Realistic or pessimistic
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Realistic or pessimistic
Hi,
I live in the UK and have been dating my US boyfriend for 18mths. He lives in Manhattan. I work as an environmental consultant here in the UK. We want to live together in Manhattan however, the more research I do the less likely it looks as though it will happen without our marrying first. Everything I have read says that recruiters are unlikely to take you seriously unless you are already living in the city and is it right that there are visa caps?
My partner thinks I am being 'glass half empty' but as I see it, the job market is tough anyway, and it will be even more difficult trying to find a company to sponsor me whilst I am still in the UK.
I'm not really sure what to do and whilst I know no one can tell me what direction to go in, I wondered if anyone could give me the benefit of their experience. I am doing well at my job in the UK, working hard and progressing, well thought of but I'm not sure how well this would transfer to the US job market and I am nervous about quitting my job here and moving over without any savings. Does anyone know what skills the US is seeking?
Any advice or opinions would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
I live in the UK and have been dating my US boyfriend for 18mths. He lives in Manhattan. I work as an environmental consultant here in the UK. We want to live together in Manhattan however, the more research I do the less likely it looks as though it will happen without our marrying first. Everything I have read says that recruiters are unlikely to take you seriously unless you are already living in the city and is it right that there are visa caps?
My partner thinks I am being 'glass half empty' but as I see it, the job market is tough anyway, and it will be even more difficult trying to find a company to sponsor me whilst I am still in the UK.
I'm not really sure what to do and whilst I know no one can tell me what direction to go in, I wondered if anyone could give me the benefit of their experience. I am doing well at my job in the UK, working hard and progressing, well thought of but I'm not sure how well this would transfer to the US job market and I am nervous about quitting my job here and moving over without any savings. Does anyone know what skills the US is seeking?
Any advice or opinions would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
#2
Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Welcome to BE!
And you're right, it is tough here, without the right to work, or US experience.
So get married would be your best bet...really depends what actually you do for work and who would sponsor you, but without US experience, it sounds like slim pickings.
And you're right, it is tough here, without the right to work, or US experience.
So get married would be your best bet...really depends what actually you do for work and who would sponsor you, but without US experience, it sounds like slim pickings.
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Hi,
I live in the UK and have been dating my US boyfriend for 18mths. He lives in Manhattan. I work as an environmental consultant here in the UK. We want to live together in Manhattan however, the more research I do the less likely it looks as though it will happen without our marrying first. Everything I have read says that recruiters are unlikely to take you seriously unless you are already living in the city and is it right that there are visa caps?
My partner thinks I am being 'glass half empty' but as I see it, the job market is tough anyway, and it will be even more difficult trying to find a company to sponsor me whilst I am still in the UK.
I'm not really sure what to do and whilst I know no one can tell me what direction to go in, I wondered if anyone could give me the benefit of their experience. I am doing well at my job in the UK, working hard and progressing, well thought of but I'm not sure how well this would transfer to the US job market and I am nervous about quitting my job here and moving over without any savings. Does anyone know what skills the US is seeking?
Any advice or opinions would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
I live in the UK and have been dating my US boyfriend for 18mths. He lives in Manhattan. I work as an environmental consultant here in the UK. We want to live together in Manhattan however, the more research I do the less likely it looks as though it will happen without our marrying first. Everything I have read says that recruiters are unlikely to take you seriously unless you are already living in the city and is it right that there are visa caps?
My partner thinks I am being 'glass half empty' but as I see it, the job market is tough anyway, and it will be even more difficult trying to find a company to sponsor me whilst I am still in the UK.
I'm not really sure what to do and whilst I know no one can tell me what direction to go in, I wondered if anyone could give me the benefit of their experience. I am doing well at my job in the UK, working hard and progressing, well thought of but I'm not sure how well this would transfer to the US job market and I am nervous about quitting my job here and moving over without any savings. Does anyone know what skills the US is seeking?
Any advice or opinions would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Regarding caps - some visas, yes. Others, no.
Many US citizens seem to think it would be easy for a foreigner to get a job. It's not, and it's probably not much different from a UK citizen's opinion of East Europeans getting a job in the UK, as right or wrong an opinion as that might be.
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Hi,
I live in the UK and have been dating my US boyfriend for 18mths. He lives in Manhattan. I work as an environmental consultant here in the UK. We want to live together in Manhattan however, the more research I do the less likely it looks as though it will happen without our marrying first. Everything I have read says that recruiters are unlikely to take you seriously unless you are already living in the city and is it right that there are visa caps?
My partner thinks I am being 'glass half empty' but as I see it, the job market is tough anyway, and it will be even more difficult trying to find a company to sponsor me whilst I am still in the UK.
I'm not really sure what to do and whilst I know no one can tell me what direction to go in, I wondered if anyone could give me the benefit of their experience. I am doing well at my job in the UK, working hard and progressing, well thought of but I'm not sure how well this would transfer to the US job market and I am nervous about quitting my job here and moving over without any savings. Does anyone know what skills the US is seeking?
Any advice or opinions would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
I live in the UK and have been dating my US boyfriend for 18mths. He lives in Manhattan. I work as an environmental consultant here in the UK. We want to live together in Manhattan however, the more research I do the less likely it looks as though it will happen without our marrying first. Everything I have read says that recruiters are unlikely to take you seriously unless you are already living in the city and is it right that there are visa caps?
My partner thinks I am being 'glass half empty' but as I see it, the job market is tough anyway, and it will be even more difficult trying to find a company to sponsor me whilst I am still in the UK.
I'm not really sure what to do and whilst I know no one can tell me what direction to go in, I wondered if anyone could give me the benefit of their experience. I am doing well at my job in the UK, working hard and progressing, well thought of but I'm not sure how well this would transfer to the US job market and I am nervous about quitting my job here and moving over without any savings. Does anyone know what skills the US is seeking?
Any advice or opinions would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
May not be an option for you, but the only way she did it is by applying for an MBA in NYC. They aren't cheap, but she's just finished her 2 year course. As you know, it's a highly valued degree. As soon as your done, you can easily get a high paid job in Manhattan. Companies love MBA graduates and through your course networking, you should have a stunner job lined up before you graduate.
The 2 years will buy you time and then you have however many years with the company after. Not sure about visas and things, but you cant work as a student, so you'd have to have money saved up in advance.
Could also buy you time to marry!
You can do 1 year MBAs, but my point is, its your route to a working visa or an alternative aftwards. And then maybe a greencard after.
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
A good institution helps, but only in the networking you mention...but it does as you say, get you time in the US.
#7
Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Sorry, but ROFL! The era when the MBA was the road to riches died along with the economy.
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
I'm convinced that it is the reason that I got my H1-B visa.
#9
Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Plus also the H-1B cap for people with advanced degrees fills up just as quickly anyway nowadays, although I haven't checked lately, maybe with the recession there's some minor hope.
But having been there, done that (I have an MBA), I am here to tell you that you are right in your assumption, if you get married it will be far easier because you don't have to have the immigration conversation with the employer.
Technically they aren't allowed to discriminate under the Civil Right Act but honestly just showing up at the POE with your US "boyfriend" and a pile of luggage in excess of what you take on holiday is going to raise eyebrows with CBP as that is a major indication of not having non-immigrant intent.
But having been there, done that (I have an MBA), I am here to tell you that you are right in your assumption, if you get married it will be far easier because you don't have to have the immigration conversation with the employer.
Technically they aren't allowed to discriminate under the Civil Right Act but honestly just showing up at the POE with your US "boyfriend" and a pile of luggage in excess of what you take on holiday is going to raise eyebrows with CBP as that is a major indication of not having non-immigrant intent.
#11
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Last years allotment didn't fill up till early this year, end of Jan/Feb or there abouts.
Current lot has a way to go.
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
And a good way, after marriage, company transfer, etc to get into the USA and then solid employment after.
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Re: Realistic or pessimistic
Dont agree at all. Many of the top companies still value them. A fresh candidate with an MBA, WILL get a better position and salary, over any other graduate. It may not be the fast track road to riches, but it's a very good start.
And a good way, after marriage, company transfer, etc to get into the USA and then solid employment after.
And a good way, after marriage, company transfer, etc to get into the USA and then solid employment after.
All they do is tick the box, but then so will any masters.
It's all about experience once you get to those top job positions and who you know anyway.