnipotent human like person.
I am amazed actually churches are still around, with todays enlightenment of science and art they are an anachronism of our past. They teach intolerance, conformity, survitude, ignorance and total obiedience to doctrinal teaching. That goes against 21st century open thinking, tolerance of others, the desire to understand science and a moral code based upon 5000 years of human history.
What makes me laugh most of all are the different bible editions...king james, baptist, catholic...i thought there was just one 'true word of god'? Picking and choosing what to include and leave out. Also they were written in arameic and greek and subtleties of translation and meaning have been lost, and why are the 'gnostic' gospels left out? Why...the vatican said so...it would 'contradict what has been included for years'....again, more hypocrasy and population control.
#56
Originally posted by Muswell Hill
The baptists, who i personally despise as a faith have bastardised christianity into a "consumption is good, do as you are told" way of life.
The baptists, who i personally despise as a faith have bastardised christianity into a "consumption is good, do as you are told" way of life.
As for the Catholic Church, whilst the Vatican may be lavish, there is a tradition of voluntary simplicity (eg. the Franciscans) which partially offsets it, and which I suspect would be considered positively subversive here. Wasn't it Oscar Romero who said something like "When I feed the poor, they call me a saint. When I ask why the poor are poor, they call me a communist"?
Last edited by nxylas; Mar 1st 2004 at 7:25 am.
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In Britain the centre of social life in most of our communities is the local pub.
In America they don't have pubs (well, maybe some grotty dives with bars that pass for a pub) and in our town the last alcohol licence - limited to just five licences - changed hands for $500,000.
The effect is that since they don't have pubs like we have in Britain (and Europe, Australia etc.) the social life of most communities is centred around the churches and synagogues...the forthcoming church/temple events take up pages in our local once-per-week newspaper.
In America they don't have pubs (well, maybe some grotty dives with bars that pass for a pub) and in our town the last alcohol licence - limited to just five licences - changed hands for $500,000.
The effect is that since they don't have pubs like we have in Britain (and Europe, Australia etc.) the social life of most communities is centred around the churches and synagogues...the forthcoming church/temple events take up pages in our local once-per-week newspaper.
#58
Originally posted by Muswell Hill
I think this is one of the most important discussions ever to be had on the message board. I had no idea America was so religious before i moved here, i had heard the south was, and i still moved here; So as i could be with my new wife. I have so much i want to say on this i don't know where to begin; it seems to me as though religion here is more "religiotainment" more than anything else. The baptists, who i personally despise as a faith have bastardised christianity into a "consumption is good, do as you are told" way of life. How many times have i seen the parking lots of their mega-churches brimming with $60,000 SUV's and Mercedes Benz's???...loads, i'll tell you.
For the baptists, (and others) it is all about appearance...how much i have been "blessed" with material goods and money because i am a 'good christian'. Bullshit...being a christian (so i am told) means a life of humble service to others.
Religiotainment here in the south is about appearances, being 'conservative' and a bush supporter. I hate those three things.
These ignorant people are like sheep, being fed biblical lies by some con artist preacher who lives it up with 5 houses and a ton of cars and money, all because these 'followers' tithe 10% of their income to the church, but wouldn't spit on the real poor of the nation. The hypocrasy is astounding.
I have become very 'anti-christian', i am agnostic by choice but these people have done such a good job of showing me what they are really like i don't want to have anything to do with them ot their religiotainment. The church here is like an emotional crutch, afterall there is nothing else to do in most small towns so why not go to church and be told what to do.
Most christians do not know any real scholarly theology...the bible was written and complied over thousands of years, and is really an instrument of Roman control. Why else was the catholic church centred at the heart of the roman empire....so the pope could make a religious decree and the masses would do as they are told....Marx was right: Religion is the opium of the masses.
Don't get me wrong, i love the USA and all the opportunities i have here. I am grateful to be here, but feel VERY strongly on the religion issue.
I was insensed when my 3 year old son came home from a supposedly 'secular' daycare and started singing about jesus, and said god bless you when i sneezed. The amount of brain washing and proselatysing (sp) that goes on starts at an early age...it is enough for me not to go and explode at the daycare workers for their insensitive and downright arrogant forcing down the throat of my son their fairy stories, what next: the world is flat, and is carried on the back of a turtle???
I think this is one of the most important discussions ever to be had on the message board. I had no idea America was so religious before i moved here, i had heard the south was, and i still moved here; So as i could be with my new wife. I have so much i want to say on this i don't know where to begin; it seems to me as though religion here is more "religiotainment" more than anything else. The baptists, who i personally despise as a faith have bastardised christianity into a "consumption is good, do as you are told" way of life. How many times have i seen the parking lots of their mega-churches brimming with $60,000 SUV's and Mercedes Benz's???...loads, i'll tell you.
For the baptists, (and others) it is all about appearance...how much i have been "blessed" with material goods and money because i am a 'good christian'. Bullshit...being a christian (so i am told) means a life of humble service to others.
Religiotainment here in the south is about appearances, being 'conservative' and a bush supporter. I hate those three things.
These ignorant people are like sheep, being fed biblical lies by some con artist preacher who lives it up with 5 houses and a ton of cars and money, all because these 'followers' tithe 10% of their income to the church, but wouldn't spit on the real poor of the nation. The hypocrasy is astounding.
I have become very 'anti-christian', i am agnostic by choice but these people have done such a good job of showing me what they are really like i don't want to have anything to do with them ot their religiotainment. The church here is like an emotional crutch, afterall there is nothing else to do in most small towns so why not go to church and be told what to do.
Most christians do not know any real scholarly theology...the bible was written and complied over thousands of years, and is really an instrument of Roman control. Why else was the catholic church centred at the heart of the roman empire....so the pope could make a religious decree and the masses would do as they are told....Marx was right: Religion is the opium of the masses.
Don't get me wrong, i love the USA and all the opportunities i have here. I am grateful to be here, but feel VERY strongly on the religion issue.
I was insensed when my 3 year old son came home from a supposedly 'secular' daycare and started singing about jesus, and said god bless you when i sneezed. The amount of brain washing and proselatysing (sp) that goes on starts at an early age...it is enough for me not to go and explode at the daycare workers for their insensitive and downright arrogant forcing down the throat of my son their fairy stories, what next: the world is flat, and is carried on the back of a turtle???
It's great to know that I am not the only one that thinks religion is insane over here.
Religion is a big factor on voting for Southerners too which means George Bush could get in again for another term. But then, he didn't win the last election but is still in the White House
Bush quote: "God told me to strike at al Qaida and I struck them"
Those that speak to a god are religious, those that hear him are schizophrenic.
#59
Here's a little online test you all might find amusing. It proposes to determine what faith (or non faith) a person is and most, including secular humanism is included. I think it told me I should be a Unitarian, then a Buddhist, then a secular humanist... or something... it's been awhile since I took it. Here it is:
Belief-O-Matic
The funny thing is, is that when my husband took it, its aid he oughta be a reform Jew or something...
Lemme know what you think!
Belief-O-Matic
The funny thing is, is that when my husband took it, its aid he oughta be a reform Jew or something...
Lemme know what you think!
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Thanks for posting the link to the test.
Apparently I should be a Jain or a Sikh or a liberal Quaker.
I realise that this topic has been mis-titled - the word "secular" definition being:
"secular -- concerning those not members of the clergy;"
Now there are probably not many members of this forum who are members of the clergy - I believe the heading should have read something like
"Anti-Religionists" Only
so I was upset when other members started attacking religion generally - and then justified their post by arguing that anyone with religious views should not have been on here reading it anyway.
That ain't what "secular" means.
If the topic title had been different I would have stayed away from this one as, although I am not a very religious person I do have some beliefs.
Apparently I should be a Jain or a Sikh or a liberal Quaker.
I realise that this topic has been mis-titled - the word "secular" definition being:
"secular -- concerning those not members of the clergy;"
Now there are probably not many members of this forum who are members of the clergy - I believe the heading should have read something like
"Anti-Religionists" Only
so I was upset when other members started attacking religion generally - and then justified their post by arguing that anyone with religious views should not have been on here reading it anyway.
That ain't what "secular" means.
If the topic title had been different I would have stayed away from this one as, although I am not a very religious person I do have some beliefs.



